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If revealing clothes and promiscuity is a deal breaker, then why do men seek out these women?

I think it's time to call out the hypocrisy in "MOST" men who will advocate for "classy" and "conservative" women but will lust and chase after whores or women who dress inappropriately who seem to get the most attention.

Men will complain about weave, makeup and anything a woman will do to accentuate her beauty including breast and butt implants that they also complain about but will go to strip clubs to be entertained by these women these will also be the same women men will pay to sleep with and also cheat on their wives/girlfriends with. These also be the same women in rap videos.

Men will complain about revealing clothes and get upset at their wives/girlfriends post sexy revealing pictures online but women like Amber Rose, Cardi B, Kim K and Black Chyna who were former strippers/sex workers or any random Instagram model with a nice body gets over MILLIONS of likes off of pictures that they deem "inappropriate " if their spouse or significant other do it.

They also say they want a "Woman in public and a freak in private" but will secretly watch that "freak" on a porn whom every man has screwed who's naked body and sex acts is exploited for the entire world to see and they say they don't like whores but will sleep with prettiest whore they can find especially if her ass is fat enough.

Men say they like "natural-looking" women with little to no make up, short natural hair and dresses "classy" (meaning showing nothing but her eyes) yet these women don't get a second look barely any likes on social media and sometimes being called average.

Not saying this is all men but it's most men that practices such hypocritical behavior and please don't give the same old lame excuse saying "oh they're just easy women" "men just want to sleep with them" umm DUH 🤷 but obviously they've attracted these men to them enough to wanna sleep with them which still means that they still find these women attractive which is the point I'm making so please make it make sense?
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  • You are failing to make a distinction here that every man immediately understands: there are two different categories of women that you are talking about as if they're a single category (because, for women, they usually ARE a single category).

    For most men, there's a BIG difference between the kind of women they will DATE and be in a relationship with, and the kind of women they will FUCK/have casual sex with. This question supposes that there's no difference between these groups - that men are putting women into a single category.

    A guy looking for casual sex will have a much lower set of requirements than a guy looking for a relationship. For casual sex, the girl mostly needs to be physically attractive to him, and willing to have casual sex with him. This means, the easier she is, the better, because that means less work and less time to wait. Yes, smarter men also require that she's actually single, and that she's not obviously crazy (he's not looking for bunny boilers!), but some guys don't even care about those things, even though they should.

    The bar is MUCH higher when it comes to the requirements for being in a relationship, and the pool of women who will qualify will be far smaller. Most guys will tend to favor more natural-looking women (though there ARE exceptions), and it will be important to most guys that she's NOT easy, because if he's going to have an EMOTIONAL connection to her, a girl who is easy has far too much risk of being easy for some other guy during the relationship, and that's not acceptable to most men.

    As a woman, if you don't understand these huge category distinctions, then you're likely to "advertise" one thing when you really want something else completely - and then you'll be confused why you can't ever seem to get it. Yes, girls advertising sex will get much more attention - far more men are casting much wider nets for casual sex partners, so, naturally, more attention is available. But is casual sex what you're looking for? If not, then quit worrying about that kind of attention - it's meaningless to you anyway. You're after "RELATIONSHIP attention", and that means you have to advertise in a different way to a different demographic, and just like a good ad agency, you need to have a deep understanding of your target demographic if you hope to build a customer base. Advertising to the wrong demographic or in the wrong way to your target demographic will just waste time and money and get you fired from your job.

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  • So what your saying from the post and the comments that i have read is the fact that you think men should either A admit there attracted to the sluts or B not go for them at all. Well here's the thing, would you wanna have kids with every dude you have fuck over the years? More then likely no, yet even you can admit that if there was someone who match everything on your list you still find him boring because he's perfect. Men and women want something exciting in there lives, it doesn't have to be everyday but i bet you want to do something fun every now and then. With this in mind do you truly think mr/mrs perfect would be able to do that, more then likely not. Were attracted to sluts because we want something to do besides being romantic, nice, attractive. Basically sluts are kinda like a day off of the things we would normally do to attract a girl. Same thing with a women, i imagine most girls get tired of trying to get pretty each and every single day, even for the natural types it gets tiring over time and eventually you just want a stress reliever and that's where sex come's in. Men don't want a girl who just fucks around all the time, same thing with a women not wanting a dead beat. We all want that sexy, attractive, fun, entertaining, charming, adventurous, person because settling down is boring and so is getting old. Which is why men and women do whatever they can while there young, fit, full of energy because everyone knows that when old age come's in, you may or may not be able to do all of the stuff you did when you were younger. Men and women think the same when it comes to sex. Must be good in bed, must have stamina, must know different position's and so on. Pleasure is what everyone is after when having sex, rather your attracted to them or not does come into play. That's with everyone and everything changes, everyone's taste change's, mindset's changes, love change's. In the end no one is at fault for having taste in what they like or dislike. Of course a lady fully cloth won't get any attention because we aren't used to that and most people are willing to try to go pass so many barriers to see it when you can easily go find someone whose easy and fuck them

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  • All the guys are gonna come and defend their actions as usual

  • Because they are hypocrites and a big part of the problem.

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  • The same way a lot of women will talk about the need for character and judgement being important in men and then go to Chippendale's like places and scream for him to take it off while stuffing bills in his G-string.

