Do you Think it's okay?

Question

Do you think it's okay to have sex in the room next to where your friend is sleeping? It has now happened to me twice. The first time they had sex in my apartment and the second time I slept over and layed on the couch (obviously I can't decide when it is not my home) but think it is disrespectful and not very nice to listen to.

Answer 1

kkirk4442 | 134 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

A couple of issues here. Is your house a no sex zone? If not, then the problem is not them having sex, but that they are no considerate about who they let hear them having sex. Just be up front with them. Next time they are over for the night, tell them you can hear them having sex, and it's something that you consider private, and not something you wish to hear. Just ask them to keep the volume down, and the activity down, enough so that you can't hear what is going on. If they are at all reasonable people, they will do as you ask. When at their house, of course, it's a different issue. I'm not quite sure what to do there. But is it's discussed about your house, they might get the hint that you would like it to apply at their house too. It is reasonable that you not hear people in the house mating. It will largely depend on how considerate they are of other's feelings.

Veronica92

17 d

The issue I feel with this was also that I took one hour bus ride to my friend who was at her boyfriend's house because I'm at a bad place in my life right , know... she was too tired to stay up and talk to me but not so tierd for sex.
Maybe I'm old-fashioned but how hard is it not to have sex in for one day when they have someone over? Of course it's not my home, not my rules, I just think it's disrespectful.
Veronica92

17 d
And I do not want to bring it up because in a way I do not think I have the right to have an opinion on this.. I will just stay away and not sleep over more

Answer 2

Veronica92

The issue I feel with this was also that I took one hour bus ride to my friend who was at her boyfriend's house because I'm at a bad place in my life right , know... she was too tired to stay up and talk to me but not so tierd for sex.
Maybe I'm old-fashioned but how hard is it not to have sex in for one day when they have someone over? Of course it's not my home, not my rules, I just think it's disrespectful.

Answer 3

Veronica92

And I do not want to bring it up because in a way I do not think I have the right to have an opinion on this.. I will just stay away and not sleep over more

Answer 4

Svellte

Xper 5

🤮🤮🤮 eeewwweee. That's gross like shit. How do you survive? lol you are insanely friends 🤷

Veronica92

17 d
It's his home (they do not live together) and I went there because I have a lot of anxiety right now and am in a bad place, so I did want to be alone and wanted to spend time with my friend
Svellte

17 d
You were there with them and you witnessed the scene. What?🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮👎
Veronica92

17 d
I was in the next room, heard everything but didn't see

Answer 5

Veronica92

It's his home (they do not live together) and I went there because I have a lot of anxiety right now and am in a bad place, so I did want to be alone and wanted to spend time with my friend

Answer 6

Svellte

You were there with them and you witnessed the scene. What?🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮👎

Answer 7

Veronica92

I was in the next room, heard everything but didn't see

Answer 8

SarahP080102 | 1.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Explorer

Yeah it's all good as long as it isn't in the same room.

Answer 9

Tellme | 1.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I think it’s slightly disrespectful. How did it make you feel?
Have you told your friend about it, and that you didn’t like overhearing it?

Veronica92

17 d
I went to my friend who was at her boyfriend because I'm mentally ill and didn't want to be alone. she was very tired when I got there, so we didn't have time to talk to each other, but obviously not that tired for sex.. I went there because I felt sad and lonely and didn't feel better from listening to them 😏
Tellme

17 d
Yeah, I can imagine. Did it make you feel jealous? Or just uncomfortable?
Veronica92

17 d
mostly uncomfortable. why coudn't my friend sit with me for 10 min extra when I feel sad even though she was tired? I had taken a bus for 1 hour to get to them.. she has time for sex when she is tired but not time for me for 10 min.. maybe I am selfish and is completely wrong
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Tellme

17 d
No, I totally get your point.
Veronica92

17 d
Thank you! I do not want to tell my friend that I feel disappointed.. I just will not sleep over anymore
Tellme

17 d
I think you should talk to her about it. Otherwise she might not even be aware of how you felt. Like this she gets a chance to behave differently next time. You could also say it in a playful, funny way, like „oh, and you‘ve been pretty active for being as tired as you had said...“ 😉 lol
Veronica92

17 d
One time my friend and her boyfriend slept on my couch I asked them not to have sex then, but they did anyway, and now this happens.. so I don't feel like bringing it up
Tellme

17 d
Oh ok, I see.

