Do you abstain from having sex when you and your SO spend a night in your parents' home or their parents' home?

Question

Taking your boyfriend/girlfriend with you when you go home for Christmas? Some parents won't let you spend the night together if you are not married, but if they are cool with you sharing a bed. . . what's gonna happen when the two of you get between the sheets? The idea of having sex in your parents' house may add a little extra thrill to the mix but will you be embarrassed if they hear you/your partner screaming, "Yes! Deeper! Make me cum!'? Or will that idea make your partner uneasy? Can you just have quiet sex? Have you faced this question before?

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

I think it's respectful to not let your poor old parents hear you screw at their house. Even if you're married.
I wouldn't be boinking at my son's home with my SO if I was visiting for Christmas. This has nothing to do with the age of the parties. Sex is a private affair and none of anyone's business.
Unless you're staying in a house apart from the main house: a guest cottage or some such place. Save the sex for when you return home.
It's just a few days or a week.. No one will die of longing.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

Nope but we do keep it quiet. Hell I lost my virginity on my 18th, with my parents fast asleep one room over. He did the walk of game the next morning when they were making breakfast lol my dad was pissed

Twalli · Accepted Answer

We both live with our parents. She mostly comes over hers because my bed is large enough for two people and my parents don't care if we're in my room alone. If we didn't have the tv on or played music when we have sex, they would hear it. That's actually the reason why we have music or the tv on when we have ssx.

msc545 · Accepted Answer

We have very quiet sex if we stay at her parents place, but we usually stay in a hotel.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Lmao. No. I just bury my face in the pillow or suck on his finger to tone down my moans

Claireluvskaren · Answer

Well I am married so I don't think about it, but when I was dating my husband we had sex in my parents home and in his parents home. We had heard my parents having sex in their home and in our home too. His parents might be asexual, as we haven't heard them doing anything.

19magic · Answer

I've never been with an so for that long but probably would I can't say for sure

Apple1996 · Answer

We lived with my inlaws for 15 months so obviously had sex there and also have had sex at my parents while visiting and when I lived with them as a teen.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

I've had very quiet sex at my dad's house before.

LemiaOfTheCodes · Answer

I had sex with my first girlfriend when she was stilling living with her mom and stepdad. I would say be respectful and dont do it when they can you doing it.