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Trending & News She is 23 years old. It is really difficult for a brother to know this. Do I need to tell this situation to my parents to prevent this situation? What do you think I should do?
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- A brother should not be involved with his sister's sex life. What's more - parents should not be involved in a person's sex life either. These are adults. Not even that gray-area of adults who are 18, and teenagers - but people in their 20s. What she does in the bedroom consensually with another (or others) is her business.
A brother should be there if she gets hurt, or be a friend to her when she needs one. Further - this is a fine way to kill your relationship with her. She'd be mortified if you did such a thing - and won't want to talk to you or tell you anything else, ever. I say disapprove all you want, but don't tell others what she's doing privately, sexually. If she wanted your parents to know, she'll go tell them herself.3|40|1Is this still revelant?
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- You sister is a LEGAL ADULT. It is absolutely NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS, nor your parents' business, what she is doing with her sex life.
If this is upsetting you this much, you should talk out WHY with a professional counselor.
I've never had any interest in my brother's sex life: or if he was doing circus tricks in the bedroom with dogs, cats and men.
I think it's quite disturbing that you think you should control your sister on any level. Please, get some help.3|10|1Is this still revelant?
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- I hate to say this but she's an adult now. She makes her own decisions now. If she loves having threesomes then she loves threesomes. You can't do anything about it I know it's hard but you have to accept your sisters wishes. she's 23 now and she's not a little girl anymore. I know it's very hard to process this.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
- Not one damn thing!!! It's her life. She's an adult and it's none of your business.0|00|0Is this still revelant?
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2653- Use it to your advantage. Say I heard about your party of 3. Oh yeah change of subject do you have that friend (sexy girl name here), I was thinking she would be fun to have over. Can you work something out? Yes have her visit before Sun Down.0|00|0
- She's an adult. If the guys are not criminals then she'll probably be ok. If you're concerned talk to her about her safety. Only get your parents involved if she's doing something illegal or dangerous... IMHO...0|00|0
- Bro, it is her decision. Let her deal with the aftermath and fallout. Furthermore, how do you even know this?
I find it weird you are interested in your sister's sex life to know this much.0|00|0 - Mind your business. Maybe u need to experiment more in bed.4|80|2
- As for being a big brother I know you want to be her protector & when it comes to her sex life she’s a grown woman & let her do her own thing on this one.0|00|0
- Unless the threesome involves you directly. It's none of your business. Butt out and let your sister live her life for herself.
If the threesome directly involves you - dude she's your sister, you both need help.2|10|0Well Red Arrow gets in there before me. You "involuntarily" witnessed your sis in a three way. So despite your best efforts, your body made you watch your sister have sex with two other people, and you were entirely powerless to go against your body's demands? You're really fucked up if that's the case.
Allow me to reiterate. It's none of your business. Telling your family isn't going to make you the golden boy. If your family has a healthy relationship with sex, you're going to get viewed as a bit of a creepy weirdo, and need have your parents sit you down for a discussion about your morals (which it sounds is well overdue).
However if your families attitudes to sex are repressed or unhealthy. It's likely to damage your family. Likely to destroy the relationship you have with your sister. Likely to destroy your families relationship with your sister.
- It's her personal life... You can talk to her about it if you're worried about her being pressured/forced into it. Otherwise let her enjoy her decisions or learn from them.
What if it was you?0|20|0 - No it's not your concern and definitely not your parents.3|50|2
Anonymous18 dYou sound like a complete jerk, a real loser !
Sure, disaprove if you want but as a supposedly grown man aged between 25-29 you sound very immatureAnd I think you secretly get yourself off thinking about this ("During her experience, I witnessed this involuntarily) Do you run to "mummy & daddy" about everything in your personal life?1|00|0- No you shouldn't it's her business and she's old enough to make her own choices, the most you should do is talk to her about it and find out why she does it (even tho it might be an awkward convo)1|30|0
- Never, she is an adult and as long as she enjoys it, no one, even your parents have the right to interfere.
You are thinking too much.
I wouldn't be worried about the sex life of my sister.0|00|0 - She’s an adult. Why would your parents even want to know? She’s beyond their control.0|00|0
- Think less... don't act much... if you wanna do something relax... or you can talk her...
Let it go dont think much buddy0|00|0 - Sure.
