How to satisfy a guy who wants sex constantly?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, my boyfriend and used to live close by and have a normal sex life. He moved away a few months ago and so we’ve become long distance. He comes to visit me once every two months, but we haven’t been able to have sex for the past 6 months because I had to go off my meds for a medical condition that makes sex painful for me. I am finally back on my meds and he is visiting for a week. Now all he wants to do is have sex at every waking moment. It was fun at first but then I started getting sore down there. I can tell that he’s kind of disappointed that I can’t have sex 24/7 but I just can’t keep up with him.

[bowenw]

Just be honest with him and tell him you can't keep up with him. It's you're body after all. Tell him you understand that he enjoys getting off, and you're okay with him masturbating. If he's into you more than sexually he'll understand. If it's a deal breaker for him he may need to find a new girlfriend.

[Vickymoore9]

I’m not a Dr but I’ve had to be on different medications over the years for mental health issues. I had bad side effects from different medications and just stopped them. I consulted with my dr as well I use pot and other natural supplements. If your taking a drug that makes sex painful you have to use common sense! This drugs doing terrible things to you body worse they what it’s supposed to cure or help.

[Asker]

No I have a condition that makes sex painful. The meds make it possible for me to have sex without pain. But due to some financial issues I had to go off my meds for a while and I couldn’t have sex for like 6 months. But now I’m back on the meds and everything is fine.

[Vickymoore9]

Have you tried pot to see if it works CBD is amazing as well also lubes

[Asker]

I’ve never tried it. My condition isn’t the issue here though. He just wants to go at it all the time and I don’t.

[Vickymoore9]

Maybe he needs another partner then

[Asker]

We usually don’t have this problem, we just haven’t been able to have sex in months and now I guess he’s making up for the lost time.

[Vickymoore9]

Yeah going to another DR second opinion most Dr suck not sure you ability to see different DR. I fired so many dr over the years lol if they can help or referral to another who may move on. It just sounds like a shit show why I suggested the two moving on you don’t sound like your going to change medical treatment and his desires aren’t going away it’s just sounds like mounting of frustration forward

[Vickymoore9]

You could move to oral sex but I’m taking since your minds didn't take to it naturally your not into or good at it but a hand job and blow job can still get the job done

[Asker]

I never said I was bad at sex. I’m very good at sex and can give a mind blowing bj. I’m typically fine with having sex when I’m properly medicated. I just haven’t had my meds in a while. I am re-acclimating to the meds, and he’s just super horny cause we haven’t had sex in six months.

[Newhead]

What medical condition is that? maybe you to are not compatible sexually.

[JPrez]

I would say get a blow up doll but they are expensive to rent. Next option, try a strip tease game or do a fun card game or board game where clothes come off or you just answer dirty questions. If you do the sex act, then you rest and let him take care of your needs.

[AustinMan]

Maybe you can talk to him, tell him your body just can't take the nonstop sex. Ask him what the two of you could do to make sex when you have it more gratifying.

[summiter]

Give him tons of handjobs and bjs... guys love them also besides sex. When you are apart try doing Skype or Facetime sex. It is fun to watch each other get off.

[_RandomGuy_18]

Just give him head be glad someone you love is that attracted to you. Some people would kill for that.

[Asker]

There are plenty of people that are attracted to me. If he wasn’t I could simply find someone else who was.

[_RandomGuy_18]

Wow, that is legit the coldest shit I've ever heard. Congrats on proving that women are trash

[Asker]

That was not cold in the slightest. You said that I should be grateful that he finds me attractive. But I’m an attractive girl, tons of people find me attractive. He doesn’t deserve a medal for thinking and attractive girl is attractive.

[triff]

Disappointed or not doesn't cut it Ask yourself this Am I sex doll or a human being Am I his girlfriend or am I his covenanted spem dump You shouldn't have to perform on anyones say so A law was written to protect the woman from such abuse Thats why we have sexual assault and rape Laws I know or rather understand he isn't a sx fiend 2 months seems a long gap for him to take

[slatyb]

It's perfectly reasonable for you to say "enough".

To prevent chafing, use lube.

[MikeTheBartender]

Let him shoot a few loads on the face or boobs to give downstairs a break.

[Wise4myage]

I see no reason why you can't alternate with oral sex part of the time. That would make your kitty feel better, lol.

[Jmmmfi4]

Well your mouth isn't sore is it?

[Asker]

After a while my jaw starts to hurt. But I don’t specifically mean vaginal sex. I don’t want to have sexual interactions 24/7.

