Make him promise to be gentle. Dont let him have sex with you till you ate 100% sure he will take it slow and gentle.
This is one of those times that you need to worry about what you want and not care what he wants.
I'm a virgin myself so I've never fucked a virgin girl obviously, but what I think works well for a virgin girl, I assume that still had an intact hymane is that when he sticks his dick in you, you will feel some discomfort, then you tell him to stay still and not move till you really feel no discomfort.
Make hom agree to stop, as on just stay still in place, when you say stop.
This is a special moment to you, it's not supposed to be remembered for how much it hurts, and if he is dead set on making you hurt cause it's a fetish to him than maybe you should wait to loose your virginity to someone, cause it should be one of your best memories.
*"I don't wanna feel pain"
Isn't your answer in question itself. DO NOT INDULGE IN ANY ACT WHICH YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE.
I hope I answered your question in nutshell. Should I elucidate?
in my opinion you should move on & find yourself a better class of boyfriend.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!A guy who enjoys seeing a girl in pain is an ass and you should find a much more worthy candidate to be your first. When you look back and remember this, do you want to remember pleasure or pain?
Absolutely, if he knows he's your first and he's excited about causing you pain during a once in a lifetime event then he's a shitty person. Dump him.
Tell him you might not be the girl he's looking for. . . "more bacon than the pan can handle".
Then I think you should not be with him, or you will feel pain.
Hard to deal with breaking up, but what are your options?
It's your body. Tell him you are not into pain and submitting. If causing pain is important to him he needs to find a new girlfriend that is into the same kinds of things he is.
sounds like you'll be feeling a lot of pain
Dump him. Immediately.
I think you will regardless of penis size. Most girls do. My girlfriend felt pain with insertion the first 5 times. Then she stopped feeling pain and just accepted the pleasure
break up dear, when I sleep with a virgin girl my aim is to make her feel comfortable and have a painless experience and should love every part of sex , this is something disgusting.
More to the point you shouldn't want to be with a guy who gets pleasure from hurting the person he is supposed to love, especially when she does not want pain.
Damn straight. Lose this asshole. He sounds like an arrogant selfish jerk.
I understand devirginizing part. But I would not like to give pain unless she likes it. I would go her pace. I do not think you can avoid the pain, but I'd say you should be on top, so you can control it. And makes sure you tell him what you want.
I don't wanna be on top I want him in full control because that turns me on. I just want him to go gently inside me and take it easy
Then tell him that. If he truly cares, he will be gentle.
Okay I will... thanks
You should break up with him and never speak to him. That's some seriously fucked up shit fantasy wise. Who WANTS to cause someone they care about nonconsensual pain? Run dont walk.
It means this guy is a douche; why are you considering bangin a douche?
I suggest lots of foreplay, make sure you are sexually aroused and soaking wet.
Then it shouldn’t be a problem.
he probably has a small penis and wants to feel big, cause thats just bizarre
unless he's sadistic
Tell him before he has sex with your its not right to want to hurt your vagina you have feelings
Probably should consider running.
Feel the pain
He sounds very boastful and an idiot.
No real gentleman wants to hurt a girl especially when taking her virginity.
Try mentioning foreplay
Tell him to be gentle and have him promise you that he will be gentle, because this is your special moment and the only pain you should feel is when he tears the hymen and at times getting used to the girth of the penis. This is why he needs to be gentle. Have him do a lot of foreplay before he has sex with you.
But, if he told you that he'll like causing you pain do you still want to continue with someone who won't care about you in order to satisfy himself.
What can you do about it anyway? Nothing much
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