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If he goes soft white eating me out, does it mean he doesn't enjoy it?

My boyfriend is 22. We're very young and have very frequent sex. But sometimes when he eats me out, he doesn't stay hard and he goes soft in the middle of. it. I'll start sucking on it after he's done eating me and he gets hard again quickly, but why does he go soft while eating me out in the first place? Does. it sound like he doesn't really like to eat me? He says he loves to eat me out and he says that it'll go soft if it's not being played with for awhile. Like, he stays hard when we 69. He's been like this since we first got together when he was 18. I thought that if a young guy like this was doing something sexual that he enjoys he should stay hard even if his dick isn't directly being played with? Does he just not get turned on by eating my pussy? I shower before sex and I drink water and whatnot, so I shouldn't smell or taste bad and he's never complained about anything. He says he enjoys it and that it turns him on, I just don't know. why he keeps going. soft throughout it since he's so young unless he doesn't really like. to do this.
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  • Guys love the feel of warm and wet but our BIGGEST AND BEST SEXUAL ORGAN IS OUR BRAIN!!!
    Ok, clarifying that, I LOVE eating my wife's pussy. When I was a diagnosed sex addict I LOVED eating EVERYONE'S pussy, including prostitute girlfriends that were between clients...😳. I'd go soft all the time because I was SO into her pussy. Color, smells, flavors, size, shape, quality of her discharge, whether it was white or clear, thick or watery, thin or slippery and slimy or clumpy, like yogurt or tapioca.

    I was so mesmerized by the meaty pussy sitting on my face... THST was my pleasure. My dick just didn't exist anymore (for a while) because I was so caught up in devouring the girl's pussy. And if I'm not thinking about MY physical pleasure my dick goes soft. My "esoteric" pleasure comes from enjoying the cornucopia of delights, the smorgasbord of wonders that resides always between her legs...🥴.
    My goal is to make her feel so good that she forgets about the dick in her mouth and she is just trying to breathe...

    Women like you are frustrating as fuck. Men as a whole are not good pussy eaters. If you ever find one that IS good at devouring your sweaty moist treasure chest... you complain about it.
    If a guy eats your pussy well (and maybe he's just starting but he's totally committed to learning so he can give you pleasure) SHUT THE FUCK UP and encourage him. You're sweaty and stinky and maybe just off your period but he's willing to go down on you? Really?
    He's fascinated by what you are willing to wipe and flush down the toilet.
    If he's willing... encourage him, praise his effort, tell him what you like, and be thankful.

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  • Maintaining an erection for long periods of time without direction stimulation, or the assistance of drugs like viagra or cialis, is a difficult thing to do. When I'm giving a woman oral, it lasts for quite a long time, especially if SHE requires a long time to orgasm, or if she's just enjoying it. There's no way I could STAY hard for half an hour or more doing that.

    The "why" to your question is simple physiology. I'm not saying it can't happen, but it's certainly not the usual course of events. Maybe if it was a younger guys 1st, 2nd or 3rd time, he might be excited just to BE there and stay hard no matter what! LOL But once you've done it quite a bit, it would be unusual.

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  • He just gets distracted with eating you. Means nothing. If it really bothers you, go down on him from time to time to keep him hard.

  • No, going soft isn't a sign that he's not enjoying it. Even when aroused, we can't maintain an erection indefinitely without actual direct stimulation.

    • Even if he is in his early 20s?

  • It probably is because his attention is focused elsewhere. Some guys need their penis stimulated by touching to keep it hard. After he gives you oral does it get hard again if you are going to have sex or give him a handjob or bj?

    • Yeah it gets hard again very quickly if I start sucking him after eating me out.

    • Have fun !!!

    • So even if he goes soft while eating me, if he gets it up again in a few seconds, he wasn't turned off by eating me? He's really young, so I just thought that really young guys stayed hard if they enjoyed doing something.

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  • It's beyond conscious control and it's hard to stay aroused without stimulation.

    • True

  • Okay here's the deal. His getting soft while giving you oral doesn't mean he's not turned on by doing that. It has to do with the mental focus it takes to give good oral. I know that seems like a contradiction because if it turns him on then why doesn't he stay completely hard during the whole time he's giving you oral? But it just doesn't work that way for an extended oral session. His mental focus is on making fine motor movements with his mouth and tongue and staying in rhythm on the right parts. That level of concentration takes away from his own erection somewhat but it would be inaccurate to say that it was because he wasn't turned on from giving you oral.
    🎅🎄

  • Cunnilingus is exacting, distracting work. You have to keep running through the menu to keep her arousal going. My arousal is a byproduct and when the finale approaches, my boneur will likely soften as I bear down. If course I enjoy it, bit like you giving a blow job, my satisfaction is in a job well done.

  • It's normal. Dont worry about it or make anything of it

  • I guess he doesn't enjoy it as much as getting stimulated himself but like so what? Maybe you need to make more sexy noises I guess.

  • No, he just doesn't need to be hard whilst he does it. The important thing is that, if you enjoy it, he must serve you. You can always tease him whilst he goes down on you. Edge him or play with his balls or anus.

    • I thought that young guys get hard if they are doing something arousing and don't go soft if they really enjoy it though. He's young and it's been this way since we got. together. im worried that he doesn't like to eat me out. He can stay hard when we 69, however.

    • Maybe he's concentrating hard. Don't worry. He's doing as he is told. Tell him he is a good slaveboy.

  • I means he's focused on your pussy.

  • Some men get E. D early in their life.

    • I mean if I put it in my mouth after he goes soft while eating me, it will get rock hard again in a few seconds. So I don't know if this means that he just doesn't enjoy eating my pussy?

  • Isn't that too much to ask from him? I mean he eats you out, gives you what you want and you just lie down there cumming and overhinking later.

    That's too much pressure for having a dick right? I feel bad for your boyfriend.

    Stop overthinking and get your pussy / ass eaten in peace.

  • why not 69?

  • Try sexy images

  • You overthink, just close ur eyes and let him do his job lol

  • It may be due to the fact that he is concentrating more on your pleasure rather than what he is doing and how much doing that turns him on. I don't really know. I haven't haff much problems in that area. Sorry I couldn't help more

  • Most guys go soft without stimulation. He doesn't go soft during 69 because it's being stimulated.

  • Does your pussy stay wet while you are sucking his cock? Probably not.

  • Perhaps, but that’s admirable he does it for your pleasure.

    • If he gets rock hard again in a few seconds when I put him in my mouth after he eats me, does that mean he most likely didn't get turned off by eating me?

    • Perhaps. But does it matter?

  • No, not at all. It means he focuses on pleasuring you, which I think is great!

    • Very succinct... I could practice that I think...🤔.

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