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My best female friend loves my penis, and ask me dickpics, but she is engaged. What should I do?

First of all, i will explain some important things.
I met this girl 3/4 month ago. Since we met, there has been a feeling. After 2 weeks, our friendship was very strong, I don't know why, but we were really connected to each other. We were almost always together. I am a very sweet, caring, affectionate, emotional and protective guy, and she really appreciate these things. We fell in love. She said she was delighted to have found a guy like me, and was very much in love with me. But we weren't engaged, just in love, but we seemed engaged, she was crazy about me. We also kissed, and touched. With time, we had hotter conversations, and one night he asked me for a dickpick, and I sent it to her. She was amazed, told me my penis was huge, she was very horny, due to the size. She often started asking me for dickpick, very often. But after about 1 month, she told me that she didn't love me anymore, because she liked another guy. I asked her for explanations, told me she didn't know why, but she kept telling me that I am the most special person she has ever met. She decided to get engaged with him. She and I became best friends, we text each day and she still cares about me, and says she absolutely doesn't want to lose me, I'm too important she says.

Important: regarding my penis, she only saw my photos and videos, and when we kissed she touched my penis. But we never had sex.

And now comes the question.
A few days ago, while we chatting, she told me that she still thought about my penis. She literally said to me "Matthew I miss your cock", "it's so big", "I love your cock" and other hot messages. We started having very hot conversations about sex again, and she asked me for dickpick again, and I sent them to her. BUT SHE IS ENGAGED WITH ANOTHER GUY, WTF. She says it's our little secret, but I'm very confused. But I know that she still has some feelings for me, and she is jealous of me. Does she love me again? Or does she only want to fuck? IM SO SO CONFUSED, really. Help!
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Superb Opinion

  • Sounds like she has attention seeking disorder. This type of disorder includes high sexual activity. It’s like a drug and can make her seem passionate but she probably has no emotional connection to you but a sexual one. You’re giving her the sexual attention she craves but it’s not solving her real needs. This typically happens in girls who had no fatherly influence. If this is indeed her issue, you can’t fix her and you’ll only end up hurting yourself. She’ll keep pining for you long after the marriage unless you end it. Just my opinion.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Ask her directly -- What do you want? Ate you having second thoughts about your engagement and want me to be there if you break it off? Are you looking for a fling before the wedding?

    Then decide if you want to participate in whatever it is.

    • I asked her directly before she asked me for new dickpic, and says she want just to be friends, but now maybe i have to ask again. Because she is horny when see my dick, and lately this happen often. About second thoughts, do you think she treats me like a plan b, a sort of an option?

    • She wouldn't be the first. Sometimes people enter engagements but are uneasy. Still they are afraid of breaking it off and being alone. Knowing that someone is waiting for them makes it easier. I'm skeptical that she's really keen on this marriage. I would ask her if she's really happy with her prospective marriage. If she says yes then I would tell her "I can't continue being sexual with you when you are committed to someone else." How do you feel? Would you be interested in dating her if she were single? If you would, then you can tell her that too. If you care for her, you should tell her that you will support whatever decision she makes.

Most Helpful Girls

  • She seems manipulative... When she was single I ask why didn't she go to u 4 sex? That would have been the most logical since ur dixk makes her sooo hot. More like she loves u pining for her and her having this guy friend who is awesome that she can confide in and talk dirty to, but that she wants to keep in a way she can dictate. Dude sounds like she cast her spell and ur infatuated but she is using u...

    • she's virgin, anyway, we hadn't sex cause covid, we met 3 days/week (at university), and due to covid rules, i can't go in her apartment, and she can't come at my home because i live in a different city. These are rules of my country while there is lockdown. But also because she was not sure to have sex. But know, I don't know what does she want from me. I don't know if she is using me

    • What do u want? To me she is taking advantage of ur friendship and stringing u along.

  • sounds like she's only interested in your dick, bro. and since she's engaged that's messed up, you need to set some boundaries either she breaks up with her fiancée or you guys need to talk about your friendship cos that shit ain't normal

    • Yes she "also" interested in my dick. But she's also interested of me, as a person i mean. She always says that she's jealous, and love my sweetness, we chat often, if she cries she ask me help, she basically tells me all about her life, she is good with me. Yeah i know it's a mess. Last evening, while she was horny watching my videos, right because she was horny, she says things without control herself, like "do you image if u come inside me, we will be mom and dad :happyemoticon:" or "yeah matthew all in my throat", i mean she was without control, and it seems that she want to fuck with me, after a little she says to herself "oh my god wtf i just said, im engaged, but it's our secret ahah". I think we are both confused, maybe we have just to talk...

    • yep cos she shouldn't be fucking with your feelings like dah while she has a fiancee and you should try not to come between a couple its fucking dangerous, bro

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  • That's NOT OK- you need to set boundaries that platonic friends have.

    • First i want to know what she want do with me. Because i mean, I don't know if she want to fuck, I don't know if she want to be just close friends, or broom friends. But if she will continue to masturbate on my dick pick, after a while, there will be a choice, i mean if she want to stop to do this or do something more. Because at some point it will come naturally to me to say "listen, I would like to do something more, what do you think?" But I don't know how to ask her

  • I see nothing in your question that can be taken as specified love interest of a romantic context. My best friend when I was young was a girl two months older than me, and that made her feel grown up and I didn't mind her assuming a leadership role in our friendship. When she had too use the toilet in front of me when I was almost 10, (she was a few days older than ten, which somehow equaled her being a year my senior in her mind, which didn't bother me.) she got really mad at me for seeing her pee, and when our single moms started going out once a week for ladies night activities, mom indicated that Brenda would probably benifit from me following her lead, as a little adult responsibility would boost her self esteem. I was on board, and before I knew it, Brenda was bathing me and performing regular hygiene and development inspections as well as skin inspections for rash, poison oak, and melanoma. These inspections went on into high school and included testicular and prostate digital exams. We both enjoyed it, and I always erected at her attention and her supervising physical checkups at the doctor or nurses office.
    My point, she wasn't my girlfriend, she was my female buddy, and we both enjoyed the attention she gave my birthday suit.

  • Okay, either you distorted da faq out of the timetable or you are both nuts.

  • no such thing as "just friends"... unless you're gay

    • Close friends, unless she want to become broom friends

  • Omg, run! She is just having you on and obviously doesn’t have respect for either of you.

  • How does she likes your penis? Has she ever seen it?

  • tell her she has to take the pics-get together and bang her. Its about cold feet and its going to be someone so might as well be you you lucky bastard. Should be some hot sex but walk away after.

    • Yeah, but i dont understand her. She dont want to send pic, because one of her ex boyfriend spammed on the internet her photo. So i asked her (we are chatting due to covid) if she allow me to suck her tits (they are very big and i love them) one day. And she said "no matthew im engaged now". BUT WTFFF, you ask me for my cock, you masturbate on my cock videos while u are engaged with another guy, and then you say me that... WTF. Really weird This is an unbalanced situation, how can she expect that i only "give" her, while she doesn't "give" me nothing, he has tons of my dick video. Tecnically she is cheating, right? I mean she's masturbating on someone else cock, cock of his best friend, not cock of her boyfriend. Really weird situation

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