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Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?

For those who don't know, Gentle FemDom (Female domination) is a more gentle, loving, and sentimental version of FemDom. It doesn't have normal FemDom's more painful, humiliating, or extreme aspects.

Because of the emotional intimacy, it's (from what I've personally seen), not purely sexual. All of the couples from Tumblr, Reddit, and Twitter that I've seen who do this are led by the woman--and these women aren't nagging, overbearing harpies. They genuinely care for and love their men!
Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?
Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?
Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?
I was introduced to this concept by my ex-girlfriend, who suddenly decided to take charge (originally, she was submissive) and called me her "Pet". According to Urban Dictionary, a Master/Pet relationship is more loving and affectionate than a Master/Slave relationship. Neither of us knew the name that Gentle FemDom had; all we knew is it was a more loving and soft version of regular FemDom.

So I was basically her slave, servant, bitch, slut, whatever you wanna call it--but I was cherished and loved. I got on Tumblr and found out what Gentle FemDom was called a couple years later.
Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?
Guys and Girls, how do you feel about Gentle FemDom?
I would be lying if I said I didn't miss that. It felt good to not be in control and to let a more assertive woman take the lead (My ex was a bit boyish and aggro). It felt good to acknowledge her as the alpha in a relationship and to be cherished and cared for.

I wanna know what the guys and girls think about the concept of Gentle FemDom. Did anyone here have experiences with it like me? Whether you did or didn't, what are your thoughts?
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  • I like it, mainly because I’m into the older woman /younger man dynamic, and I just can’t see myself playing a dominant role. I still have a stigma against BDSM as I was taught not to mistreat women and whatnot, so even just things like spanking and choking, even if consensual, makes me uncomfortable. I know that is only a small part of BDSM, but I still have that stigma of it.


    Although I am a total virgin, I’m actually a part of a BDSM group that revolves around the 1950s household lifestyle, and they’ve been a huge help in me understanding what my role is. I figured it was in the ballpark of sub/bottom/little/middle. I then had a discussion with the group’s admin who has been a BDSM/Gorean dom for 25 years, and told me that I am closest to the “boy” role so I’ve just been sticking with that.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Well, I don't know about the way it's characterised in Internet culture (ie: "Tumblr Femdom"), but the sexual kink itself I'd be quite into. The tricky part is telling a girl you'd like her to be dominant more often in bedroom, coz most women expect the opposite

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh boy... you don't even know how much I love doing this 🤩 pretty much only this or me being more dominant or nothing at all for me nowadays

    I think people that don't even try this are just missing out hugely but I may be bias 🤣

    • You like to sit on him and pin him to the ground? I love that so much

    • @lucky-guy not necessarily a guy but yeh

    • That’s so hot. How long do you keep them pinned for?

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  • Yes!!! Yes!! Y e s!!! That is exactly my kind of thing! I'd love to find me a man who would let me be his loving dom.

    • Awesome. The world needs more women like you.

    • How would such a man spot you in a crowd? Do you think you give off dominant vibes per se, or is it kinda hidden under the surface [ie: not an expressed part of your social persona]?

    • In fact... I've never discussed this with a girl... Would you like us to discuss these ideas together? I'm 24 years old, handsome, smart My telegram @alqudah1997 Email Ef18110016@gmail. com We'll discuss where we're going to chat after we connect

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  • I think it's a really hot role-playing scenario. I'm a switch. I love it when a woman decides that tonight, I will serve her. I like the idea of being used sexually and told what to do (and most importantly, how to do it better) in the bedroom. I always learn so much as to how she likes to be pleased. I also enjoy it if she's the one who will decide when and where I'm allowed an orgasm. When she grants me permission, I feel like I've earned it.

    My ultimate fantasy would include her sharing me with other women who also take control in the bedroom. In other words, her and her girlfriends would swap out boyfriends/husbands for the night, on a regular basis. That way, the women could experience new and different lovers all time without feeling like they are cheating on their boyfriend/husband.

  • As someone who's never really been into the whole "power dynamics" side of sex, it definitely sounds more appealing than the usual "screaming psycho" forms of domination you see in porn.

  • Most guys want to be taken care of and loved and cherished. Thats why they say a woman's first baby is their husband. We take care of y'all.

    • Interesting, but not a helpful answer.

    • I want to be her only baby one day. 🥰

  • I had a girlfriend several years ago who could be described like this. Gentle FemDom. To me it was fun. We're used to being in charge so much. So it is nice to be able to hand it over to her for awhile and let her take control.

  • Do other guys find dominant women sexy? or is it just me. Shit I want to be man-handled sometimes or at least attempted on.

    • I do too, in case the final part of my post wasn't proof.

  • Indifferent.
    My fiancée used to be like that, but nowadays I rarely allow her to touch me.

    • She used to be gentle and dominant toward you? And what happened; what went wrong?

    • Yes. Nothing particular - at first I got sick, then I got too wrapped up in work and projects. Anyhow, I have other priorities than that stuff at the moment.

    • Still, lucky you.

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  • Not into it.

  • Honestly, not fond of the idea. I don't like the idea of being submissive and being referred to as "pet". Just doesn't sit right with me and not my cup of tea.

    I know people who like it and enjoy playing with that kink. More power to them, but I will pass

    • I understand. Still, in the context of gentle femdom, something like "Pet" or "Puppy" is supposed to be more affectionate. This isn't the hardcore, extreme femdom that we see a lot.

  • I'd like it

  • Love it.

  • It's not my thing personally but I support the idea behind it and if that's what you like then cool, do whatever turns you on.

  • I want to be a good boy gentle fem dom relationship 🥺

  • I'd be into it, as well as regular femdom which I have participated in. I guess I do have more of a submissive side and kind of get turned on by her taking control.

  • I've been turned on by femdom and female supremacy since forever (as fantasy, not reality). But I never liked BDSM. I'm much more into mind control and magic / fantasy roleplay. I often like feeling someone smaller than me take control through sheer will.

  • This is my specialty. I love doing this to my boyfriend🖤

    • You sit on him and pin him down?

    • Why isn't this bad treatment to him? To dehumanised another human being as a slave and lower them like this? let alone to someone you love

    • What all do you make him do?

  • I'm not interested in it, myself, but to each their own. I support people's rights to indulge in it.

  • Oh yes , all for that...

  • Why is it gentle? Why does that trigger me so bad?

  • With the right girl I’d be pretty open minded, not sure if this would work for me because I am generally more assertive personality wise, but on the other hand, maybe it could be a nice change of pace once in a while. I’m dominant by nature but in a more gentle way as well, I don’t wanna treat someone that I love like shit I wanna communicate that love through my actions and words

    • "Gentle Maledom." I should look that up sometimes!

  • Its morally wrong. Its a way for both to mask their short comings and use the other as a crutch instead of fix themselves.

    • I have seen cases of that where the guys just use the girl to deal with their mental/emotional issues. But most of the time, that's not the case. They take care of each other most of the time, as they should.

    • How? Is this because the man is not dominant?

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