How does it feel to know that your wife could beat you up?

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It's not that I believe that a husband must always be physically stronger than his wife. As a pro-feminist man, my comfort in my own identity is not linked to any sense of muscular superiority over my spouse! At the same time, I'm a product of my upbringing. I've never been in a relationship with a woman of my wife's level of fitness and power and agility. It's been a shock to realize that I am frequently judged because of my partner's strength. The reactions I get when folks see us together in the gym fall into one of two camps: some people (usually men) assume I am "hen-pecked and put-upon", a wimpy victim who is dominated by his wife. Others assume I must have something very special "going for me" (something not evident to the naked eye, mind you); I must be "extra-confident" to be able to "handle" such a strong woman!
But in the end, while I celebrate my wife's physique, I don't rely on her looks or her athleticism to boost my self-esteem or my feminist credentials. What makes me proudest about my wife is that I think that she is such a marvelous role model for other women. Her willingness to tackle traditionally masculine sports, to be unafraid of developing strong and evident muscles, sends a powerful signal about female ability and potential. Our future children will see in their mother a woman who is very clear about one thing above all else: femininity, ferocity, and obvious physical strength are not mutually exclusive propositions! And in their father, lord willing, they will see a man who does not define his masculinity by his ability to physically protect his weaker wife.

How does it feel to know that your wife could beat you up?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think I understand the energy between you and your wife, it works well in some cases only. But in many cases, not only does a woman wishes her man to be physically stronger than, the man expects it too - and it's not at all because they are intimidated by a physically strong woman, they just don't find them attractive.

I used to (and still do, but less now), be very much into this site: malevsfemale. org which is a forum for the fetish of women beating men. What I realized is I'm among the few men, and further more even fewer women consider being stronger than their man a turn on (it's a strong turn off for many).

But in some cases, like your case, it works. But main point is this doesn't always have to do with "male ego", because as a guy who was into the lifestyle of sessions and being attracted to such women, and I earn fairly well, I soon realized even such women like a guy physically stronger - it makes them feel more feminine, as opposed to being with a cute guy friend. But like I said, it works well in some cases, like your case.

humanearth · Accepted Answer

My wife could always beat me up, but I have a trick up my sleeve. I was a track star at one time and I can run away fast and run for long distance. But if she ever gets her hands on me. I am a dead man.

She may not have been a body builder, but she used to enter Strong Woman competitions in the 90s and early 2000s. As an added plus she was raised on an cattle ranch. She just has that natural toughness and badass in her.

One time I seen her knock a guy out cold with one punch during a bar fight. Back in the day.

Yeah, you don't want to fuck with my wife. She still can throw a mean right cross

megan94 · Accepted Answer

Physical strength in a male does play a part if you go back to cave man days, it’s hard wired in our brains that the males protect the females, that’s true for 99% of the population, the other 1 % is this situation.
Which in reality who gives a shit what others think.
A female lion will do the hunting 99% of the time, but if it comes to it a male lion will hunt if needed for the other 1%
What’s to say this guy can’t protect his wife if needed?
It’s not about his wife been able to beat him up, it’s about him been able to still protect his wife under whatever circumstances it may be.
But with her build these two (lions) would make a dominating pride above the rest of the prides

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Maybe these abusive idiots should get a girl like that. They may be able to learn how to treat a woman like a lady and not their punching bag.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I think that you not only accept your wife for who she is, but support and promote that... And that you get that what she is, what she does is no reflection of what you are or aren't is really awesome... And that's what a REAL MAN is ladies...
I hope you and your wife have a great holiday season!!

menina · Answer

Well, if you guys are happy then there's no reason to judge your marriage. Just because she's physically stronger than you it doesn't mean that she has to beat you up or that you should beat her. That's not how a normal and respectful relationship works.

CindyRuns · Answer

I'm not anywhere near your wife's league, but I'm definitely in a lot better shape than my husband and could probably "beat him up" if I chose to... I don't... I love him to pieces !!!

