NO sex before marriage. Fellas, would you wait😅🙄?

[Anonymous]

Aside from this whole "no sex before marriage" thing being a religious thing, in my opinion it's also very abusive and controlling and an excuse for women for you having to marry them.

This is basically them WANTING and DEMANDING you to marry them first then they'll have sex with you.

WAKE UP my dudes.

[Unit1]

I would neither wait nor marry.
I'm not into refusing myself pleasure.

[Unit1]

Thanks for the most helpful opinion man :D I just keep it simple. I have no time to lose (i lost it mandatorily in school already). Life's too short - as soon as you make more money than you can comfortably expend there is just so much to do and plenty of exciting things await 😁😎

[Asker]

Exactly jigen

[MountAverage]

No sex before marriage is a concept that is idiotic on several levels.

[Hangry22]

And yet many people continue to stay in abusive relationships

[tata1993]

Oh pleaaaase marry us we are dying without you 💩

[Apple1996]

Life is to short for that shit

[Ladypink86]

Good

[Lionman95]

I wait with sex because in my opinion sex is a bonding moment which can´t be the method to build a trusting and emotional relationship. I´m not saying that sex is bad or unimportant but I don´t see how sleeping around and living out some sexual fantasizes is helpful. Sex/Intercourse is something precious for me.

[Newhead]

The next person who comes into my life would have to marry me before I have sex with him because no, I am just tired of wasting my time, it is my way to chase people off anyway, may the real dear devil win.

[Asker]

so you are controlling and demanding he marry you in order for you to have sex with him? lol good luck with that

[Alyssa11]

Well, if Russell Wilson waited for Ciara and now they are in a beautiful marriage then any man can wait...

I remember him saying he waited because he wanted God to bless their marriage, and because it's good to focus on the platonic relationship to build a strong marital foundation before involving sex. I like that, personally.

[Julia1998]

And there is. Life is too short to limit yourself

[Celtero]

Marriage is for devout religious people and morons.

I wouldn't wait because I'm neither of those.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Much better to avoid the bliss of sex and jack off to porn for 10 years then get married and have ED on day 1. Great plan.

[Avicenna]

Only for a really special woman

[Agape93]

Life is too short.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Are you insane?
That's not a way for them to get married. Look at the poll! More women than men are willing to wait

[TacosRAwesome]

Been with someone who wanted to wait and that experience scarred me for life. Nothing against people who want to wait but mine was bad.

[Asker]

so sorry :(

[Iron_Man]

Yes of course

[loveslongnails]

I think it leads to quite unexpected and startling realizations for all parties involved, most especially the woman.

[DiegoO]

Hell no. A woman who don't even care or don't feel comfortable to be intimate with you, at least, online, is a woman with many, many issues. Run if it's the case. Run!

[Asker]

someone who gets it

[codyccc]

You dont buy a car without a test drive

[Liam_Hayden]

Refusing to give yourself to someone else on that other person's terms is abusive? Umm, B. S.

And using Steven Crowder is hilarious, since he and his wife were born virgins when they married and he talks at length about how it is best to wait.

[stuntbrain]

Desire makes bad decisions. The same reason I don't shop for food while hungry

[Trooper205]

It is a Temptation for Me, but I know Abstinence prior to Wedlock is important.