Has Anyone Ever Tried To Use Sex To Try To Control/Manipulate You?

Has Anyone Ever Tried To Use Sex To Try To Control/Manipulate You?
Disclaimer: This is not meant for anyone to assume/ bash a whole gender. This is about if YOU EVER personally went through this...
Some men think just women use sex to manipulate/control men when the TRUTH is this is not a gender characteristic, but rather the tendency, a characteristic of a Narcissistic person...

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  • Well once upon a time there was this blondie lady who lived on the other side of the planet, her name starts with the letter V, she doesn't get enough sleep and she always feel migraine pain in her head, she seduced me to her house, i thought that i'm going to get something delicious, suddenly she smiled and told me: "do you feel something?" Well my answer was: "nothing can work with me unless i take..." and suddenly she replied: "oh i know, the blue pill (viagra)" and i told her: "NOOOOO, my only magical pill is a big special MUFFIN", so she said: "and where can i find a muffin for you and it takes time to bake some", i told her:" no worries, it's in your forehead"... i jumped and bit her forehead, everything was so messy, i left a muffin 🧁 in the crime scene
    In the end no one found the trace of the king and the victim who's name remained mysterious and the journals used the word of "MISS MUFFIN'S" to point at the victim...

    THE END!

    • Okay, yeah that was just... Why does that come off serial killer ish

    • Because i'm the ZØDIAC 😈

    • Miss brains muffins queen of muffin's kingdom, how's the Christmas decorations going? 😊 Leave the star so i put it on the top of the tree, only the king puts the star above the Christmas tree 😌 Jingle bell... jingle bell... jingle bell ROCKS! 🔔 Cheers miss brains 🥂

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Most Helpful Guy

  • When I was in highschool and a little after, I was dating this girl who had me totally wrapped around her finger. I didn't even understand how bad it was. She tried to weaponise sex lol. Only once I moved on from her I never let another chick do that to me again.

    If she really loves and respects you, it's gonna take a looong time before she does anything like that to you. Like I get it, a little bit of that can be fun and kinda an easy for a girl to get their point across quick if they feel like they're not being taken seriously. Here and there, that kind of thing is almost a little cutsie.

    But you need sex to be healthy. It's on a similar level to maintaining a balanced and diverse diet. You're not gonna die, but you're much healthier for doing it. Anyone who will straight up not have sex with their partner for more than a week to do what? Prove a point or something, you're lucky to have someone to put up with you I guess.

    • I agree 💯 anyone who yes to use sex as a weapon, or a form of control or manipulation don't deserve that person in their life... I'll play card games, board games, I don't play mind games

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not really in a negative way.

    I have a F-W-B that is very charismatic and manipulates me into all sorts of controlling, or even forceful things sexually, but being a submissive in the bedroom anyway, I love that.

    I know that many girls have abusive relationships and have it done to them in a negative way, which I hate hearing about. I have seen many posts about it on GAG so I know they are out there :(

    LOVE if your a submissive but HATE if your not
    LOVE if your a submissive but HATE if your not
    • Love that you get the difference. Submitting sexually in the bedroom is not the same as someone using sex to manipulate someone's behavior or the relationship dynamic outside the bedroom

    • 100% :)

    • 💜🤗

  • Not me. And I think gender will show a large difference women don't care about sex enough. You never see a older female virgin unless it is her choice. Men a different story

    • Not bashing guys use emotional manipulation more

    • There's lots of ways to manipulate people though sex, not just withholding sex, more when they know you enjoy it, they think that means they can treat you anyway they want and you'll put up with it, just cuz they're good in bed. But no sex, even good sex is worth someone trying to manipulate or control you... And some woman do care about sex, not all women don't like or don't want sex... To me sex is an important part in a relationship. But just sex with nothing else to back it up will only go so far

    • No there's hundreds of ways to use sex as a weapon I agree. It's not that women don't care specifically it's that it's easy for us to get or easier if we want it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • yes... a lot of women have, and a lot of women found that it doesn't work on me.

  • No. I feel women would do this to men more than a man might do it to a woman.

