Would it bother you if the person your talking to doesn't like to sext or send nudes?

[Anonymous]

But is affectionate in person?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

It's weird. When I was in highschool I expected nudes but didn't really need them. When I got into college I was like "nudes and sexting is dumb just get me the real thing" and now that I'm a little older my perspective changed again and I kinda am a little annoyed I don't have as many nudes of this girl in talking to as I'd like.

Not that it's her responsibility to get me the supply though. But I just think that when you're 24 there's a lot less of a reason not to. It's like what am I gonna do, Show them around campus? I don't even go anymore.

But you shouldn't worry about stuff like that. If it's really that important to the guy you're talking to then he might not have his head in a place that's right for you. Be affectionate to people who's love isn't conditional upon nudes. Maybe it will bother him, I'm sure you'll find a way to make it up to him. Relationships are all compromises so I'd say try not to sweat it too much.

[Asker]

The last paragraph you wrote is the way I see it too.

[ohshee]

Think if your close enought the n and you can meet then yes that's cool but when your across the world and you really like this person thsts all you can do to please each other is sextiing or nudes I would rather do it your way but sometimes you can't at that moment

[Cynicaldreamer]

Are there still men out there that behave that way?
If so, please send them my way~

No, that wouldn't bother me, that's a turn on! It shows he doesn't think about sex all the time! Believe it or not, you can be romantic and show you care about someone without sending nudes or sexting them.

[Asker]

Right? 🙂 I feel like the people that do not ask for nudes or do sexting are the more romantic types that know how to make someone feel loved on a whole other level than a nude or sext cannot give.

[iseekpinetrees]

Many people are this way. They prefer you see them in person. It sucks when ur horny n wanna see them naked but otherwise didn't bother me.

[Red_Arrow]

How often can I see them in person? If not that often, then I would be at least somewhat bothered without sexting or nudes.

[lightbulb27]

no, I'd value that.

[Quiet_Wanderer]

Purely a personal taste thing that is. Some people just aren't comfortable with it, and thats ok.

[summiter]

It would not bother me. It is her choice not mine.

[Almost10inch4funlol]

No not at all, I do what I want because I ENJOY IT regardless of what she returns

[foxrider77]

Well dik pics shouldn’t be a deal breaker. Just have him show his abs or body in a swimsuit. Too many nudes floating around they end up selling them on the dark web anyway.

[Shiver]

Nah, it's fine. I get it, some people aren't comfortable taking pics or videos of themselves. If I get to see them in person it's all good.

[icecreamanmam]

I'm indifferent. If you're asking for confirmation that not all people are comfortable, i'd say yes. If you're otherwise asking would it bother me personally if my love interest did not want to do sexting, then uh... i'm unsure how i'd feel. Like, it's not such a big deal, however...

[DavidFox]

Nope

[bowenw]

Not at all. It tells me they have high standards and self respect. That probably means they are the kind of person where a long term relationship is possible.

[pigoat]

Not my thing

[chriscdi]

not really cause if we are just talking then its expected

[Asker]

What about if you are dating?

[chriscdi]

i dont expect nudes and sexting but at some point i might want to have a family and well where would that leave things then?

[Danny_dan92]

Well personally I do not care for getting nudes from women nor do I ask for them.


But sexting? If we get to that point and she’s boring, naturally I’m gonna think she is a starfish in the bedroom.


Aka. Boring af

[RohitLakra]

It wouldn't bother me. Actually it's a smart choice to not send nudes online to anyone no matter what. Sexting is a personal choice. If someone's not into it, then one should respect that choice.

[RohitLakra]

Moreover, I'd never consider that woman capable of being in a serious relationship who sends nudes online. If she does, she's going to be a temporary one for me.

[Asker]

I agree with you.

[Liam_Hayden]

It would bother me if she DID like to sext and send nudes.

[Solstice777]

I would move right on to the next girl

[Gedaria]

A little but it not a deal breaker.

[pizzalovershouse]

No not my thing

[chHaynes]

It would not bother me at all I'm not into that but I would like for her to be affectionate

[Twalli]

Not at all. Granted they're always appreciated, but should never be expected