[Silvius]

Blowjob and handjob

[Asker]

I do that too, but I don’t want to do that all the time either.

[Silvius]

Keep up the good job

[bclbn77006]

you will never satisfy a male who is a sex maniac.
rather, one day he will leave you after satisfied with you.

[Anonymous]

Have sex once daily and he'll be happy.

[Anonymous]

i bet he had to ask you out first

[Asker]

What makes you assume that? What does that even have to do with the question.

[Opinion Owner]

i was being sarcastic and speaking of my life-long hatred of how guys, men, are expected to make the first move or talk to women first, but anyway, i know there are plenty of self-help porn videos that are helpful, that were made for the intention of helping

[Asker]

It’s not that I’m bad in bed. I know how to have sex. After a while it just gets exhausting and sore.

[Opinion Owner]

are you like most girls in which you feel its the guys role to make the first move or ask the girl out? but yes, i know there are helpful tutorial porn videos out there

[Asker]

I asked him out. But why does that matter. How is a YouTube video supposed to teach me how to not be exhausted and sore?

[Opinion Owner]

i don't mean a youtube video, i meant porn sites

[Asker]

How is porn supposed to teach me not to be exhausted and sore?

[Opinion Owner]

i know there are helpful porn videos out there that were made with the intention to help people satisfy their partners more

[Asker]

Once again, I know how to have sex. I can literally make that man nut back to back. He just never gets tired.

[Opinion Owner]

then i'm not sure how else to help you, anyway, its awesome and admirable that you asked him out first, how did you and him first meet? it would be a dream come true for me, i'd be on cloud 9 if a woman ever did that to me, that is, if i was already attracted to her.

[Asker]

Welp, we were at an orientation event freshman year of college. It was a mandatory event, but he and I both happened to get bored and decided to sneak out at the same time and collided at the door. We started talking. We got to know each other, and since he was the first person I hit it off with at college I declared that we should be best friends. And so we were best friends and gym buddies. Then one day he offered to go down on me. It didn’t seem like a big deal to me since I’ve had like friends with benefits relationships before. So he just went down on a regular basis for like a month or two. Then we finally decided to have sex and I popped his man cherry (I took his virginity). I spent the night in his dorm, and then he asked me to spend the night again and again every night after that indefinitely. After a few weeks of living in his dorm I decided to ask him to be my boyfriend. And ever since then we’ve been together and I’ve lived in his dorm in the men’s buildings every semester except this one due to covid.

[Opinion Owner]

well thats awesome and very admirable of you, i have high-functioning autism, so reading and understanding social cues has been difficult for me, thats why i would prefer it if a girl was upfront with me or made it obvious that she is interested in me

[Asker]

My boyfriend also has high functioning autism.

[Opinion Owner]

well that gives me inspiration and hope, a person should never be too old or too late for relationships right?

[Asker]

Nothing is impossible. People find love all the time in all sorts of places. You never know when it’ll find you.

[Opinion Owner]

do you know of couples who didn't meet the love of their life until their 30s or more?

[Asker]

No, not really. I don’t think I know anyone who has met the love of their life. My grandparents hated each other. All my aunts are single mothers. My mom hates my dad, and she’s currently trying to divorce my stepfather. I’m not sure if my boyfriend is my love of my life. I don’t even honestly believe in that stuff. I just know that I’m happy now. All that I know is that I’m happy now. Find someone who makes you happy and then ride that wave until they don’t make you happy anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

i know i would be on cloud 9 if a girl made the first move on me or asked me out first, that is, if i was already attracted to her, it would feel like i won the lottery.

[Asker]

Some girls do it. Some don’t

[Opinion Owner]

it just sadly seems rare for girls to be the initiator in starting a relationship with a guy, even if they really desire or are attracted to a certain way

[Asker]

Welp

[Opinion Owner]

what do you mean by that?

[Asker]

That’s just how things are. You can’t force someone else to ask you out. Why don’t you just make the first move?

[Opinion Owner]

i felt it was never in my nature

[Asker]

So you’re a wuss?

[Opinion Owner]

i don't know how else to describe it

[Asker]

Don’t be a wuss then

[Opinion Owner]

i never understood why it makes a guy look weak if he doesn't make a move on a woman, does it mean that he won't be able to protect her?

[Asker]

It makes everyone look weak to me. If you’re too scared to get what you want then you’re a wuss.

[Anonymous]

Change it up. Blowjobs, hand jobs, anal.