Is it weird that I like older guys?

[Avalonbowman]

I get so much more aroused with older men. 8+ years older...

[SjE78]

not weird at all tbh, i prefer women between 18 to 30, due to past experiences dating women my own age and older than myself they tend to get too controlling and i found it never works out when they are around my own age or older than me... women younger tend to be more laid back in their personalities and for me a lot easier to get along with :)
also it's a lot more comon than some people might think, in fact most younger women prefer older guys as we are more matured with relationship matters, we are also more likely to not run away at the first sign of things getting difficult...
I have known a lot of women over the years some girlfriend's and most as friends and friends of friends/girlfriend's, and they all said the same thing they prefer dating older guys cos those their own age (for the most part) just wanna get their leg over and when things get too serious, they panic and run away... some even left with kids from those relationships and their ex's ghosted them, even when they'd been with them 1-2 years before, and was a mutual choice for kids etc...

[Knighted2170]

It's not weird. A lot of women like older guys for various reasons.

I would say this though. Know what you are looking for in a relationship. Like really look at the traits that you want a guy to have. Then define those traits. This way you can see quickly who you don't want and it lessens the chance of you getting used by some pervy guy.

I'm not talking physical traits. I'm talking lifestyle and character traits.

Honesty - what's your definition
Adventurous - what's your definition of adventure
Stable - what's your definition of stable

See what I'm saying? This will help you in the long run.

Hope that helps.

[Knighted2170]

Thank you for the MHO. Hope everything goes well.

[veecutie]

From 19 I would say it’s pretty normal up until 30. I was 21 when I started seriously dating someone who was 29. Now that I’m 24 I find attractive men up until 35-40. I went out once with a 40 yr old (he was HOT) and would have kept dating him but I didn’t since he was married (lol plot twist). Women mature earlier so that’s why we find older men attractive (impression that they know what they want -not true always-, that they’re ready to settle down -again, not true. That’s why they’re still 30/35 and single-, financially stable (true usually), etc.

[dionnexxx]

i mean they seem to have a bit more maturity and like will know what they're doing sooo... i mean as long as its on your own terms.. like everything is consensual and nothing weird is going on then go off sis

[RemoErdosain]

Not weird at all, and older guys will love it

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

It's fine hun... my husband is 10 years older than me... met him when I was 24

[knottywriter]

This seems to be a theme today. It's not weird and if you want to explain what you like about them feel free to answer the question I posted a little while ago. Someone else asked why older guys liked younger girls so I raised the reverse question of why younger girls like older guys. But it's not weird. I am seeing it seems to be pretty common actually.

[Paolaa988]

Not weird. Although i like younger guys as in 18-19, everyone has their preference.

[Red_Arrow]

Not at all weird. Just your preference.

[Newhead]

Yeah, very weird. Maybe you'll grow it out once you grow up and heal your daddy issues.

[lanadelrey25]

Maybe you'll grow up one day to.

[Newhead]

@lanadelrey25 Nah, I'm done growing.

[lanadelrey25]

Obviously not mentally.

[nettle]

Not weird at all! I mean... have you met 19/20 year old guys? 😬😬😬 I think it's much better this way!

[normalice]

Yeah, it's weird. Or at least uncommon.

[JessieBellll]

Haha and girls down voting you

[normalice]

Yeah. Would be cool if every downvote required an explanation. My guess is people found it too negative of a comment for someone clearly looking for reassurance. Has little to do with the topic. But anyway it's only two pink accounts you can't even say with certainty are girls. Hardly a basis for someone to cling to your heavily biased opinion that all young girls should and do want old men. Just because it happened to you doesn't mean you will ever be able to convince the majority that it was good for you.

[JessieBellll]

But majority agree with me Funny how you call me biased when you are equally if not more biased with your limited experience haha

[JessieBellll]

Also I never said all girls do, just a lot. There are definitely some who don't, don't twist my words

[normalice]

If majority agreed with you there wouldn't be one ofmthe most strictly enforced laws. And I call you biased because you openly claim to make no effort not to be. Whereas you call me biased because calling everyone else biased is just part of your bias.

[JessieBellll]

I said some girls are not like that, that's going against my bias. You are biased because you just don't like older men with young girls but don't mind boys with older women. The law actually works against you because it forbids boys having sex with older women, so it isn as harmless as you seem to believe, but I guess you have a conspiracy theory for that as well as you do for everything

[normalice]

You've said elsewhere that most girls are like that. And I mind both about the same, which is to say I don't spend all day scouring the internet for validation because I don't really care enough to think much of it. Indeed, if anything you are projecting yet again as you have repeatedly confessed that you don't like older women with younger guys but do think older guys with younger women is completely acceptable. More of that "calling the whole world bias to cover up your own" nonsense. I believe that's called egocentric, by the way.

[JessieBellll]

Of course it's not completely acceptable, I never said that. I am just saying many girls are like boys in that regard. And you definitely don't mind both the same, that's just you trying to be a moral person now. You are misinterpreting what I say on purpose to fit your opinion

[normalice]

I might be misremembering but not misinterpreting. I'm not interpreting, in fact, at all because you explicitly told me. And I said about the same.

[AndyOh]

Nothing wrong with it at all.

As an older guy, I like younger girls who are into older men.

I adore women of any age really, as long as it is legal, right?

[Avicenna]

Not weird at all

[ItsTheNephilim]

Not weird.

[itsemily]

I don't think it's weird as long as you're happy

[Dargil]

Not in the slightest.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not weird at all

A cute archery teacher from the isle of Avalon? 😊

[lanadelrey25]

Hun, I get arousal from men 20 to 30 years older than me. Who cares if people think it's weird?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yeah, I see no problem if you like older guys

[sheikalana]

That's not weird.

[DavidFox]

Nope. Based on your other questions I’d say this is normal for you or the perception you are creating.

[Love2look]

It’s about how YOU feel... people will be negative because they aren’t happy, I just gave my opinion on family and sex... now who feels unsure?

[Not_Average]

It’s pretty normal