i am a transgender and i'm curious if people would date a trans girl
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MrOracleInfluencer
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There are some men who would, but I absolutely would not, and most men would not. I'm glad that some would, because it would be nice if everyone who wanted a partner had one. I have nothing against you personally and wish nothing bad on you.
Having said that, it's important that you accept that most men can accept you as a person but will never accept you as a woman. Further, if you deceive men and are discovered (which is almost a certainty), those men will likely be very upset, and a good number of them will be violently so. They will feel betrayed to their core, and it could get very ugly.
To avoid all that, I strongly recommend that you be honest about your status, and let the men who are interested come fully informed. Those men will be fine with you anyway, and you will avoid the friction from those who aren't up for it.
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JustACuriousLady
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Men are violent, protect yourself is a mantra women know well.
MrOracle
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@JustACuriousLady Deceiving a man and involving his sexuality in it is one of the most severe betrayals there are to most men - perhaps exceeded only by harming a close family member - and most men are going to be quite upset about it. Some percentage of them will get violent as a result. The point is to avoid such betrayals in the first place. The vast majority of men couldn't care less if someone is trans - they're just not romantically or sexually interested in them - but when they are deceived, that's a very different matter.
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MCheetahEditor
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Unless they're gay, nah, no man is going to date a transwoman. Some do "fall for the trap" (with the 1-4% of transwomen out there that don't obviously look like duded), but that doesn't mean they're suddenly going to develop an affinity for cock anytime soon... Unless they already had it, to begin with. Even at my loneliest, I've only ever thought about being friends with a transwoman. But no, you're not going to be able to 'shame men' into being gay, no matter how many "transphobic" accusations and other meaningless buzzwords progressives throw out there.
No, men aren't attractive to other straight men. But hey; whole lotta in-the-closest gay guys out there, nowadays. That's why trap porn was supposedly so popular on PornHub before they purged the site of everything.
But to answer the question of course they can be, And yes I would if I liked her enough
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Don-__-Don
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EXPOSED
Kaneki05
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She's a smartphone lol
MissDawn7961
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thanks for lettig us know that this is a fake so I will tell this place so
ScreenwriterGuru
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Of course there are transgender women who are attractive. The issue might be, especially if you have your original equipment, if a man who was attracted to a woman would be OK with your nonstandard genitalia. You'd have to be upfront with him, if that's your sexual orientation. It would be the same if you were with a lesbian woman. Would she be OK with your equipment, despite liking your personality and general looks. That's all!
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emmablack2442
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yes i have my original equipment. i hope guys are ok with that
Screenwriter
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I would mention that most straight males are not interested in having sex with women who have penises and testicles. Just as most straight women are not interested in having sex with men who have vaginas. Not where either of their interests lie. Be up front about your transgender status and what equipment you have when the moment is right. Not on a first date if nothing comes of it. Doesn't matter. But if the dating is going somewhere, you have to tell your partner.
Sabretooth
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some guys are attracted to the unique appeal of it.
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Screenwriter
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@Sabretooth I'm sure some are. I would venture to say most aren't. Just as most women with a transgender man would not be interested in a vagina. But, we would love the person! No doubt about that.
Sabretooth
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some call em tranny chasers-i think that's a bit over-blown.
Screenwriter
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@Sabretooth There's a group for EVERYBODY! But isn't that great! Fat chasers, tall chasers, ass men, leg women... tranny fanciers! It's all good.
Sabretooth
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sadly, they gotta negative stigma. i don't ee one in my future-in love with another girl-still, i can see how one have a unique mindset.
Screenwriter
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@Sabretooth What people do in the privacy of their homes is nobody's business. Don't advertise who you're with and no one will be the wiser. Someday soon nobody will care what set of gentials you're involved with. It's up to you. What do you like? What kind of person is it? Some people like thrills, some are gayish. Does it matter? It's the heart and soul of people that're important. Their generosity and kindness. Their ability to love and be loved. Their loyalty and responsibility. Their smile and their laugh! Those are the most important things.
Sabretooth
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i just wish it wasn't forced in movies and such.
Sabretooth
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and i mean negative by trans girls. when faced with something different, you can hate it it or be curious-i wouldn't say bi-curious-just generally curious... though, if we're talking about trans girl in name only... yeah... you're not straight.
