Does this mean he doesn't always cum?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are both in our very early 20s and I'm on birth control so he ejaculates inside me. I've noticed something though. Sometimes after he cums inside me, his penis goes down and after about 5 minutes, he gets rock hard again and cums again in like an hour. Sometimes after he cums in me, he stays rock hard for a few minutes after he cums but he turns down more sex because he says he won't cum again, and sometimes after he cums in me, he goes soft and won't really get hard again for awhile even if I put it in my mouth. Does this have anything to do with his orgasm inside me during the first round? If he is staying rock hard after he cums inside me, is that safe to say that the first orgasm wasn't great or enough? If he gets rock hard again after sex just from me playing with it, does that mean he wasn't satisfied the first time? I've heard that if a guy cums, he will go soft for awhile after sex and it will be hard for him to really get hard or cum again. If he is able to get rock hard and cum again within 30 minutes, does that mean he wasn't satisfied with the first round of sex? And sometimes, his dick does go down after sex like he's spent. But when he is staying hard after sex or getting hard and cumming again very shortly after sex, does that mean his orgasm wasn't very satisfying the first time? Please help.

[haflelife]

In my case it is not about being spent, it's about having no more desire to continue, if i want to i can fuck all night while ejaculating multiple times, of course if you use the member too much it will become sore, might even hurt a little and you simply won't feel the need to fuck more the other day, every part of our body needs some time to recover after being used excessively. The more he cums and the stronger it is he will feel less need to keep fucking, and unless his desire is just too big he will most likely stop, our testicles do not produce sperm that fast.

[Asker]

So if he is staying rock hard after sex or getting hard very quickly after sex, does that mean that he didn't cum or that his first orgasm wasn't very good? Sometimes he cums again in like 30 minutes which is a really short amount of time if he just came. And other times, his. dick just goes back down and he rests..

[haflelife]

yes, there is no need to keep fucking if there is not enough sperm to get out, but a very strong desire will be enough to get it hard again even if there is no sperm ready.

[Asker]

I always see his cum run out of me though. Is he just not cumming very good with me if he is able to. cum again soon after sex? He swears that I give him good orgasms but I don't know

[haflelife]

i don't think there is such a thing as "bad orgasm" for guys lol, if you cum too fast it will be weaker, if you take a long time to cum it will be stronger, but either one of them still feels good, it doesn't have anything to do with you, but his desire of you, to me girls feel more pleasure than guys with extended periods of sex, i'm just as happy to give orgasms than to have them 😁

[Asker]

If he cums fast, does that mean his desire of me was strong?

[haflelife]

yes, while you are just enjoying sex we have to be worried not to get too excited :/

[virgin20]

Not at all. He always does, why wouldn't he? Cumming in a girl is the best feeling so why not do it.
It depends on how long it went on for and things like if it was a long session he's more likely to go soft. If it was short then there's a chance he can go hard again very quickly. At least that's what happens with wanking. Every time is different but I wouldn't worry about this I'm sure if he can he does

[Asker]

So if he stays rock hard after Cumming in me or gets rock hard shortly after cumming in me, that doesn't mean he wasn't satisfied during the first round?

[virgin20]

I don't think so. I think he just went very quick and then the muscle is more ready to go another round. Like my mate can have sex 6 times in 6 hours and cums every time. Every guy has different recovery rates. I don't think it's anything to do with you, he should feel lucky he's able to cum inside

[dudeinohio]

Don't overthink physical reactions. The human body is inconsistent. He likely loved all the sex you had... each time.

[Twalli]

For me it depends on how long it's been since we had sex. If we've been apart for a long time I am more likely to get hard and go again than otherwise

[Valnac]

I don’t have that problem.

[TotallyAlmost]

I can cum, stay hard and just keep fucking until I cum again. It has nothing to do with the quality of the organization, just serial health and natural ability.

[Z1pTD]

Nah that's not too unusual

[Anonymous]

my guess is, he ejaculates a large quanity of semen