How should I propose anal?

I have played with a very small form of dildo in my butt and ai really liked it and it helps me cum better and faster when touching myself.
I have come to the understanding that my boyfriend is not opposed to the idea of anal sex (ask me if you wanna know how I know. 😂).
I don't wanna be direct. How can I make him understand I wanna try anal then?
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Superb Opinion

  • Take him shopping to a sex shop (or an online one) and point out the items you'd like to try and when you're in the anal lube section ask him if he'd be into it. You could also watch some porn together where you know there will be some anal sex. Throughout the movie ask him it he'd be into whatever is on screen for example cumming in your mouth, having sex outdoors, 69, and of course anal sex.

    • Good idea thank you

    • Best of luck to you. Stay healthy and safe.

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  • There isn't a lot of guys out there that wouldn't he opposed to the idea of anal sex so he'll definitely be up for it.
    You could just casually make you ass more prominent in your life in general like show it off a lot more and make him really want it, if you haven't already try oral first then anal after.
    Or if you are on your period but want sex then there's only 1 place 😁

    • he's an ass guy. I mean he prefers butts to boobs and he's already very interested in my butt so it's already pretty prominent to him

    • Well that makes life a lot easier for you. He'll want that, he probably hasn't made it obvious since he may think you don't want to do it. Why do you want to do it indirectly rather than just tell him you want it?

    • it's a pretty taboo topic for us

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  • How'd you find out he's interested. That'll make a difference in my answer.

    • he's an ass guy. I mean he prefers butts to boobs and he's already mentioned how much he likes my butt and he sometimes play with my butthole while foreplay or like drags his dick on it. sorry to be so forward

    • Not forward. Just telling me what I asked. The next time you're gonna have sex, pre lube your anus. Then get in chest down doggy, reach back, and spread 'em.

    • oh physically direct okay

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  • Fek off and stop trolling you lame ass level 1!

    • I'm not trolling.

  • just start playing anally with your dildo in front of him and when you remove it suggest he replaces it with himself

    • okay thank you

    • you're welcome :) and good luck :)

  • You could find a good amateur video where the couple is having anal sex in a way that appeals to you. And then you could ask your boyfriend if he would watch it with you. And you could make some comment like "That looks like it would feel really good for that girl." I know that's still kinda direct but I'm not sure how else to hint at it less directly unless maybe you take his hand during foreplay and move it down to your anal area.

    • he does sometimes do that himself but I hadn't had the nerve to tell him

  • When comes your period you can try it

    • ooh good idea

  • bring it up one day before sex that y'all should try anal, right after the shower

    • helpful but I want it to be indirect

    • what if his uncertainty is whats keeping it from happening, what if him not knowing your thoughts on it is whats preventing him from making the move, worst that can happen is that he wouldn't want too, worth a try id say

    • okay thank you

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  • be direct

  • With all the pleasure just north of there why would you want to.

    • i used something there and it felt good

  • Just be direct that will turn him on

  • just tell him.

    • @sabretoothStop feeding the troll. You actually think a female is going to talk like that?

    • @Daniela1982 if she's mature.

    • @sabretoothYou are dreaming that the guys posing as girls on here are mature. * rolls eyes"

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  • grab his cock and guide it to your ass, or take it out of your pussy and put it in your ass

    • that's pretty direct tho

    • Maybe, but you did not tell him

  • Just ask him

  • ask him to like your asshole and then go from there and ask for fingers and then ask for penis