Screenwriter
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@Sabretooth Oh, come on. You know films and news outlets latch onto anything new and trendy to play up. Has nothing to do with what's occurring in real life. I've met one transgender woman in my lifetime. Must be 18 years ago and it wasn't any kind of introduction. She was selling Christmas trees at Unitarian church. There was a transgender delivery person I chatted with a bit in 2019. The delivery person seemed sweet. Met a transgender woman during Census taking. That's my entire experience. Don't know anyone personally. They are 2 percent of the human population. Maybe in some workplaces, such as academia, there are more. I've heard this from my professor woman friend. But I can see how they wouldn't be close to straight women or men.
Sabretooth
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still annoying to have it shoved down my throat.
Screenwriter
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@Sabretooth Oh Sabretooth, how many OTHER thing are shoved down your throat? A million. I've been annoyed at the craziness of the "transgender" issue. Gabriel Union and her basketball husband "supporting" their 10 year old's transgenderness. 10 year old? Don't 10, 11, 12, 13, 14 and so on kids go through a million iterations? Why is this news? Maybe to your family? Be supportive. This is like announcing your kid has type 1 diabetes or leukemia. Not to say transgender status is a disease. That's not what I mean. I mean this is a FAMILY thing. Not something to be spread across newspapers all over the country. I don't understand how Union and her husband don't get the meaning of PRIVACY. Do they tell us how they dress up in their bedroom? Then why tell us how their little boy believes he is a girl and has started dressing and, I suppose, acting as one, whatever THAT means. That's the TRENDY part. It's in the public eye, so everyone throws it in the public eye. When their kid is 20, it is more than likely they will have settled on being male again. Even if they haven't, what is the purpose of blasting their kids' transition all over the media? To prove they've accepted their child? That's only important to their child, not to you or me. I'm very sad for them. They're confused about what's essential in a family.
Sabretooth
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you're reminding me of ''Elliot Page'' i don't think he's long for the world... given the fact that we're talking about a celeb.
Screenwriter
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@Sabretooth Elliot, the former Ellen Page, has simply changed their name. Elliot Page, as far as I can tell, is simply as gay as they were when they came out years ago, and is simply climbing on this "transgender" bus, which seems to mean anything and everything: i. e. if you dress like a man, or "feel" like one, you ARE a man. Elliot Page does not have body dysmorphia, is not taking male hormones, is not dissatisfied or disgusted with the female body he was born with. He is a gay person who is involved with a gay woman. Because Elliot appears to be the "leader" in the relationship, he wants to call himself a "man." This is as restrictive and sexist as anything. It's not gender fluid. The point is PEOPLE are gender fluid, naturally. Women wear pants, these days some guys wear utilikilts or even dresses with pantyhose or stockings. Some guys express themselves in a more traditionally "feminine" manner. Some women fix cars and mow lawns. (that would be me) This has nothing to do with who they find sexually attractive or their sexual orientation. My fixing my car and mowing my lawn doesn't make me a man OR transgender because I DON'T have the issues that TRUE transgender people have: the feeling that they were always in THE WRONG BODY and the need to change themselves to fit their mental image of themselves. It's really an insult to true transgender people. I feel sorry for them that they've been co-opted by a trend that's suddenly popular. This happened briefly with gay men and women, but I don't recall people rushing to call themselves "gay."
Screenwriter
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OR believe that they WERE gay.
Sabretooth
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useful knowledge to know if there's a draft before trump leaves office.
I am into transgender girls that are physically attractive. Many of them wait far to late to begin taking the hormone treatments and it just doesn't work! Bruce Jenner is a good example of that. He waited until he was almost 60 years old to start the treatments. The body is way too old to change at that age. If a guy starts treatments as a teen, it will work. I have met some trans girls who started at puberty. Their bodies look totally female from up close and they are beautiful! I am bisexual, so the idea of a sexy woman with a dick who looks like a model is a real turn-on for me! I can understand that straight guys wouldn't be into that, though. Transgender girls are far more common than you think. In america and other western countries, they tend to keep more of a low profile and only hang out with each other. I have a trans friend who lives in Atlanta and she told me once that there are over 20 thousand trans there! In my country, transgender people are more accepted and I see them everywhere. Many are foreigners from all over the world. We probably have almost as many as Thailand now.
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iCumLikeCrazy2Xper 5
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I Would Date You In A Heartbeat!!! There are many attractive transgender girls!!! But there are a few that look like nightmares!!! YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT!!! You are gorgeous and sexy and will attract a lot of other girls!!! Maybe even some guys!!! The Girls re Gonna Love You & Eat You Up!!! I Would!!! And I Would Be PROUD To Date You & Show You Off and Do Naughty Things To You Too!!!
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SvellteXper 5
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Is this not you? I believe this is you. Transgender people are attractive to some people. This picture is beautiful.
