If a man doesn’t talk about sex or dirty talk with you often, does it mean he isn’t interested in you?

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Nigjt · Accepted Answer

Well remember not all Men are the same okay.
Do for some Men like me that are very very dirty minded yes if we start out or begin to do that to u then that mean's we are losing interest in u an that's where u Women need to be able an willing to keep are sex drive up in u by not only trying new things but by not always leaving it up to us all the time because that's where or when we do lose interest in u.
U have to remember that u are the one incontrol of when we can have some to u have to be the one's to just take that Dick when u want it.
God Bless

Not_Average · Accepted Answer

I’m more of an action guy personally. I rather just go for it rather than trying to finesse you with words and subtle hints. It’s served me well and I think more guys ought to be more bold in their approach rather than dancing around the possibility of sex trying to gain indirect approval on whether or not it’s safe to initiate sex. If you’re a guy and poetic with your words, then go for it. It’s just not my thing.

Zannika02 · Accepted Answer

My current guy did no sexting or very sexual talk prior to us actually getting physical. Was even slow to kiss me. I found it refreshing but also almost thought he was a virgin. Lol totally not the case but was kinda nice to learn his sexually side after months of taking it slow.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

No, it simply means he might not be interested in that kind of foreplay. Some people like talking dirty, others don't. He might be more of a man of "action."

haflelife · Answer

No, he can be interested in you, but he is just not excited about you, i am very warm so i wouldn't let a relationship with the right woman get colder, everybody has it's own personality.

jack187625 · Answer

Some people aren't into talking about it. He also might be worried about bringing it up in this modern day culture. Does NOT mean he isn't into you, have you tried broaching the subject yourself?

ArrowheadSW · Answer

It could mean that he IS interested in you and just doesn't want to be ungentlemanly and bring up sex inappropriately.

mistixs · Answer

Maybe he is shy

spartan55 · Answer

No, it doesn't.

Newhead · Answer

We don't know, he's not our boyfriend. He could be boring, shy, have low sex drive, who knows.

AndyOh · Answer

Wow, I might talk about sex now and then or even dirty talk, but I don't talk about it a lot. And yes I would still be quite interested in you. Funny how times have changed so much.

Vviiccttoorr · Answer

He could just be a respectful guy. I always like to mention to women on here to not fall for the “I love you now let’s have sex” guy. He could possibly not be interested but, if you guys are talking and he’s a good guy then he’s most likely being respectful. That’s what I’d do if I were him.

Jenom · Answer

It could mean he respects you.

TadCurious · Answer

No, it means he has some class.

sacajawea · Answer

YA think maybe he's just being decent? Maybe he is shy about some subjects. Talk with him. Not talk at him, but with him. Best wishes.

bowenw · Answer

He may just be bashful or not into talking dirty or about sex. I doubt he's not into you unless it was something he used to do and has stopped. If you'd like him to talk dirty to you suggest it.

es20490446e · Answer

Most of the time it means he is shy.

genericname85 · Answer

may or may not. it's not really a good way to know whether he's interested or not.

oncpl · Answer

Not necessary. He may dislike dirty talk or is hesitant.

FriendlyEnigma · Answer

Not necessarily. He might not be interested in sex as much as other people, he could be ace (or on the spectrum), he might have had past negative experiences or traumas.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, he just might not be into that. But you should ask him.

bannacookies · Answer

That would be an abrupt pick up line.

OddBeMe · Answer

In a relationship? Or just friends?

Valnac · Answer

Not necessarily, some guys are shy. Some respect women and don’t think that’s appropriate. Society has ingrained guys you can’t talk to women like that, especially in the workplace.