If she wanted it to be a secretshe shouldn't have told you.
lol, I'd disown my daughter.0|00|0 - This is nobody's business but your sister's. Keep it to yourself.0|00|0
- She’s an adult, what she does is none of your business nor is it any of your parents business. Stay out of it.2|30|2
- I... How did you even found out about this?
Anyway she is 23 so she can do whatever the hell she wants as long as it's not illegal.
Also don't say a word to your parents, it definitely doesn't concern them.1|10|0 - Come on you don't have to be so possessive. Stop being childish. You're old enough and so is she. She can make her own life choices and you don't need to interfere in her matters.1|20|0
- Ffs. What kind of honor culture are you part of? 1. Stop caring about your sister’s sexlife, it is disgusting that you do. 2. She’s an adult and it is not your parents business.1|20|0
Anonymous20 dExpress your concerns to her and emphasis safe sex and std lab tests and then there is really nothing you can do. Hopefully it is with people she knows not random strangers which could be dangerious in other ways.1|11|1- ... She is 23! Well and truly an adult! She can do what she likes. Maybe talk to her about being discreet about her sex life. The fact that you know about it means she isn’t being discreet enough!1|00|0
- No? She's an adult, why would you want to interfere with her sex life? Just leave it alone0|00|0
- she's an adult. She can do what she likes. Stay out of her business0|00|0
- She is her own person. You should butt out and forget about it3|30|1
- that would be really embarrassing for her if you told your parents so I'd say either let her do what she wants or try and talk her out of it yourself2|20|0
- This would be the time to mind your own business. She is an adult and can make whatever choices she wants. All you would do is stir drama and possibly create issues between you and your sister and maybe even you and your parents.1|00|0
- She's an adult... but maybe if it really worries you, talk to her about it0|40|0
Yeah, but ratting her out to your parents will make her listen to you even less.
You want her to respect you, right? As her big brother? Then have a heart to heart. As awkward S it is
- Shit your bitch ass up why do you give a fuck. You're either jealous because you're not or you have a thing for her. Just use throw that shit in her face during you're next fight that's all you should do0|00|0
- I understand it can be awkward for you but there doesn't seem to be an actual problem to bring up.0|00|0
- Anonymous20 dHow about fucking off and minding your own fucking business... Troll.4|10|3
- Don't rat her out, because her sex life is none of your business. But how did you find out?0|00|0
- She's old enough to legally make her own decisions. It's not your place of your parents go control her sex life.0|40|0
- Tell on her, record it and show it to us. I don't have a TV so I never get to see Jerry anymore.1|30|2
- Dude, you are 25+ and she is well over 18. You guys are both past the age of tattle tales, grow up0|00|0
- I mean she's 23 so why should it matter what she does0|00|0
- Your sister is old enough to know what to do with her body, and she'll do as she pleases even if you try to meddle.1|30|0
- Uh... no... she is an adult. None of any of your business.0|00|0
- Leave her alone. She is an adult and can do whatever she wants. Mind your business.0|00|0
- Don’t spoil it! I’m sure you wouldn’t want her telling your mom & dad how you nailed your girlfriend in their house!0|00|0
- Would you be willing to be part of a three some with your sister?0|00|0
- No, if she's adult. Group sex is dangerous, but adult people have choice.0|00|0
- Its not going to make her stop of you feel she is to wreckless get her to see a therapist0|00|0
- Nah, your sister is just a typical 23 year old American woman.0|00|0
- She is going to fuck as much as she want. You can’t stop her. If you are jealous you can fine yourself a girl and do whatever sex you want to do.0|00|0
- Anonymous20 dI'm pretty sure this is a troll who has asked this question before.
But if not it's bone of your business anyway0|00|0 - She's an adult and so are you, don't be a baby and let her have her fun.1|00|0
- Anonymous19 dShe is an adult and can do what she wants so I don’t think your parents need to know that0|00|0
- Anonymous20 dAlert the media and call 911.
Oh, wait... do we still have 911?1|10|0 - Of course they should know. Clearly somewhere along the line they failed their job. They need to know what a disgusting creature they've created.0|00|1
- Anonymous18 dYes, She is being an irresponsible prostitute. She will cost your parents much more money in dowry in order to marry her off. Maybe she could be publicly humiliated in the public square1|00|0
- WTF? That's none of your business!0|00|0
- Wwll she an adult there some things you just nerd to learn1|00|0
- no. who is the third person. guy or girl.0|30|0
- Anonymous20 dShe's an adult dude, just leave her to it0|00|0
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