This is how men are?

[Anonymous]

I downloaded tinder and used a pretty skinny chick
and I got tons of matches, even the guys who matched with me on my real tinder did. I'm fat and ugly. that's disappointing I thought maybe a guy would like me for me.
but when something better comes along I'm left in the dust.
have fun with your porn, half naked chicks online and hot chicks online. cause I'm fucking done with men. I got all the answers I needed. And that means men suck. people on here kept trying to tell me different lmfao but it's not different. I knew men were like this so fuck off.
Almost every time you talk sexual to them they love it and bring it back to you. It's disgusting what's the point anymore? you dont even know how many times I've tried and I've tried to find something meaningful. I've tried bumble, tinder, hinge. they are all the same. I get it, I really do. you talk to me till someone better comes along and you dont just talk to me. You talk and flirt whenever the opportunity shows up, even with cheating. you realize how many men are on there cheating? I get it women do it too but women are a different story and time. They download dating or sex apps to get attention instead of leaving their partner when they are unhappy. I honestly am sickened by it. Its gross, and embarrassing. you guys are proud of yourselves? Why do men treat women like cars? Its absolutely disgusting?

[Danny_dan92]

Listen...


Being fat. Is not something that is desired. Accept the fact the the real problem here. Is not us guys preferring a woman who takes care of herself and isn’t overweight


And that it is that YOU are trying to divert the spotlight away from the fact that you do not improve your health by eating better and exercising daily to maintain a healthy or somewhat healthy weight.


No, I am not fat shaming you here either. Just giving you some “tough love” and keeping it real and straight up with you. I used to be a fat individual.


And instead of complaining why the vast majority of women didn’t find me attractive? I made some changes to my life and improved my health.


You should too. Stop ignoring the real issue and blame others for your inconveniences when it in all reality is your own wrong doing

[Asker]

I am, I am losing weight for my health. But you think guys are gonna date me after I lose it? No. I'm ugly.

[Danny_dan92]

Well I don't know how “fat” you are. But I will tell you this, I looked MUCH different when I was fat. Vs when I lost weight. You might now see it yet but you will in time

[Danny_dan92]

When I was fat, I did not get the female attention I do now. Let that give you some perspective

[Asker]

I dont want attention I wanna find the right guy.

[Danny_dan92]

Ok. I’m simply telling you the difference. And you will find “the right guy” by picking from the guys that will give you attention. Since it is usually guys that make the move

[Asker]

Ah I see what you mean. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

Like you said, women do the same exact thing. And why wouldn't you? Why would you intentionally choose to have less when you have the option to have more? It's not treating people like cars, it's treating yourself like you matter and deserve to be happy. So if you have the option to improve your life in any way, take it. It would be foolish not to.

[Asker]

I am, I'm trying to lose weight. Maybe I should just focus on that for a while. I guess I'd rather have loose skin than fat. A few guys have told me why pick a Honda over A Lamborghini (in regards to treating girls like cars)

[TonyV]

Uh I'm a fat guy and women dont match with me either, I've never had more than 10 matches at a time and I swipe left on everyone, I dont even look.
So it's not just guys, women are swallow too.
Dating apps are just kind of shitty in general

[Asker]

Agreed. You're handsome by the way.

[TonyV]

Thank you, I forgot I had a real pic now so I was suprised there lol

[perfectchaos]

More than 10! Never had more than 2!

[IAMNathanael]

Isn't that just how dating apps go? I think you might be looking in the wrong places. Maybe try someplace a little more wholesome like Christianmingle. Com or something.

[slatyb]

Maybe the problem is that you are an angry person.

[DavidFox]

Men like women are attracted to healthy bodies

[mich15smith]

I guess. but that to an extent is how humans are. There was this video when they made a profile with a model and told the women he matched with that he was a paedophile and they still wanted him so...

[Noodle_fan]

tinder huh? i only able to meet scammers there , lol

[Twalli]

If I am with you I say with you. I might find other girls attractive, but wandering eyes are a lot better than a wandering penis or wandering affections.

[Whtevernever]

What did you expect? Tinder is for random hookups.

[tallcuck]

Dating apps work best for narcisissts. You can always loose weight if you think it is the reason for being unsuccessful there. But i can reassure you, there are man who like fatties, but it is a minority. Overeating has negative consequences. You will be you even if you change. We all change one way or the other all the time.

[grega239]

Ooft...

[james_d0007]

No offence - the same goes for women too!!!

[Anonymous]

It is mostly about personality and your personality is negative and rude.

[Anonymous]

Congratulations, your evolution from woman to feminist is now complete.

Now, go find yourself a girlfriend and get on with your life.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol, you seem genuinely surprised that guys reacted negatively to you calling them disgusting and telling them they all suck. Do you always have this much trouble owning your shit?

[Anonymous]

Maybe the reason this happens to you if because you are a conceited, fat cow. If you were anything worth some effort, guys would treat you better.