Why does my friend always make nasty comments when we go out?
Im male and my male friend since a child I recently been meeting up with. Obviously this was before covid lockdowns but been ruminating.
A bit background. He has since school had a partner and children. She left and had kid with other mate of mines also our mate. I on other hand never had a real girlfriend but went uni and travelled. I still have little desire for a girlfriend or interest lol apart from being horny. Strange or not.
Anyway he moved near me recently so I suggested go for drinks. But every time I went out with him always say horrible things or ask weird questions.
Examples. At the bar we see hot girl.
"Why look at her. Youd never have a chance with her"
Talking about a past incident involving a fight. "You couldn't fight anyone. Youd get beat up by anyone."
Trying to work out drink prices end of night. "Everyone knows ur a cheap skate and try to get free drinks or drugs. Everybody says that about you etc" this was after a night in club I made out with girl and he didn't and he then went mental.
Then he asks weird questions eg. playing pool at bar. Hot bar girl comes to table. And he's like "would u do her? Shed get it." Etc. I dont like that kinda chat but agreed she is hot. And he's like "your a virgin?" Kept asking the question. He always asks that when we go out lol. Even though I've told him stories girls I've been with on travels etc... its so annoying and no need for it. Not type of questions asking mates when out drinking its just not even respectful or fun.
But overall many more examples I could list of. But I cut my ties. I just dont understand it. It's no fun to go out with him. he's rude, criticize everything about me and asks weird private questions all the time.
Like I just wanna have some beers play pool chill out bit fun ya know.. but impossible has to ruin it all. Maybe he didn't wanna be my friend and was annoyed I invited him out lol. If so his plan worked as won't be going out again lol
Superb Opinion