I think it's awesome that you not only accept your wife as she is, but would encourage your daughters to follow in her footsteps.

I'd also add that muscles on a woman don't necessarily make her less feminine... I'm about as girly as they come... I just like running and working out.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Its never happened so I don't know what it would feel like. Personally, I don't care, if this is what you want and she wants who cares what others think.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

"How does it feel to know that my wife could beat me up?"

1. I don't currently have a wife.
2. I've never had a wife who could beat me up.
3. That idea has never been an issue for me.

So. . . the answer is that I have no idea how that would feel.

TheorionMage · Answer

ANYone CAN bleed.
EVERYBODY sleeps SOMETIME, including body builders.
MOST homes contain a cast iron skillet.
It takes only 15 lbs downward force to CRUSH a larynx
whereupon its owner DROWNS in their OWN blood.

... Play 'NICE'!
(Reference the infamous spouse abuse homicide case of "the burning bed")

hahahmm · Answer

No, you just have a mental block that prevents you from putting her on her knees and showing her who's really boss. Either that or you're sickly and abnormally weak for a man.

Novacane · Answer

If anything I feel like I would enjoy it and probably just annoy her more, I'll press every button she has and push her to hit me, and then I will press charges. (:

Keyboardkat · Answer

My wife, when I met her, had much stronger hands and a stronger grip than I. Her handshake could be crushing, and she could always beat me at arm-wrestling unless I made her laugh, which she couldn't control and which I loved about her.
We've been married nearly 50 years. She's not that strong now, but I wouldn't trade her for the world! My sense of self-worth doesn't come from my ability to match women (or men, either) in physical prowess!

iseekpinetrees · Answer

I wouldn't be with someone I could beat up.

Barbaric · Answer

Big muscles and bodybuilding have little to do with fighting ability. In fact when somebody gets too big it becomes detrimental.

As for your future children, you might struggle. Steroids have a negative impact on fertility in both the short-term and the long-term - complications conceiving, complications during pregnancy, birth defects.

This mentality and all that comes with it is dysfunctional

MrKinktastic · Answer

If she’s got a bad temper I’d be worried about it. Otherwise it’s just guys being assholes about something they don’t understand. Maybe they are intimidated by her.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

Just different cultures. Here men are not looked upon like that of being henpecked. I like a good muscle toned lady. As long as they don't take it to the extreme. As far as her beating me up, she would have to be fast and smarter than me. I don't rely on my brute strength to win a fight. Be proud of her and all her accomplishments and fuck the world. You posting this stuff doesn't really give off the vibe that you are confident about being with her and you are seeking others to agree.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

Honestly, as long as you two are happy, fuck what the rest of the world thinks. It doesn't matter to me one way or the other if my dude is scrawnier than me or bigger than me.

Newhead · Answer

Sounds hot, I want to be able to beat up my husband too.

Billlewis · Answer

I love it when the woman I'm serving is physically stronger than me and can easily beat me up and make me cry.

Zealashton · Answer

she needs to work out her ass way more, and lay off the tan stuff that stuff is nasty.
her ass is too small compared to herchest. thus it offsets the perportions
but i would not incress the muccle mass of her arms any more. if the arms are beyond the chest, then it over shadows the boobs and ass.

overall she hast gone to the man syndrom side soo its great overall. ya dont want flat chest

FictionalCharacter · Answer

The post and the info you wrote down, don’t match.  The title sounds harsh, while your story sounds nice.  It sounds like you admire and feel safe with your wife. It’s very nice for you both 💝.

Jjpayne · Answer

Id feel safe secure and I'd totally hide behind her incase there was a fight 😂 but seriously it would be pretty cool and make me feel protected around her

Freddy78361 · Answer

My wife could. eat me up because I wouldn't fight back. I would leave before I hurt her. I am happy for you that you have such a strong wife. But I don't get off on physical strength and dominance.

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