Had sex for the first time with a guy and I gave him a blow Job but he didn’t eat me out - should I stop seeing him?

[Anonymous]

So been seeing this guy for a few weeks and we had sex last night for the first time. Before the sex, I gave him a really good blow job (I read up on this and really try to pleasure the guy) and afterwards he entered me and in like 7 minutes came. I don’t cum vaginally, only clitorally, and I wasn’t expecting to climax.. but when I told my friend she was like wtf, she’d be pissed because she got nothing out of it. And now I’m kinda wondering why he never ate me out or fingered me or anything... should I not continue seeing him?

[Firesparks]

If he won't eat you out after that then no sex plain n simple... both should give equally not one side only... if it is him only then only cares bout himself being pleased n doesn't care bout the girl getting pleased after the work she has put into it !

[Firesparks]

I love eating pussy n that would be done first before getting by n so if you was with me you get ate out 1st long time too before anything else would hsppen

[AndyOh]

Maybe see him again if you like him.
And, if you get in the sack again, talk to him. See if he likes that stuff - the foreplay. Some guys are neanderthal and think, 'Women suck dick and we fuk - uh'. Others need a little more direction.

[AndyOh]

Thanks for the MHO. :) I hope it all worked out for you.

[summiter]

He should return the favor every time. You deserve some good orgasms also!!!

[boggboss]

Did u communicate what u wanted from the sex or expect him to read your mind

[Asker]

I feel like that should be innate, I want to be with an guy who wants to pleasure me. I shouldn’t have to ask for it

[boggboss]

Lol he may have believed he was pleasuring you lol man guys dont know that many women don't cum from penetrative sex fuck many women don't even know how to make them self cum if you are not able to communicate sexual needs and wants u may not be ready to be having aex hun as shitty as that sounds how can u be able to have sex but not talk about the act of sex u may have thought I know what will get him good a blow job he may have though if I give her good sex she is bound to cum

[Asker]

He didn’t even last long? I just feel like this is common sense

[boggboss]

Lol nothing to do with sex is common sense apart from u stick dick in women yes he didn't last long if thats a issue fair enough but simply expecting a partner to know what u want from sex is silly in the long run and will just lead to disappointment again if u are truly not happy drop him and continue looking but we all crave different things in sex my girl mostly finishes from penetrative sex and tends to be too sore to go again but if I'm still in the mood will help me other ways this only came about from communication between the two off us

[SarahP080102]

Make him Lick it to Stick it

[dumbslut8888]

If it was just one time then no. If its a problem that persists then yes. You should definitely tell him though.

[Zebadee88]

Did you ask him?

[Asker]

Not yet but I’m about to

[Zebadee88]

I meant after he came you could have asked for some tongue

[Asker]

Like I said in my question it wasn’t until I told my friend about it she was like wtf and said she’d never see him again so no it didn’t cross my mind

[Zebadee88]

So if you were content with the encounter then don't listen to your friend. Wait until ntil next time and see if he gives you any attention

[Wise4myage]

I agree with your friend, but give him one more chance and see what happens.

[larry69]

I love fingering and eating pussy. My favorite part is making her have multiple orgasms.

[Asker]

See like when I know guys like you exist there isn’t any way I’d settle for a guy who doesn’t want to

[larry69]

I love eating pussy even during menstruation. Period time can be the best sex.

[larry69]

I would rather eat pussy than have a blow job.

[Asker]

You’re gold

[larry69]

I wish I could find a woman like you. Especially if she would let me eat her pussy to multiple orgasms especially during menstruation.

[larry69]

Follow me if you would like to chat.

[larry69]

How often do you like sex?

[Twalli]

As he didn't do it just once I don't think you should yet. If he repeatedly refuses to do so, then you may want to consider it.

[Asker]

I think I’m going to message him and ask him

[KrakenAttackin]

Yeah, you should keep score everytime you have sex.😒

[Valnac]

I would do that to you before we have sex.

[Asker]

Precisely

[MarcusJohnson]

I think that it’s a mutual experience and if he’s not reciprocating the experience you should let him know. Don’t give up on him too soon it’s about being open and honest.

[AnthonyJ01]

Maybe he is not into that. Personally, I do not ask to receive, but I most definitely love to give and cannot get enough of that.

[Jmmmfi4]

Talk to him

[gandolph3]

If it becomes a habit dump him