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How do guys react when they get boners in public?

I know some guys’ faces turn red and that can give it away 😂or how they walk because I’ve seen some get boners behind me in a check-out line and I’ve seen some just have them in public random places

But what’s the go-to? Like what do you do? Just go to the bathroom and take care of it? Or do you try to hide it?
I just don’t see how you can have something rubbing against your leg like that 😖
How do guys react when they get boners in public?
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  • Do I get red in the face? No.
    Do I change the way I walk? No.
    What's the go to? I continue doing whatever I was doing before without a care in the world.
    Do I go to the bathroom and take care of it? No... unless I feel like it.
    Do I try to hide it? No.

    It's not at all irritating rubbing against my leg.

    I would also like to make this abundantly clear. Anyone who is offended, creeped out, or scared of a COMPLETELY NATURAL PROCESS that every single male who has ever lived, is currently living, or who ever will live will experience literally thousands of times over his lifetime needs to find ways to be at peace with it. Your triggers, even phobias brought on by trauma, are in no way shape or form my responsibility. At all. This is not to say I am unsympathetic to your triggers, traumas, or phobias. I am, as I am truly sorry if you were somehow traumatized by a man's penis. However, they are 1 gajillion percent *your* responsibility to manage. Furthermore, it is in *your own self interest* to manage *your* triggers, traumas, and phobias, and not expect the entire world to tap dance around them.

  • "Just go to the bathroom and take care of it?" ... Definitely not.. 😂😂😂😂.. But I don't get too many bones in public thank God.. But when I don't I'm usually sittin down, and I usually try and hide it to the best of my ability, and if some girl happens to see it and be amazed... Well.. That's life.. 😂😂😂😂

    • Thank you for MHO Yaddy Yads!.. 😊😊

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  • No clue lol. I think most of them just try to ignore it.

    • I wonder if you’ve ever seen it happen in court

    • Yes!!!

    • 🤣🤣🤣wish I could’ve been there.

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  • When puberty hits random thoughts that are only slightly related to females might set a guy off. But eventually he learns to control it mentally and it doesn't happen (or very rarely).

    "go to the bathroom and take care of it? Or do you try to hide it?" -- It's not something that has to be "taken care of". It's not like when you're starving hungry and you have to eat. It will go away if left alone. Hiding? Well if he's smart he's wearing clothes including some underwear to begin with so it's going to be hidden unless he's moving the wrong way. If he's dumb he's just wearing really thin stretchable gym wear right after hitting puberty & nothing will hide it.

  • I've never had that happen it takes a lot of foreplay lol.. Dors that make me like a lady or something i sure hope not.

  • There's no reason to get one in public you can feel it happening and you can control it and if I was in a checkout line and turned around and there's a guy standing there with a hard on I'm not sure if I would or could say something or if I would just pet my pants from laughing so hard

    • Pee my pants lol

  • I tend to wear jeans so they don't always show if I have a boner the most you might see is me adjusting myself into a more comfortable position eg tucked behind my belt!

  • As for me it’s business as usual after pitching a tent & I hold my head high I keep on walking.

  • I might go take care of it in the restroom if i have free time.

    Usually I'll just try to tuck it straight down in my boxer briefs and act normal, if i dont draw attention to it no one should notice.

    Plus mines easy to hide cause it's only 5.5" lol

  • I wouldn't know, I've never had an erection in public.

  • I'm petrified! With girls wanting to feel safe and comfortable, just a guy walking into a room can make her uneasy, then, make it a guy with a visible boner.. 😳

    Given, I'd like this to be a perfect world where boners happen when they are supposed to and when they do girls smile

    But in this day an age, you already have marks against you for being a guy in some circles and public places, then you go in with something that screams I'm creepy

    It scares me a bit... so when it happens, straight to the bathroom or private place to make it go away. It's strange how your body parts can turn on you like that 😅

    • aww this is sad :( guys can't help it!

    • Yeah, I only find it creepy if he touches me or tries to make a sexual move on me with it. That would freak me out. Otherwise, just him standing there with a boner is sexy

    • @yads_is_back lol I agree

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  • I just let it happen! I sometimes will go to the restroom and pull one off or I will play with my cock in the car! Why not!

  • I just reach into my pocket and adjust to aim down my leg. Almost like I am pulling something out or itching.

  • Lol unless I have on grey sweat pants I just let it show and enjoy her peeks 🤷🏾‍♂️😂

  • Just try to adjust it to the side instead of the middle.. which makes it less visible, and think about anything else other than sex and women

    • I have a counter question, does it happen that women get random sexual arousals like men? If yes do they react ant differently. Would be great if it's from your perspective

  • It doesn't happen that often in public for me, but I'll sit down somewhere and cross my legs. But even if I can't, I usually wear jeans and I don't think it's that noticeable (but have wondered if it is or not)? I might turn (or go to the washroom) and adjust though. It usually won't last long.

  • When I was 13 - 14 I learned to put a hand in my pants pocket to help disguise the bulge and also so I could reposition my penis if it was caught in an uncomfortable position while being erect.

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  • If I can't go anywhere private to hide it, I put both hands in my pocket and maneuver it secretly to where it's not as noticeable.

  • I usually have enough self-control to not get them in public, or if I do get them it might be a halfy which I can usually hide well if I'm wearing jeans.

    The last time I actually had a full on rager was a few months ago before it got cold. I went to the Lincoln Park shoreline in Chicago. It's a concrete beach that plenty of people suntan on and sometimes swim. I was trying to look sexy for any ladies or gay men so I was wearing a pretty tight pair of swimming shorts I had just bought. Well, for the first time in a while, as I was walking I sighted a woman sunbathing on her stomach. There was plenty of other sexy women around but for some reason my body reacted to her. She was leaning on her elbows reading a book so her back was arched and her booty looked thick and juicy. As soon as I saw her my pants began to tighten and I knew I needed to do something. I quickly just sat down about 10 feet from her. She was facing me and I'm not sure if she noticed my shorts rising.

  • Well an average man has 11 erections a day. And probably couple more at night. Not cuz he's horny, but just cuz that thing in the pants needs to be oxygenated regularly.
    So when it's something that happens this often, you just learn to live with it. Pretend nothing happened cuz you don't want to drive attention there

  • Think about something repulsive or tell myself, mentally, to not get one. I'm not going to a bathroom to jerk off just to get rid of it lol my face doesn't get red. Don't really try and hide it. That never works and it's still clearly visible. It doesn't feel to uncomfortable unless I'm wearing tight pants, which I don't.

  • Lmao that doesn’t happen to me. But if it did, I would at least cover? I don't know lol.

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