How often do you prefer your partner masturbate after having regular sex with you?

This girl I am seeing asked me how much i masturbate. i told her everyday. She got freaked by that. She said because we are having sex she wants to me to save it for her. Weird?
Every day is fine
Vote A
Once per week
Vote B
A few times per month
Vote C
Never. If we are having sex my partner shouldn't need to masturbate at all
Vote D
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  • People get a little weird about this and try to take over others sexuality just because they are in a relationship with them. It’s not healthy, you are each responsible for your own sexuality and if that means you need to masturbate in addition to having regular sex with your partner to feel sexually fulfilled and In tune with yourself sexually there is nothing wrong with that. Now if it gets in the way of the sex and sexual connection you have with your partner then it is a problem but until then it should be no business of hers how much you masturbate

Most Helpful Guy

  • it depends on how much sex one is having with their partner...

    guys seem to have an urge to masturbate more often than girls do, and even after having very satisfying sex, we seem to get the urge to jack off... i think its because we like our orgasms and we like the feel of our own dick in our hand, AND its just the way we want it, and without all the fluff and foreplay leading up to it... Gitter' Done!

    if she wants you save it for her (as MOST girls do), tell her that she had better get prepared to have sex a lot more often and at random times, because if she doenst want you to jack off, you still need relief... so she will have to be the one to help you out... or someone else... her choice.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I really do not care as long as he still wants to have sex with me. Some men feel like unloading and enjoy masturbating everyday, who am I to take that way from him..

    Unless you want to make babies there is no need in saving it for her.. I assume masturbation feels completely different than having sex with your girlfriend as it is two very different things. You need to explain this to her and keep your right to satisfy yourself that way. Maybe once in a while it can be fun to wait some days but it is your call.

  • Whenever he wants or needs to as long as it doesn't get in the way of making love to me.

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  • It's up to you how much you masturbate and why you'd TELL someone is odd to begin with. I'd think that was quite personal. And that she demand you "save it for her," is just as bizarre. Demands are not healthy when it comes to sex.

  • Since you are choking the chicken so frequently, she believes that she is not satisfying you and she wants an opportunity to take care of that for you. Not a weird request.

  • As long as it does not affect your sex life go for it often As you know all guys jerk off frequently.. they just will never admit it.

  • I'd prefer it if they just had sex with me but they can do what they want

  • I don't care

  • Every day is fine. I do both.

  • I don't care how much he does, but when I want, I better gwt

  • I see where she is coming from

    But if you have a lot of jizz in your tank she shouldn't have to worry

    Right?

  • It's better if the boy doesn't play around on his own if he's having regular sex, cause they would contribute to cumming too fast since they get used to their hand over a warm vagina. you want lessen it, unless it's like several days apart I guess.

  • Actually I don’t like it. If we can have sex anytime then why would he want to masturbate

    • I get what you’re saying but sometimes it’s fun

    • @Gwenhwyfar yes I can understand what your saying amd agree with you

  • If your doing it right why would you have to master are at all

  • Get a chastity cage and give her the key.

  • I don't care as long as she still chooses sex over masturbation. I really only masturbate if my girlfriend isn't physically with me.

  • I hate this question as you do not own your partners sexuality. If she wants to masturbate everyday that's fine with me as long as she does not deny me sex.

    Punishing your partner because they masturbate is really fucked up.

  • I'd be saving it for her

  • why on earth you needed to masturbate when you have her? or you want to save it for big occasion?

  • Whenever she is willing to masturbate she can do it. Who am I to stop her from doing it.

  • My girlfriend she's fine with me masturbating but she wants me to do it in front of her