NO sex before marriage. Fellas, would you wait😅🙄?

Question

Aside from this whole "no sex before marriage" thing being a religious thing, in my opinion it's also very abusive and controlling and an excuse for women for you having to marry them.

This is basically them WANTING and DEMANDING you to marry them first then they'll have sex with you.

WAKE UP my dudes.

NO sex before marriage. Fellas, would you wait😅🙄?

Absolutely not, life is too short.

Yes, i don't have a problem waiting

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Answer 1

Unit1 | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I would neither wait nor marry.
I'm not into refusing myself pleasure.

Unit1

28 d
Thanks for the most helpful opinion man :D

I just keep it simple. I have no time to lose (i lost it mandatorily in school already). Life's too short - as soon as you make more money than you can comfortably expend there is just so much to do and plenty of exciting things await 😁😎
Asker

28 d
Exactly jigen

Answer 2

Unit1

Thanks for the most helpful opinion man :D

I just keep it simple. I have no time to lose (i lost it mandatorily in school already). Life's too short - as soon as you make more money than you can comfortably expend there is just so much to do and plenty of exciting things await 😁😎

Answer 3

Asker

Exactly jigen

Answer 4

MountAverage | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

No sex before marriage is a concept that is idiotic on several levels.

Answer 5

Alyssa11 | 310 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Well, if Russell Wilson waited for Ciara and now they are in a beautiful marriage then any man can wait...

I remember him saying he waited because he wanted God to bless their marriage, and because it's good to focus on the platonic relationship to build a strong marital foundation before involving sex. I like that, personally.

Answer 6

Lionman95 | 115 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I wait with sex because in my opinion sex is a bonding moment which can´t be the method to build a trusting and emotional relationship. I´m not saying that sex is bad or unimportant but I don´t see how sleeping around and living out some sexual fantasizes is helpful. Sex/Intercourse is something precious for me.

Answer 7

DiegoO | 3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Hell no. A woman who don't even care or don't feel comfortable to be intimate with you, at least, online, is a woman with many, many issues. Run if it's the case. Run!

Asker

27 d
someone who gets it

Answer 8

Asker

someone who gets it

Answer 9

TacosRAwesome | 3.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Been with someone who wanted to wait and that experience scarred me for life. Nothing against people who want to wait but mine was bad.

Asker

28 d
so sorry :(

Answer 10

Asker

so sorry :(

Answer 11

Newhead | 300 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 6

The next person who comes into my life would have to marry me before I have sex with him because no, I am just tired of wasting my time, it is my way to chase people off anyway, may the real dear devil win.

Asker

27 d
so you are controlling and demanding he marry you in order for you to have sex with him? lol good luck with that

Answer 12

Asker

so you are controlling and demanding he marry you in order for you to have sex with him? lol good luck with that

Answer 13

BeenThereLovedIt | 944 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Much better to avoid the bliss of sex and jack off to porn for 10 years then get married and have ED on day 1. Great plan.

Answer 14

Anonymous

Why must I have sex with them in order for them to be with me. I speak to any women like that: I promise; you will not wilt and die if I don’t have sex with you. Plus you got hands use them. It’s not a big issue with me

Answer 15

Anonymous

For most people in an open Western country, this does not make sense and I would suggest nature is not really one for waiting for human made traditions. So such a delay is only really made for personal - perhaps ideological - reasons.

Dweezil

27 d
A healthy woman needs a fulfilling sex life that includes more than masturbating.

Answer 16

Dweezil

A healthy woman needs a fulfilling sex life that includes more than masturbating.

Answer 17

Celtero | 1.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Marriage is for devout religious people and morons.

I wouldn't wait because I'm neither of those.

Answer 18

Anonymous

I wouldn't, but for a completely different reason than you. I just think marrying before having sex is like signing a contract before reading the fine print.

Answer 19

loveslongnails | 2.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I think it leads to quite unexpected and startling realizations for all parties involved, most especially the woman.

Answer 20

Liam_Hayden

Guru

Refusing to give yourself to someone else on that other person's terms is abusive? Umm, B. S.

And using Steven Crowder is hilarious, since he and his wife were born virgins when they married and he talks at length about how it is best to wait.

Answer 21

Hangry22 | 985 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

And yet many people continue to stay in abusive relationships

Answer 22

Anonymous

I would say virgin for life, only if I get a virgin girl.
If I don't I would actually get married, single for life.
You know there is a chance that in every 101 men, one will be alone forever, as stats says.

Answer 23

Anonymous

Not even clear what your position is. Who is being abused and controlled? And is the problem "no sex before marriage" or "sex before marriage?"

Answer 24

Twalli | 12K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I don't mind waiting for a time, just not until marriage

Answer 25

Trooper205 | 2.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

It is a Temptation for Me, but I know Abstinence prior to Wedlock is important.

Answer 26

ThisIsMyOpinion | 583 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Are you insane?
That's not a way for them to get married. Look at the poll! More women than men are willing to wait

Answer 27

Anonymous

Sexual compatibility is waaaaaaay too important to leave it to chance when choosing a life partner. Try before you buy.

Answer 28

Eleni079 | 114 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

I think it is I did it I didn’t know any better 20+ years ago.

Answer 29

jasco | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Frankly depends on what else can bring into the relationship

Answer 30

stuntbrain | 676 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Desire makes bad decisions. The same reason I don't shop for food while hungry

Answer 31

tata1993

Xper 5

Oh pleaaaase marry us we are dying without you 💩

Answer 32

Apple1996 | 5.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Life is to short for that shit

Ladypink86

26 d
Good

Answer 33

Ladypink86

Good

Answer 34

Guffrus | 1.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Rest assured that no one wants to marry you.

Answer 35

Avicenna | 5.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Only for a really special woman

Answer 36

codyccc | 1.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

You dont buy a car without a test drive

Answer 37

iFarted | 2.7K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

Nope, it wouldn't work out.

Answer 38

Julia1998

Xper 3

And there is. Life is too short to limit yourself

Answer 39

Agape93 | 4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Life is too short.

Answer 40

Iron_Man | 10.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Yes of course

Answer 41

Anonymous

Nope.

NO sex before marriage. Fellas, would you wait😅🙄?

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