Why are men more turned on by housewives than younger girls in role play?

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Im a 20 yo phone sex operator, and i noticed something weird. I always thought men preferred younger women, so i tell my age but sometimes go as far as saying that I’m 18, to turn them on even more. Men seems excited at first and it’s pretty good, but then I don’t know why, I decided to play the role of a lonely 35 yo housewife who’s husband is absent, and suddenly I noticed that almost every guys became hornier and more excited than when I played the role of a barely legal woman. It’s a genuine question tho, but are men actually more turned on by experienced housewives than teen girls? I always thought it was the opposite. Can someone explain why were these men more turned on with the idea of fucking a housewife? And I saw the same reaction from older like younger men, it’s like even the 50 yo dudes prefered the housewife role play.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

My guess is that it seems like a more realistic and obtainable thing that they relate to better.

Plus, most men don't want another wage-earner as a partner - he's already got that part covered - they want a housewife; something they don't have and can't really be themselves. They don't want their wives and girlfriends to have all of the frustrations they have: the stress of work, the hours of commuting, having very little free time, etc., and they also would like some support at home. Women, even women who would prefer to be a housewife, are being taught that they MUST go to college and have a career or they have failed, and so most choose that path but end up miserable, and the men mostly have to date those women because there are so few alternatives, and so they're miserable too. That's why the divorce rate is so high.

This fantasy is about getting what they really want, and which the current culture tells them they aren't allowed to want. So, yeah, I can see why it's successful.

knottywriter · Accepted Answer

I mean I love thinking about the younger woman and even getting off to them. I use photos I find online to use as inspiration for some of my erotic poems and some of the younger women just have me so horny that I can't help but play when I'm done writing. I mean it's pure fantasy. I think the answer to why they get more excited about the housewife is because it's a mentality of she's forbidden or not mine to play with and it increases the thrill for them. Even though the woman is younger in the other scenario, they find the thrill of getting the housewife off and taking care of her needs without the hubby knowing a conquest perhaps.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Actually men in phone sex are more turned on by your voice. Women with a sexy voice will be able to achieve results and make money because men can't see that you may be ugly, fat, or even old - or even a guy with a feminine voice. They use their imagination and visualize you as they want someone to look like, or maybe even reacting because you sound like someone they know that they may have a MILF fantasy of.

iseekpinetrees · Accepted Answer

Men want what they can't have. Housewives are more realistic though.

AustinMan · Answer

A frustrated housewife is a sexual goldmine. She's experienced, skilled, wanton, and grateful. None of those apply to an 18 year old. I'm kinky and a frustrated housewife, while she may not know she's submissive, almost always are.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Interesting. Is the line you work for dedicated to a specific paraphillia or other subcategory? Is there, in short, another common factor to it? Have you spoken with other operators about this?

I don't know why it would be the case, but I've often wondered about where sexual turn-ons come from, and it's not the sort of thing that easily comes up in conversation. Polite company avoids it, and impolite company usually gets derailed by it.

ohshee · Answer

Well for me I don't care about that what turns me on in role play us how she goes about it ,, so I'm going to say you are probably a very good roleplayer. And I would say guys can feel your words and not just hear them. And that makes you very Good Hot Sexy on what you do and how you do it. And for me thst is so Hot

Quiet_Wanderer · Answer

I am sure part of its the cheaters angle for some. But for others there might be the turn on from finding someone in a similar situation, and then more might also be atteacted to the idea of someone with experience and pent up desires, and getting to be the "benefactor" of all that pent up sexual frustration. You don't generally hear about teenage girls having that kind of pent up desire.

Freddy78361 · Answer

A 20 year old gal who is hot has an ego and it is all about them. A housewife loves her man and wants to please him. If she cheats it is because her needs aren't being met and she is attracted to the guy.

So: 20 years old or less is selfish.
Housewife is giving.

dumbslut8888 · Answer

A lot of guys love the idea of giving a girl what her boyfriend or husband won't. Its the cheating that's hot.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Not this man! Happily unmarried for 39 years!

magiusX26 · Answer

no clue. the younger girl thing is how i role.

MysticDevice · Answer

The housewife doesn't do it for me. It's the curious and adventurous 20 something that gets me going.

Archerer · Answer

A woman who knows what she wants is hotter

Solstice777 · Answer

I love younger girls but also I love the idea of fucking a married woman and ruining their marriage.

Daniel3035 · Answer

Younger girls care about messing with guys who have a job and money they can use with the girl around. Girls tend to have fun and mess with guys head and play games and now guys are fed up most serious girls are older and hence why no guy is willing to put up with younger girls because they are immature and pretend to like you and when you ask her out she rejects you for fun.

chHaynes · Answer

Personally I prefer roleplay the kind of guys you're referring to is men who are in their 50s and 60s who are old fashioned

EduardoDealva · Answer

Im not sure but i get really turned on when i see 18-21 year old girls in tennis skirts like now im about to go jerk off to sme pics i found😉

ND4SPD31 · Answer

Not me. Lol. I know I’m an older guy but I get judged for being 22-25 all the time & I’d prefer a younger girl! But not too young, like 21. Lol.

In_Trance · Answer

Physically, there's no disliking younger women; same for women with younger guys. For both however, there is something to be said about someone who has their shit together, and you typically only get that with experience, which accumulates with age

OddBeMe · Answer

You have to figure in your audience are shitheads calling in...

Valnac · Answer

They know what they want and they go for it. No games!

AFellowWeeb · Answer

This is bs, men do in fact preffer younger women.
They get more talkative if you are older or divorced, bc they think they have a chance, and less horny when your younger, bc they dont wanna sound creepy.
If u places a man on a desert island with 2 women for him to choose one, one a 35 yo divorced or with no husband and other that is a freshman in college with 18 or 20 girl, around 80% would choose the younger one, bc our brains are attracted to youthful looks in women, the others might have a milf fantasy

MarcusJohnson · Answer

Because older women are the best. No hassle with them just straight to the point

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