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I met a 16 year old boy a couple days ago. He lives a few states away from me and he is just visiting my family for a bit because his mom is good friends with my parents. So we are in the same house every night. We play mine craft every night just because why not. The thing is I want to give him a blowjob just to see how it is. I don't want to seem like a dumbass. Can someone give me some pointers and tell me what to say? What are the chances of him rejecting a free bj?

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19 d

Oh yeah.. this is the weirdest part. I have a girlfriend and he knows it. I just want to try everything once and my girlfriend said that It was ok for me to try stuff.

18 d

I asked him and he said yes. Part of the time he kept pushing my head into him. I hated that. He came in my mouth without telling me too. Awful experience... I'm sorry for all of you girls out there that experience this.

Answer 1

Drakkith | 164 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Don't do it. Find someone you know is gay or bi and ask them. Asking some random guy that you don't know very well is a recipe for disaster. You're liable to get your face punched in if things go wrong enough.

GraysonPonchot

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I updated it

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GraysonPonchot

I updated it

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sadMeester | 152 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

He might let you.

Be warned he might call you a faggot and run out in the initial freakout. Then your entire family will know.

If he's gay it still might happen. Think this through.

GraysonPonchot

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I just updated the question. Did your thoughts change?
sadMeester

19 d
Would your girlfriend be willing to give him one? You could say he can have one from her if he lets you give him one first
GraysonPonchot

19 d
She doesn't want anything to do with it is the thing.
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GraysonPonchot

19 d
She's had some real shitbags in her life.
sadMeester

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Then trying to ask a teen to let you suck him will probably turn out pretty badly.
GraysonPonchot

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I updated it.

Answer 4

GraysonPonchot

I just updated the question. Did your thoughts change?

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sadMeester

Would your girlfriend be willing to give him one? You could say he can have one from her if he lets you give him one first

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GraysonPonchot

She doesn't want anything to do with it is the thing.

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GraysonPonchot

She's had some real shitbags in her life.

Answer 8

sadMeester

Then trying to ask a teen to let you suck him will probably turn out pretty badly.

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GraysonPonchot

I updated it.

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JustACuriousLady | 139 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 4

If you don't know for sure he is gay, you don't start this conversation at all.

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Avicenna | 5.8K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

Don't ask him or try to mess around with him- it will freak him out.

The chances of him not only rejecting you and telling your family are huge.

GraysonPonchot

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I updated it.

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GraysonPonchot

I updated it.

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Anonymous

Well since you are a guy I would say he probably won’t want it from you

Opinion Owner

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You could always say it like a hypothetical question and ask if he would ever accept a bj from a guy
GraysonPonchot

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Its just nerveracking to think of all of the scenarios.
Opinion Owner

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Yeah it’s risky
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Opinion Owner

18 d
Wow I guess you won’t need to try that again
GraysonPonchot

18 d
Never again..
Opinion Owner

18 d
Well you got that out of your system
GraysonPonchot

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It tasted sweet though. So thats good.
Opinion Owner

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I guess that’s good for him for when he gets a woman to do it often

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Opinion Owner

You could always say it like a hypothetical question and ask if he would ever accept a bj from a guy

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GraysonPonchot

Its just nerveracking to think of all of the scenarios.

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Opinion Owner

Yeah it’s risky

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

Wow I guess you won’t need to try that again

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GraysonPonchot

Never again..

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

Well you got that out of your system

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GraysonPonchot

It tasted sweet though. So thats good.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

I guess that’s good for him for when he gets a woman to do it often

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