It’s perfectly ok to prefer anal, and you don’t need to justify it to anyone.
I totally agree with you. It should be completely fine
Exactly
It’s fine if she’s into it by default. One blue anon on here actually said he liked to hurt women sexually with anal. He’s as bad as the animal that did that to this poor lady.
If you both are into it, do it, who cares what anyone thinks. I love it
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In that case it's abnormal.
*"i don't always wanne discuss that. I just want guys to go along with my whish "*
When you are in an intimate relationship, you should feel understood and accepted for who you are. Share ideas, thoughts, and feelings with each other without fear. Try to understand why you and your partner behave as you do.
Trust me, before indulging in any relationship you should address the root cause of future issues which may arise in future. In short term anal might work. What in future?
I hope my opinion provoke few questions in your mind. Feel free to ask for any help or advice.
You are not wrong for your preference. You must be confident in your decisions and you’ll be ok.
Send me a friend request and we can talk more if you’d like.
It's only as big a deal as you make it out to be. Trust me when I say that there are plenty of guys who prefer anal already. Nonetheless, you are who you are, and others will either like and accept you or they won't.
If someone has an issue with it, try to educate and inform them first. It's easy to have misconceptions about things to which we're not normally exposed. If they continue to have an issue with it, move on. Start accepting yourself and others will too.
You like what you like. I am sure you will find a guy who is willing to accommodate you.
I am fine with anal, Hubby really likes to take me from behind though.
If you like it, you mustn't worry about what others think.
Every girl prefers anal. Some don't know it - yet. Some won't admit it. Some just have not met the right guy. But the number seems to be 10. One you have had a guy finish inside your ass -- and felt the jizz up past your belly button 10 times? You won't want anything else. Sure, you'll go along with vag. Sure, you will say anal is gross in any sort of discussion. But in the bedroom? YOU spread your ass. He does not even have to ask anymore.
If that's what you like then it's perfectly okay. Any guy who truly cares fr you will not only be accepting of it but also be respectful of your past and be slow about anything else and help you become comfortable again with someone who won't abuse your body. That of course will be someone truly worth keeping.
I don't think that is an issue as long as you do everything properly, keep it clean etc. The only real issue is eventualy a guy is going to want to use the front if for no other reason then to reproduce so you should probably at least work on dealing with that trauma so that you can eventually work your way up to that point. Otherwise I don't think its going to be that big of a deal.
It is not weird to enjoy anal sex. I have had several partners who almost always had orgasms from anal sex and they would sometimes initiate it without me even suggesting it. But they all enjoyed vaginal sex as well and anal sex was just a part of what we did in bed; it wasn't the entire experience. You can certainly find guys who will be eager to have anal sex and you can please them with oral sex and everything else but, eventually, they will want to have vaginal sex also. Are you in counseling to deal with your trauma?
Thank you. Yes i am in Therapy for some time now
Do you feel that you are making any progress with your therapy?
I definitly do. I was in a really dark place before i started Therapy. But that thing about my pussy is not going away so easily. We made progress there too but i still have a long way to go
BEFORE the ready availability of condoms and oral prophylactics... oral, manual and anal copulatory climax was the Victorian era's answer to completing sexual release, (even amid females as young as five) and even among family members as 'in home' sex education.
Obviously, good hygiene, copious lubrication and scrupulous STD's precautions make enthusiastic participation possible.
Its fine to prefer it but you just have to remember that that area isn't made for sex your vagina is made to accommodate penis. Try to work on your trauma issues. You might one day want children. And only anal sex can possibly lead to health issues.
I think anal is great. I don't think there is anything wrong with that.
As a guy who much prefers anal with girls, I can't imagine any guy would have a problem with it. But on the other hand childhood trauma isn't the sort of thing you want to just find a permanent workaround for.
perfectly ok yeah, question is though what is it about vaginal contact or intercourse are you not ok with?
we all like what we like, i mean i prefer wanking personally. we are all different and no one is right or wrong when it comes to sexual preferences as long as its legal ofcourse
I prefer the other howl to be honest lol
Yes, some guys will find that hot.
I am not into anal so hypothetically we would have never worked.
With a guy who is into that it would work fine.
I think some guys prefer it me personally I would like to work on getting you to trust me if I was in that position
but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't do whatever pleased you.. but for my pleasure I would use the other two orifices
Anal is very intimate and a rousing. Unfortunately anal has been look upon in a negative way
It's perfectly fine.
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