Do you Think it's okay?

Do you think it's okay to have sex in the room next to where your friend is sleeping? It has now happened to me twice. The first time they had sex in my apartment and the second time I slept over and layed on the couch (obviously I can't decide when it is not my home) but think it is disrespectful and not very nice to listen to.
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  • A couple of issues here. Is your house a no sex zone? If not, then the problem is not them having sex, but that they are no considerate about who they let hear them having sex. Just be up front with them. Next time they are over for the night, tell them you can hear them having sex, and it's something that you consider private, and not something you wish to hear. Just ask them to keep the volume down, and the activity down, enough so that you can't hear what is going on. If they are at all reasonable people, they will do as you ask. When at their house, of course, it's a different issue. I'm not quite sure what to do there. But is it's discussed about your house, they might get the hint that you would like it to apply at their house too. It is reasonable that you not hear people in the house mating. It will largely depend on how considerate they are of other's feelings.

    • The issue I feel with this was also that I took one hour bus ride to my friend who was at her boyfriend's house because I'm at a bad place in my life right , know... she was too tired to stay up and talk to me but not so tierd for sex. Maybe I'm old-fashioned but how hard is it not to have sex in for one day when they have someone over? Of course it's not my home, not my rules, I just think it's disrespectful.

    • And I do not want to bring it up because in a way I do not think I have the right to have an opinion on this.. I will just stay away and not sleep over more

Most Helpful Guy

  • 🤮🤮🤮 eeewwweee. That's gross like shit. How do you survive? lol you are insanely friends 🤷

    • It's his home (they do not live together) and I went there because I have a lot of anxiety right now and am in a bad place, so I did want to be alone and wanted to spend time with my friend

    • You were there with them and you witnessed the scene. What?🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮👎

    • I was in the next room, heard everything but didn't see

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah it's all good as long as it isn't in the same room.

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  • In the same room is not okay. Period!

  • It's okay as long as you don't annoy the other people sharing your room

  • Yeah agree kinda tasteless really

  • In younger years no, now different.

  • If there doing it quietly

    • I heard them

    • Then its impolitebif they dont give you sound head phknes that block sound when sleeping

    • No more sleeping over

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  • I would think seeing or listening to someone have sex close by u would turn u on too, would it not?

  • I think you should do the same to them

    • I should! 😄

    • Yup... do it

  • I think it’s slightly disrespectful. How did it make you feel?
    Have you told your friend about it, and that you didn’t like overhearing it?

    • I went to my friend who was at her boyfriend because I'm mentally ill and didn't want to be alone. she was very tired when I got there, so we didn't have time to talk to each other, but obviously not that tired for sex.. I went there because I felt sad and lonely and didn't feel better from listening to them 😏

    • Yeah, I can imagine. Did it make you feel jealous? Or just uncomfortable?

    • mostly uncomfortable. why coudn't my friend sit with me for 10 min extra when I feel sad even though she was tired? I had taken a bus for 1 hour to get to them.. she has time for sex when she is tired but not time for me for 10 min.. maybe I am selfish and is completely wrong

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  • Why don’t you have a loud masturbation session and let them hear that.

  • Yeah, you right ! It's disrespectful to have fun, and invite your friend ! ;)

    • I mean NOT invite

  • Well, I'm about to let my roommates daughter sit on my cock while her mom is in the next room. I think it's okay so long as she doesn't find out!

  • Yes You don't need listen this

  • one cannot be comfortable

  • It is tacky, but its also their home. You shouldn't have slept over a second time.

    • Yeah won't sleep over again. (but the first time was at my place) but they will not be at sleepovers at my place as well

    • You have said something when they did it at your place.

    • Yeah they did that as well but this time it was in his home (they don't live together) i wanted to spend time with my friend becuase i have a lot of anxiety right now.. but my bad

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