When did you first start to notice the opposite sex, sexually?

I was about 13/14 years old when I reached sexual maturity. What was the typical age for you? Did it change how you felt about yourself?
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  • First grade in a parochial elementary school. 1957
    Crushin on TWO little girls, one blonde and one a raven-haired. Still remember their names, Bonita Jeres and Renee France!

    Later that Summer, at the community 4th of July festivities there featured a stunning 20 yr old Chanteuse dressed IDENTICALLY to 'Jessica Rabbit' she sang "Around the World in Eighty Days"...
    at age 6 ... I was smitten and got 'first wood'. Had no idea what to DO with it, but it was there.

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  • About 13-ish. Maybe a bit sooner. The switch got fully flipped when I lost my virginity at 13 tho, just because I made the connection that if I'm attracted to girls, girls would be attracted to me. Didn't think I'd ever really be any girl's type before tbh. And now I have an ever growing harem to myself and my girlfriend. 👌

Most Helpful Girls

  • I was 11 when I started feeling sexual attraction to men and 12 for women. I started reading smut at age 11– and was sexually attracted to several celebrities, and at age twelve I was sexually attracted to men and women

  • I started thinking about sex with boys i knew or guys I saw at about 11 or 12

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  • Probably around 11 or 12? I remember my first crush... ah, middle school!

  • I got my first boner when I was nine. I remember it, too. It was a Snoop Dogg music video with "big booty bitches." It was made more awkward in hindsight cause it was Thanksgiving... True story.

  • 12ish

  • I was about 13 or so right when I reached puberty and started to masturbate.

  • 9 years old

    • Super cute age

  • 4 years old.

  • I'd say very close to that age myself, is say 12 to 13 sounds about right for me as well

  • Hmm, it's hard to remember. Probably about 12 years old

  • 15/16 I think

  • Age 6. My first crush

    • You knew about sex at 6 years old?

    • Not really, but felt attraction, love, longing to be intimate with her. And for physical stuff, we used to dance together. Her touch used to feel so special. Didn't really introspect on why I felt that way at that time though

  • First year in secondary scool, so 12 - 13.

  • Long before puberty. Probably 8-9. My school buddies would talk a lot about girls/women and their bodies around that age.

  • Growing up in a nude family that taught sex really, I was 8 when I learned

  • i start around 12/13 to see girls more beautiful then normal.

  • About the same as you, 13 to 14.

  • I think I was 11. Maybe 12. Those were some awkward years, let me tell ya.

  • "Sexual maturity" at 13/14 ? Uh... no. Sexually aware, yes.
    I was about 5 or 6 when I realized there was a real difference between boys and girls, but it wasn't till I was about 12 that I discovered there was an attraction going on.

    • Um, yeah. Everybody is different. My body stopped going through changes around that time. Usually around 12 is when you start learning about reproductive systems so that sounds about right.

  • I think about 11 or 12.

  • I was 12 when that happened.

  • Around 12 years old

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