  • I mean you are right, it is hypocrisy, but it also has to do with their own insecurities. Many men find revealing clothes to be attractive only when it's not their significant others. When their significant other is dressing promiscuously, men tend to think that women are trying to impress someone else other than them. That's why a lot of men tend to get overprotective in that aspect of not letting their girls wear certain things or even makeup, some even go to the extreme and don't even let them out. Men think that if their women are looking amazing then it will attract someone much better than him and potentially leaves them for that guy. Which of course is wrong to think that way, women should be free to wear whatever she wants. But it's not just men, it society itself, we are made to believe that women should be a certain way, and if they dress a certain way it means a certain thing. Also the women you mentioned those women platforms are based on that, so you know the person they are and they profit off of it so it makes sense for them to do it. People who are not them will just be seen as doing it because they are seeking attention.

  • Oh Damn I thought it was a deal breaker if you didn't wear revealing ,, well I'm sorry I have to keep it the way it is lol

  • The problem here is there are 2 perspectives on what women wear I'm not going to pretend to understand things from a women's perspective any more than women might feel good wearing revealing sexy clothing.

    For most men seeing a woman wearing something revealing or sexy it's trying to attract attention. The male mind has had years of conditioning as to what aspects of the female figure is arousing and women's fasions capitalise on this.

    So when a woman is in a relationship goes out dressed up the caveman brain says she's looking for attention from other men so it's not acceptable to them. While the woman just feels she looks good.

    And yes it's double standards in a lot of cases because monogamy is a more modern construct. The caveman brain is wired to breed with multiple women mainly because it doesn't have to contend with the issues of getting pregnant and just uses it as a way of marking terratory. Where as the cavewoman brain thinks you got me pregnant and I've formed an attachment to you so you better stick around and not share this gift with anyone else.

    I'm all for women wearing what they want I just urge you to remember some men are a lot closer to there cavemen counterparts than we really want them to be!

  • There is a difference between marriage material and dating material. That answers your entire vast quandary.

  • honestly i dont and never found these a deal breaker, but i do find dishonesty and unloyal behaviour and arrogance a major turn off

  • It's just for sex but 9/10 times they don't commit to those girls.

  • I wouldn’t get upset about revealing clothing. I encourage it. I usually buy it for my partner, usually it’s too revealing so it doesn’t leave the bedroom.

  • Right!! They say they want a good woman but overlook us constantly.

  • I agree men need stop liking instagram pictures of women look good. Its a problem But you seem uptight and bitchy As long she dont cheat she ok. I like that my girl got less bodys then me but it dont matter much i wouldn't care if she had more. I like my girl being revealing and show skin no guy can get conversation out her so i dont worry. Most men dont want classy high maintenence type they bitchy and expect be paid for on dates. Me my girl just trip on shrooms in woods every now then and have a good time with eachother. Y u care men like experienced girls. Girls like experienced men.

  • You have accurately described a double standard that exists. There are women many guys just want to have fun with and others they would like to settle down with. I've seen the same behavior in women. This is never going to change. For me the answer is to just be yourself, live your life, and you will meet your soulmate.

  • That would imply all men are the same, most settle for what is available or easiest to use. Most women end up getting used. Man's standard is inconsistent and non-universal, but God's is wholly consistent and given to all. You seek man's standard it will fail you and you'll be disappointed, but if you seek Jesus you will find True Love. Most people want all the reward of marriage, but know of the investment of risk. No sensible man wants to marry an unfaithful woman, but that is what is own infidelity earns him. There are faithful men and women and in seeking God they find each other. The things you describe aren't the signs of a faithful woman.

  • It's the same phenomenon that exists with women and so called bad boys. There's no question most women find bad boys more sexually attractive than other guys, and many will have plenty of casual sex with bad boys before settling down with a less sexually satisfying guy who is more stable and reliable because they make better husbands, providers and fathers

    Men are similar in how they are sexually attracted to the type of promiscuous women you describe here, and many are more than willing to have casual sexual relati9nships with those women. But when it comes to settling down and finding a woman who will make a good wife and mother to their children, most men will always opt for a more classy, conservative woman.

    So yeah, you're not wrong about men having double standards, but women are exactly the same.

    • yeah, notice how she ignored u and are allways 30 yo women making this questions, bc thats the age they wanna settle down after having fun with fuckboys

  • Right? They’re a bunch of 🤡s.

  • There is a difference we can lust after them without respecting them and without wanting a relationship with them The good girls are the ones you have a relationship with. Whores are there to discard after using.

    • You're proving my point if they're showing ANY interest in them at all is because they're still attracted to these women even if it's just physical attraction. Women are doing it because that's what men like otherwise we will see less revealing pics online, less sex workers etc.

    • Well that may be the case but I am not a hypocrite for getting off to hot girls and still wanting a girl who is clean and not used up.

    • Well yes you are you just admitted to wanting your cake and eating it too point proven.

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  • Men who like these type of women are whormongers and hypocrites if they then turn around and say they desire a classy women. Its one or the other.

    • Correct me if I'm thinking of another user, but isn't that you? Did you just describe yourself?

    • @sadMeester: Not me.

  • Bad do bad good do good

  • Probably just for the excitement that's all

  • Men seek these women for sex not relationships.

    • Obviously yes they do but why even entertain these women if that's not what they want is what I'm saying.

    • @Cherrylicious. Because men want to fuck.

    • But you're still giving them attention regardless of the reason so you've proven my point.

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  • We like sexy for hookups and classy for wives. Would you prefer a man nut in your face and never call you again or take you to a nice restaurant and then nut in your face but love you for the rest of your life? Your choice.

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