Is it ok for a girl to prefer anal?

[Agape93]

It’s perfectly ok to prefer anal, and you don’t need to justify it to anyone.

[janjan35]

If you both are into it, do it, who cares what anyone thinks. I love it

[OlderAndWiser]

It is not weird to enjoy anal sex. I have had several partners who almost always had orgasms from anal sex and they would sometimes initiate it without me even suggesting it. But they all enjoyed vaginal sex as well and anal sex was just a part of what we did in bed; it wasn't the entire experience. You can certainly find guys who will be eager to have anal sex and you can please them with oral sex and everything else but, eventually, they will want to have vaginal sex also. Are you in counseling to deal with your trauma?

[Being_a_good_Indian]

*"Due to a childhood trauma"*

In that case it's abnormal.

*"i don't always wanne discuss that. I just want guys to go along with my whish "*

When you are in an intimate relationship, you should feel understood and accepted for who you are. Share ideas, thoughts, and feelings with each other without fear. Try to understand why you and your partner behave as you do.

Trust me, before indulging in any relationship you should address the root cause of future issues which may arise in future. In short term anal might work. What in future?

I hope my opinion provoke few questions in your mind. Feel free to ask for any help or advice.

[knottywriter]

If that's what you like then it's perfectly okay. Any guy who truly cares fr you will not only be accepting of it but also be respectful of your past and be slow about anything else and help you become comfortable again with someone who won't abuse your body. That of course will be someone truly worth keeping.

[insatiable_curiosity]

It's only as big a deal as you make it out to be. Trust me when I say that there are plenty of guys who prefer anal already. Nonetheless, you are who you are, and others will either like and accept you or they won't.

If someone has an issue with it, try to educate and inform them first. It's easy to have misconceptions about things to which we're not normally exposed. If they continue to have an issue with it, move on. Start accepting yourself and others will too.

[wanderingponderer]

Your preferences are valid and if you elude even slightly to why you hold them and that you don’t wish to discuss further, you will alleviate the questioning sooner. Most guys want to use the vagina and will be surprised when you refuse it without an explanation. Confusion leads to questions which when unanswered lead to assumptions. And we all know what they say about assuming...

[Surely]

It is perfectly normal to prefer what ever you want as long as it doesn't hurt other people. Some guys may think that it might be painful to the woman and not ask for anal. Whatever your reasons are, just be confidant and tell the guy what you prefer.
I am sure that most will oblige your wishes.

[locutus9999]

well is your body and you should look for what make you confortable. but if there is a trauma i will heavily encourage you to find a therapist... so you have more freedom in your life... I do not know what happen to you neither wanna open it... but i hope you are doing good.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I don't think that is an issue as long as you do everything properly, keep it clean etc. The only real issue is eventualy a guy is going to want to use the front if for no other reason then to reproduce so you should probably at least work on dealing with that trauma so that you can eventually work your way up to that point. Otherwise I don't think its going to be that big of a deal.

[kemo56]

I think some guys prefer it me personally I would like to work on getting you to trust me if I was in that position

but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't do whatever pleased you.. but for my pleasure I would use the other two orifices

[Jasmin0701]

If you like it, you mustn't worry about what others think.

[TheorionMage]

BEFORE the ready availability of condoms and oral prophylactics... oral, manual and anal copulatory climax was the Victorian era's answer to completing sexual release, (even amid females as young as five) and even among family members as 'in home' sex education.

Obviously, good hygiene, copious lubrication and scrupulous STD's precautions make enthusiastic participation possible.

[Melvinb6521]

You are not wrong for your preference. You must be confident in your decisions and you’ll be ok.


Send me a friend request and we can talk more if you’d like.

[loveslongnails]

I'd suggest talking to a professional and working through it. I don't know about other guys, but that would be a deal breaker for me if our sexual penetration relationship were limited to your ass only.

[SjE78]

perfectly ok yeah, question is though what is it about vaginal contact or intercourse are you not ok with?

[Andres77]

It's going to raise a guy's eyebrows but he's going to be as happy as a pig in shit... no pun intended...🙄

[magiusX26]

there are guys that are fine with that but you still will need to discuss it first. would also suggest seeking counseling type help on the vaginal touching issues.

[Katie1964]

You like what you like. I am sure you will find a guy who is willing to accommodate you.

I am fine with anal, Hubby really likes to take me from behind though.