    • That's not necessarily true. Is there women that do that, yes... But there is men that do that as well.. a lot if times it's another way for a Narcissistic person to try to exert their power/control over someone

    • Thats what I said both do it but a women might do it more to a man than the other way around

    • This wasn't about who does it more, it was about if anyone did to you... Anything else is just assumption

  • I can only think of one lady and that was over 20 years ago. She was recently out of a marriage and I guess it was her way to try to "rope me in". And she was verbally and emotionally abusive and I got out of that situation FAST.

    • Yeah, people that do that, best to stay clear

  • Yes, OFTEN, with how she dresses, and cries, and uses that as manipulation, to get her way. One, maybe two dates, and done with that BULLSHIT!!

    • Yeah noone needs that BS

  • I controlled an X as a Sub made her hang on taking her to the peak and stopping her Cumming if that counts haha

    • No cuz that's not the kind of control I mean lolol

  • Thankfully not yet but I could see that being a factor in my future 🤔

    • Not if you find the right woman... Not all women use sex as a way to control or manipulate... Just like it's not just men who go through that... Because usually people that do that have narcissistic tendencies and that doesn't discriminate against gender,

    • Interesting... That makes sense

  • Happened to me back in my 20’s. This girl was sultry and attractive and hooked me as I was young and inexperienced. I willing slept with her and when I realized she was toxic, I broke it off. She then shows up at my place and used every trick in her playbook, shall we say, and seduced me back in. She did this for a month or two until we finally split but she knew how to get to me through sex. Learning experience for sure.

    • Yeah I foolishly let myself get sucked in by someone like that once... Beer really stupid to let em suck me back in... Get to the point, NO SEX is worth that...

    • Agree. Some people are just very manipulating. 👍

    • True

  • That would be a mission impossible 🤣
    They have to compete with my gym time, pc time, my time with my family, beard activity time, etc... 😂

    • 😂😂😂

    • @Jaximus-Lion The key to maybe succeed with that is to not giving up, but It's hard not to give up when the competition is THAT big. So I guess you are correct.

  • Nah.

    • Glad to hear it! If they did, I'd hunt em down 💜🤗

    • Aww. U would have 2 be fast cuz my brothers would be all over it🤪

    • I'm glad you have brothers to look out for you 😂🙏🏼

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  • In a sense yeah. Didn’t work

    • Yeah there's a difference between submitting sexually, to someone using sex to control the relationship dynamic

    • Exactly. I don’t play that game.

    • Got sucked in once, never again... I blame myself more... And lonliness not a good enough excuse, but live and learn

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  • My first Girlfriend blamed me for the fact when we tried to have sex it didn't work and made it a big thing till I aboard the train home. Turns out she still blamed me enough to dump me on chrsitmas day.

    • Sorry to hear that 🙏🏼

  • Yeah. Long time ago.

    • Well glad you're not in that situation anymore, 💜🙂

    • Thank you ❤️

    • 🤗🤗

  • Girls have tried, but I never gave enough of a shit to let it happen. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    • That's good... I don't no why anyone, male or female, thinks it's okay to try to do to someone

  • I'd never use sex to manipulative a woman and my last ex-girlfriend tried pressuring me into having sex with her but I didn't let it go there and I just broke it off with her

    • That's good 👍🙂

    • @brainsbeforebeauty Thanks 👍

    • Welcome 🤗

  • Not that I'm aware of. If it happens in the future Haha jokes on them, I don't even like sex

    • 🤣🤣

  • Every single relationship with a female.

    • Well then you must be picking the wrong females 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • I'm controlled and manipulated by anyone I'm attracted with anyway so why would we they have to try and get me laid? lol... this is a 75% joke answer... well maybe 50%... rights lets settle on 25% and move on! lol

    • 🤣🤣🤣

  • A few times... they went home unfucked.

    • That's good! I don't get why people think that's ok or that it will actually work

  • No but I'm open to it

  • No, doggone it!

    • Lol don't mean in a sub/Dom way lol more in a manipulative, control you or the relationship dynamic

    • Not me. That was the bi-polar freako who married my brother-in-law. She went through 3 guys and their money, and is now with a fourth.

    • Well least your brother's away from that now

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