Guys , a girl begging for sex is it a turn on or turn off?

If it's not a girl you are dating but a friend/someone you know, you never had sex and she would send you randomly text "please do it with me, i want it so much"
Would be a turn on or a complete turn off?
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Superb Opinion

  • If she was a good friend who I got on really well with, and was reasonably attractive, I would be happy to help her out by being sexual with her (foreplay and penis-vagina sexual lovemaking)

    In actual fact a very close female friend and I help each other out sexually as friends with benefits's sometimes, and I must admit I always start to feel verrry turned on as soon as we start fixing a date/time for our prolonged sexual sessions, even more so if she includes her best female friend too as an ffm 3some !!

Most Helpful Guy

  • It depends on how you approach the guy. If you want to do it don't just blurt it out. Meet with them under circumstances you know you can be private, bring protection so your safe if they haven't anticipated anything, wear something sexy but comfortable and drop a few hints before you ask anything.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think guys like that sorta thing. The other way around can be annoying, though. Like if a dude texted me that I would be weirded out.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That's a turn-on to every guy, pretty much

  • It's definitely a turn on for a lot of guys.

  • I don't do that, so it would obviously be a major turn off for me.
    Depending on how well I know the person, I'd either just ask them to not bring that up again, or I would just cut them off entirely.

    • And why don't you do that?

    • Because I'm monogamous and casual sex just doesn't appeal to me. For me sex is the height of a romantic connection, something I only want to do with someone I can imagine spending the rest of my life with, and that's how I let them know that they are special and appreciated by me. My friend/someone I know is not special to me and I don't appreciate them that way. The nicest thing I can offer to someone who would "beg me for sex", is refraining from judging their motivations to do that.

  • I would be thrown for a loop and honestly think she is having some kind of emotional state if asking. No women friends want to randomly want to bang their guy friends

  • I'd be turned on.

  • Depends on if there is sexual attraction there

  • If she’s auftuend, it’s usually a major turn-on if we are both single.

    • * a friend

    • And I’d give her what she wants as long as we’re both single

  • In an age where a guy or a girl can simply scratch that itch by turning on the computer" and whatever apparatus is hooked up to it and them, then any suggestion of actual physical contact and being included in there special moment should be a turn-on, if not an honor.

  • Turn on... Super Turned On... HOT as fuck.

  • I would think she was probably joking because of how rare that is, but it would be a turn on if she were serious.

  • Backstory required: if she's desperate and depressed... no, full stop. Deal with the real issue. If it's a stable relationship and she's ovulating and horny as fuck and on the appropriate birth control then dive in. That's what we all want.

    • If she is not in a relationship with you but a girl you know and just horny then its a no?

    • If I know her (and I'm single) and I know that she's NOT a traumatized mess and will regret it later... but she's horny and picked me? Then it's a FUCK YEAH!

  • Turn on, a super turn on.

  • Turn on

  • I would be totally turned on! I wouldn't do it, of course. But I would let her down nicely.

    • Why wouldn't you do it?

    • Because I don't have sex before marriage.

  • Turn on.

    I would make her get on her knees and beg for it.

  • I think it would be a turn on if I was attracted to her. Otherwise, I would feel awkward.

  • Big turn off. She is seeking attention. She is not independent enough for me.

  • i guess the guy will be scared

  • Depends on how-if it came off that she was unstable then I might be wary but most guys around your age wouldn't think about that until after they hit it (at least once or three times). Most guys that age think with their junk

  • turn on

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