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Jhab96Xper 4
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Hunny. Im a straight man, personally I want a woman who is naturally a woman. HOWEVER, you are a human being nonetheless. You're beautiful, intelligent, unique in all your ways.. but you have to get a grip and simply accept that dating as a transgender is harder. NOT IMPOSSIBLE. But it is harder. They may not be all over the place, but they're are plenty of fellows who are open to dating anyone of any sexual orientation. My sister is trans so im close to this.. you just have to be comfortable in your own skin sweetheart. Accept who you are and don't let anyone make you feel like you're living a lie. YOU ARE YOU. period. And one day, just like the rest of us singles haha, someone will walk into your life and accept you just the way you are. Dont lose hope 💜
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emmablack2442
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thank you (:
testersite00Xper 5
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yes! trans girls are hot!
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emmablack2442
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☺ thank you
MissDawn7961
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testersite00 - not ! not ! not ! U feel this way because U do not have what it takes to get a - real woman - so U go for your own sex to date U homo ! thanks
wingattebaby16Guru
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i think you are hella pretty.
i am bi and best sex i ever had was with a trans girl... she had DD boobs, and the biggest penis I have ever had and seen. She was able to please me like 5 times in a row before I wore her "pudding" tanks dry.
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hellionthesagerebornGuru
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Some are and some are not. As for dating, I would probably not. I want to have a child some day and that is obviously not going to happen with some one who is transgender. That said, there are men who will be interested, some for casual, others for an actual relationship.
I will just say be upfront and honest about everything, I don't think its the being transgender that bothers people but rather the feeling like they were lied to, and when you do that they can lash out which is quite honestly understandable on their part but also will be dangerous for you.
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TheorionMageGuru
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To my perception trans girls are but full-time insightful cross-dressing female impersonators~
Notice how many FEWER trans MALE impersonators there seem to be. The grass is NOT always greener for a hard core trans 'butch' Lesbian ~
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PhantomMkXper 5
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You look fine keep doin you.
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MissDawn7961
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PhantomMk - and stop being U ! thanks
iseekpinetreesGuru
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Fact women are more open to trans female than men are. So depends on who your interested in.
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MissDawn7961
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not true ! your lies will send U to hell too
iseekpinetrees
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Dont believe in hell sorry.
GalwaysLittleBirdXper 5
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I wouldn't. I still think that at the end of the line, it's a man who I'm daring.
But I'd say in next generations it will become more common. Kids being raised these days are more open minded and care less about the biological gender.
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MissDawn7961
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GalwaysLittleBird - U do not know all kids so U can not say how open minded they R so U R lying here ! thanks
MissDawn7961
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GalwaysLittleBird - U do not know all kids these days so U can not say how open minded they R ! thanks
MissDawn7961
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GalwaysLittleBird - U do not know all kids and how open minded they R or not ! thanks
Yes they can be attractive and I have no issues with anyone who is trans. But dating one is not for me. Life is short just be happy!
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AndyOhYoda
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From what I have seen out there... Some are drop dead gorgeous. If that is you, you look amazing.
Just be sure to let your date know that you are TG before getting too far into the relationship... or the night. It might be too much of a surprise to your suitor, and a few gurls have ended up dead from it.
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emmablack2442
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awee! thanks! ☺
AndyOh
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Welcome. I dress but not transitioning.
emmablack2442
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will you transition?
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AndyOh
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At this point in time - no because of a few issues I have to deal with. Maybe in a few years I might reconsider. I have a lot of TG friends who say I should.
emmablack2442
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what issues?
AndyOh
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We should PM if you want details, and I can send a pic of me.
emmablack2442
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it won't let me pm you for some reason
Freddy78361Xper 6
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There are some gorgeous trans girls. And some look like men.
It's the luck of the genetic draw.
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JenomXper 6
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Not at all. I'm not gay, so I don't find males attractive at all.
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jshm2Master
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You mean a bloke, who has butchered himself to convince others he's a girl, bucko.
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Kaneki05Master
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Ones who do it well and look like a girl for sure can be. passable ones tend to be attractive. But i wouldn't date because by Sex they are not what i am sexually attracted to, if in the future we develop tech to make a transgender person not only changed by gender but fully by sex. Like fully working vagina then sure.
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mikasa2910Xper 4
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you look great! really pretty :) you are most definitely attractive trust me on that!
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zayn7232Xper 5
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Tbh I don't care.. To love someone u don't require a gender but a heart And that's all u need to love someone. If I had a trans girlfriend or whatever I wouldn't just run away cause that would be stupid and that would make her very sad.. It's not always about the physical appearance.. Attractive or not I would still love her.
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