Answer 10

Veronica92

I went to my friend who was at her boyfriend because I'm mentally ill and didn't want to be alone. she was very tired when I got there, so we didn't have time to talk to each other, but obviously not that tired for sex.. I went there because I felt sad and lonely and didn't feel better from listening to them 😏

Answer 11

Tellme

Yeah, I can imagine. Did it make you feel jealous? Or just uncomfortable?

Answer 12

Veronica92

mostly uncomfortable. why coudn't my friend sit with me for 10 min extra when I feel sad even though she was tired? I had taken a bus for 1 hour to get to them.. she has time for sex when she is tired but not time for me for 10 min.. maybe I am selfish and is completely wrong

Answer 13

Tellme

No, I totally get your point.

Answer 14

Veronica92

Thank you! I do not want to tell my friend that I feel disappointed.. I just will not sleep over anymore

Answer 15

Tellme

I think you should talk to her about it. Otherwise she might not even be aware of how you felt. Like this she gets a chance to behave differently next time. You could also say it in a playful, funny way, like „oh, and you‘ve been pretty active for being as tired as you had said...“ 😉 lol

Answer 16

Veronica92

One time my friend and her boyfriend slept on my couch I asked them not to have sex then, but they did anyway, and now this happens.. so I don't feel like bringing it up

Answer 17

Tellme

Oh ok, I see.

Answer 18

inquisitive173 | 100 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 3

Well, I'm about to let my roommates daughter sit on my cock while her mom is in the next room. I think it's okay so long as she doesn't find out!

Answer 19

Valnac | 10.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Yoda

Why don’t you have a loud masturbation session and let them hear that.

Answer 20

Jonnywayne | 74 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 2

It's okay as long as you don't annoy the other people sharing your room

Answer 21

ND4SPD31 | 9.1K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

I would think seeing or listening to someone have sex close by u would turn u on too, would it not?

Answer 22

StrikeJam | 269 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

Yeah, you right ! It's disrespectful to have fun, and invite your friend ! ;)

StrikeJam

17 d
I mean NOT invite

Answer 23

StrikeJam

I mean NOT invite

Answer 24

Anonymous

It is tacky, but its also their home. You shouldn't have slept over a second time.

Veronica92

17 d
Yeah won't sleep over again. (but the first time was at my place) but they will not be at sleepovers at my place as well
Opinion Owner

17 d
You have said something when they did it at your place.
Veronica92

17 d
Yeah they did that as well but this time it was in his home (they don't live together) i wanted to spend time with my friend becuase i have a lot of anxiety right now.. but my bad
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Opinion Owner

17 d
Sorry about your anxiety issues, but that was way beyond rude to do it at your place.
Veronica92

17 d
Yeah I forgave my friend for that and moved on.. I just went to his place were she is becuase i don't won't to be alone with my anxiety.. my friend was really tierd, so we coudn't talk that much that night.. but not that tierd for not having sex.. maybý i'm wrong here
Opinion Owner

17 d
You ween't wrong.

Answer 25

Veronica92

Yeah won't sleep over again. (but the first time was at my place) but they will not be at sleepovers at my place as well

Answer 26

Opinion Owner

You have said something when they did it at your place.

Answer 27

Veronica92

Yeah they did that as well but this time it was in his home (they don't live together) i wanted to spend time with my friend becuase i have a lot of anxiety right now.. but my bad

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

Sorry about your anxiety issues, but that was way beyond rude to do it at your place.

Answer 29

Veronica92

Yeah I forgave my friend for that and moved on.. I just went to his place were she is becuase i don't won't to be alone with my anxiety.. my friend was really tierd, so we coudn't talk that much that night.. but not that tierd for not having sex.. maybý i'm wrong here

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

You ween't wrong.

Answer 31

In_Trance | 4.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Master

I think you should do the same to them

Veronica92

17 d
I should! 😄
In_Trance

17 d
Yup... do it

Answer 32

Veronica92

I should! 😄

Answer 33

In_Trance

Yup... do it

Answer 34

blonde_loves_yoga

Xper 3

In the same room is not okay. Period!

Answer 35

MrSkin

Xper 3

Yeah agree kinda tasteless really

Answer 36

Hmmmbetternothere | 195 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Xper 5

In younger years no, now different.

Answer 37

pizzalovershouse | 3.4K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

Guru

If there doing it quietly

Veronica92

17 d
I heard them
pizzalovershouse

17 d
Then its impolitebif they dont give you sound head phknes that block sound when sleeping
Veronica92

17 d
No more sleeping over
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pizzalovershouse

17 d
Sounds like a good idea