Will a guy lose interest if he overheards you saying you want a man with 9 inches and he secretly doesn't have a big one?

[MrOracle]

For a LOT of guys, ANY suggestion in ANY form that their dick size isn't big enough is a "nuclear option" - there is absolutely NO way to recover from it, ever. Essentially, you're telling the guy that he's not good enough and will NEVER be good enough, and it's not something he can fix or have any control over, so if he feels like he's never going to satisfy you, then he's got no reason to bother with you anymore. And that's ASIDE from the very hurt feelings he likely has - his logic alone says "I'm done with this one forever."

As much as you might think this is an unreasonable comparison, and in some respects it is, in other respects, it isn't: telling a guy (or letting him overhear you, or whatever) that his dick size isn't big enough for you is, for a guy, around the same level of unforgivable offense as a guy raping a girl. Guys have committed suicide from hearing words to that effect, and they've also murdered people over it. I'm not sure there's anything verbal that's equal in a woman's world, but imagine you'd been training to be a professional dancer or musician or painter or singer since you were 4 years old, working hours every day, and then you hear a guy talking about how terrible you are at this thing that you've devoted your life to - OH, AND you're ugly - and maybe you'd be in the ballpark of what a guy is going to feel.

That's not to say that all guys are this sensitive about it - many are not - but I'd say easily over half of all men would consider this a "nuclear event" that they'd NEVER be able to get past.

Many have been a girlfriend who is mad at her boyfriend over something relatively minor, and the girl blurts out that he has a small dick in order to hurt him, only to be shocked when he starts packing his crap and leaves forever, never uttering another word at her again. There's really no coming back from it.

[bowenw]

He's probably worried his dick size isn't up to your expectations after overhearing your conversation about wanting a 9 inch dick. Try to explain to him that girls joke about that kind of thing and you realize most dicks are not like a porn star's, just like guys talk amongst themselves about women with huge tits. If you're into this guy, tell him you like him.

[gecebutnotgecendayaa]

well, I don't know. but if you still want to have a chance, you should tell him that you don’t care for size

[sassyindiangirl]

He thinks of u as a girl who won't go for a guy below 9 obviously

[AustinMan]

If he does, I get the feeling he's not nearly dominant enough to show you what he can do. I'd make you gag on what ever I did have and then ask why you'd want more.

[magiusX26]

could be he feels like the 1st time you see his you will point and laugh, possibly already experienced something like that before. could be he doesn't care for someone who cares about size (does not indicate his size by the way). as to why he still tried to be with you after stating the body type difference was him trying to be more open minded and the size comnent makes him believe you would not be so open minded.

[Apope16]

I dont really think so. He won't "lose interest". I think because you are talking about sex he will want you MORE. He will want to fuck you for sure. But on the other hand even if he wants to sleep with you he may feel insecure if he isn't a big guy.

[Kiss_Me]

You already know the answer to this question. You may have given him the impression you NEED a huge dick to satisfy that Abys of a Vagina you have. For me, that would be an instant loss of interest.

[hellacray]

Well he probably thinks all you care about is the dick size.

I mean it's really no different than girls dating only for money.

I mean assuming you had a small bust and/or butt. How would you feel if you overheard him saying he wishes the girl had a bigger package?

[Natehunter199]

Every man is different and he probably took it as a insult.

Girls allways take about wanting a guy with a bigger cock untill they actually experience one.

[TadCurious]

I would lose interest because hearing that would mean she has no realistic idea about normal male genital anatomy.

[slatyb]

9 inches? The average for an American male is 5-1/2" Nine inches will be very rare. If that's what you demand, expect to remain single. That's like insisting you will only date guys who are at least 6'6" tall.

[Guanfei]

You've just told him he wasn't enough to satisfy you.

[boggboss]

It would be like him saying he want a girl that clearly don't look like you it would confirm he dont want you lol seems pretty simple

[genericname85]

yeah, very likely. guys tend oto be quite insecure about that.

[Valnac]

Even if you were joking, he heard it and will always replay in his mind.
Guys are insecure about that. And you just destroyed him.

[Stan_Control_]

If he's self-conscious about his penis size, he has lost interest.

[john23232323]

Well it's obvious he would feel like he isn't good enough for you

[iFarted]

There's a high chance that he'll be insecure about it now and will be put off.

[locutus9999]

you are being unrealistic a probably looking to much porn.

[Topherfreak]

Well I dont care but I also like to cram big toys in and make ubscream it snaps back believe me I've done some damage lol

[Anonymous]

yep, you made him feel inadequate and now he thinks he won't ever satisfy you.

[Anonymous]

If I were in his shoes yeah, I would probably lose interest because the 9 inches comment just makes you sound kinda whorish which is obviously very unappealing.

[Anonymous]

Well if my girl really loves 9 inch guy then I shall arrange her date with a 12 inch guy.