[Tstrbrainer]

It's okay if a woman likes anal.
But in your case, you prefer it because of a childhood trauma.

So it's not completely good.
I suggest you try to get out of your trauma, try seek professional help

[iseekpinetrees]

Its fine to prefer it but you just have to remember that that area isn't made for sex your vagina is made to accommodate penis. Try to work on your trauma issues. You might one day want children. And only anal sex can possibly lead to health issues.

[NightOwl8801]

It isn't weird, it is a preference for you...
Some girls/women like it and some don't, you keep on being yourself and don't worry about what others think.

[Browneye57]

Consider seeking professional counseling. They can help you deal with childhood trauma.

[normalice]

As a guy who much prefers anal with girls, I can't imagine any guy would have a problem with it. But on the other hand childhood trauma isn't the sort of thing you want to just find a permanent workaround for.

[tjbyrd39]

I was literally thinking the exact opposite / same I don't know for the guy. I want to stick it right in there but I don't want to talk about it first.

[Jays39663]

I think anal is great. I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

[cnhinton]

I love penetrating girls in their juicy butts.

Yes it's normal.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. I dated a few Christian girls who were saving their virginity for marriage, anal and blowjobs is all they do

[wankiam]

we all like what we like, i mean i prefer wanking personally. we are all different and no one is right or wrong when it comes to sexual preferences as long as its legal ofcourse

[dac91]

It's not a big deal as long as you enjoy it and cum still

[Anonymous]

I was friends wit6h a guy who dated a girl just like that. She must have had an experience that prevented her from enjoying vaginal intercourse and they had nothing but anal. He loved it, so I'm sure that you'll find plenty of guys who would be ok with that. Do you like your ass licked as well?

[Miristheiss]

I am not into anal so hypothetically we would have never worked.
With a guy who is into that it would work fine.

[Twalli]

It's unusual for girls to prefer it. My girlfriend does, but she let's me have vaginal sex some of the time (around 40% of the time).

[nudeNhorny]

You are entitled to prefer whatever you prefer, so of course it's okay

[KrakenAttackin]

You can prefer whatever you want. Preferences are ok.

[Dweezil]

That is unusual.

I assume you have tried it and liked it.

[Valnac]

First I would recommend you get couceling.
I dislike anything anal and would never do that.

[H8INCHES]

Some guys are prudy about it, like you have a defect if you like it. I think 2 consenting adults should indulge each others sexual needs.

[ChattyGuy43]

That's understandable.

When it comes to sex, some girls prefer anal to vaginal sex, not for the reason you've given but they cum more from anal.

[micap]

Yeah its no big deal. Later on you might feel comfortable enough to have vaginal sex. But, for the most part guys won't mind anal at all.

[NYlatefun]

It’s not common but I’d be fine if a girl requested that

[Gedaria]

Personally I don't do anal. But not keen on penial sex, I prefer oral.
So I understand things that happen when we were young, can have a dramatic effect on when are older. Been there as well.

[Raghuyadav]

Ya... its ok.. when boys have their choices so do girls have equal preferences

[Nakaro]

If you clear communicate and say you want that then of course.

[bclbn77006]

no, not atall.
I you like anal then I don't mind penetrate you anally.

[flashgrandad]

Yes, why not.
Just be on all fours when I arrive 😁😁

[fett253]

It'd be tough for me, I dislike anal due to the tight fit.

[gandolph3]

i love, anal, why don't you guide the cock where you need it

[Anonymous]

Some guys probably will prefer that since it’s tighter and you won’t get pregnant anyway

[CubaPirate]

Honestly you really do need some therapy. And I mean that most sincerely

[Anonymous]

Oh what a poor girl of Corse I would like to bang and stretch up your hot tight horny anal and fill it up with all my loads ♥

[Love2look]

Anal is very intimate and a rousing. Unfortunately anal has been look upon in a negative way

[RandomLoser]

Nobody cares which hole you prefer. They're all the same

[Guffrus]

Do whatever you want.

[slatyb]

Yes, some guys will find that hot.

[boggboss]

I prefer the other howl to be honest lol

[Cowboy6666]

Its alright i dont judge girls who like anal. I would be ok with her to be my girlfriend

[chriscdi]

whatever floats their boat

[jasco]

Sure its fine and most guys like it to

[Anonymous]

It’s uncommon but very ok.

[curiousguy95]

i thinl most guys is just stoked about that

[Iamcoming]

Always not well a thing