OK, this is a factor about biology. Males were made to be able to spread their seed everywhere all the time with as many females as possible to pass along their genes and offspring. Men have an unlimited number of sperm, so it's expendable.
Women, on the other hand, have very few eggs. A few hundred thousand compared with billions upon billions of sperm that men have and produce for 62 plus years.
Women produce one egg a month, maybe two on occasion from age 15 to age 45-50.
So a man has 30+ MORE years to procreate with his billions of swimmers.
A woman has about 27 years: 18 to 45, relatively safely with a few hundred thousand eggs
Therefore, females are much more judicious about their procreative choices.
You say, I'm not talking about procreation, I'm talking about sex. BUT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT PROCREATION. Because the simple fact is birth control fails all the time. Women get pregnant. If she does, she has to decide if she wants this baby with YOU. So women ARE CHOOSY.
THey have to be. They need to pick men who will stay around until their children are ready to fledge from the nest and BEYOND!
Adult children need their parents too. THe luckiest adults have parents well into their adulthood and those parents help raise the children's young by contributing financially and with time. That is REPRODUCTIVE SUCCESS!!!
So, it's an unfortunate reality that women must choose carefully to have that success. Men go scattershot because they can. Women can't.
Women do have casual sex and one night stands and there are millions of them. I don't say women should have sex with everyone. I only said i hate the fact that women are extremely picky when it comes to sex. Most women don't feel strong lust to most men. Only tall, handsome, masculine guys are able to do that. Which they are very very minority of male population. Long term relationship type of men are not sexually appealing to most women much. Women are attracted to them emotionally and have sex with them for another reasons. But lust and arousal has nothing to do with long term relationship or emotional connection. It's mostly based on physical attraction.
Is this not obvious? Men don't feel LUST TO MOST WOMEN, either! Only to hot, sexy feminine women, or whatever it is that floats their boats. They are a minority of the female population, too. Lust and arousal, however, DOES have to do with healthy people in longterm relationships. WHy would a woman choose a man she isn't sexually attracted to to be in a longterm relationship? So she can fake orgasms or feel sex is a chore like mopping the floor? Sounds like a recipe for disaster. And what is a "Longterm relationship man?" I think most women choose a man for several reasons: attractiveness on a physical level, stability financially and emotionally and their particular desires when it comes to a longterm partner: sense of humor, intelligence, being handy, musical ability, hobbies, etc. There has to be a balance. I don't think there's a whit of difference between men and women when it comes to choice of longterm partners. If someone chooses a man ONLY for financial security and finds them physically loathesome, they aren't going to hang around long. If a woman chooses a man ONLY for physical attributes and he turns out to be a shiftless asshole, she's out of there quick too! There has to be balance.
You can feel connected to someone and even love without feeling much sexual attraction. There might be low level of physical attraction but when it comes to long term relationship a lot of women decide based on emotional attraction, personality and resources or status not physical / sexual attraction.
This is definitely untrue. Based on the large amounts of prostitutes that exist and the abundance of women that are sexually expressive in this generation, men can easily get sex regardless of their looks or social skills. In addition, women don't always have it easy when seeking sex. Women that aren't considered attractive would struggle wanting sex with attractive men. Instead, they are more likely to have sex with desperate men, whom are often considered unattractive, and are likely to take what they can get. It might seem easier for women to get sex from men because of the large number of desperate men that doubt their abilities, struggle with women, or refuse to put in the effort to approach the women they want. Simply put, if you're a man with looks that aren't considered attractive or have poor social skills, my advice is to seek women that are in your league. For example, men should look in the mirror and list all the sexually appealing characteristics about themselves. If they can't name any, then they are better off approaching women that likely can't name anything sexually appealing about themselves either. Thus, they would have a better chance of not being rejected based on looks. However, if such men are unhappy with this, then they ought to make themselves more sexually appealing such as by working out at the gym, improving their hygiene, fashion, hairstyles, and so on. Social skills is something that can be worked on with practice. The more men approach the women they're interested in, the better they get at talking to women. Instead of complaining, go out there and put in the effort.
Basic mammalian biology. Females have a lot more skin in the game than men so things evolved to today's paradigm: males compete, females choose.
Women are selfish creatures. I fully understand you, women should have sex with normal guys too.
I don't say they should have sex with anyone they can do whatever they want it's just i hate the fact it's so hard for guys.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!With this logic, it takes two to tango. The guy in this scenario is in fact getting laid. He's getting together with women willing to give him sex. What about girls that most men don't find attractive, or women who don't want to have sex with just anyone? You're complaining it's so hard for women, yet I know that not every girl can get any guy she might want either.
5% of men get 95% of the sex.
I disagree with this.
Yeah but what we really want—love and GOOD sex—is a lot harder to get.
Yes it sucks but get use to it because it doesn't get any easier
Cuz women have a say over their own body
I agree
Yes!
That shouldn't piss you off, that's just human nature
Because women are women
Female privilege lol
Aww somebody get this boy laid! Lol you can always buy one if you are desperate.
But srsly i think it's bc women consciously or unconsciously looks for men who can be with them for the long term which is why the standards are so high. While guys can deal with an emotionless sex easier than women do. I don't know just an opinion dont cry people 🤷♀️
I don't have lack of sex it's just too much work for guys.
Also there are millions of women have casual sex so what are you talking about?
that's just how we roll baby 🔥
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