Why he say he don’t want to get me pregnant but he don’t use a condom and rely on the pull out method knowing I’m not on BC?

[Anonymous]

[Ozanne]

Newsflash: The rhythm method (pulling out) is very ineffective. Pre-ejaculation can occur anytime throughout sex and find its way to your fallopian tubes. You won't even have time to douche it out no matter how quick you are. It's done. All that pulling out does is reduce most of the semen from entering.

As a lot of guys have mentioned here, this method is also very hard on the guys and "things" can happen if they are beyond the point of no return.

With that said, having unprotected sex is also leaving you both susceptible to STDs. If you've both been tested and are clean, your biggest worry is in fact pregnancy. Whatever he's been reading - is obviously nothing from reliable sources.

If I were you, I'd go to my doctor and get myself on a birth control that works for you. You might love this guy, but I'm afraid he is not knowledgeable about reproduction. You may have to be the more responsible one between the two of you, and look after yourself with the birth control on your own, and diligently use it properly. Good luck!

[SarahFromLA]

He's an idiot. If you don't want to end up with a kid, an abortion or a STD (I assume this wonderful specimen isn't big on testing either), I very highly suggest you break if off or insist he wear a condom every time.

[james_d0007]

I agree with her, better to be safe then sorry!

[bowenw]

It sounds like he only cares about his own pleasure. It's your body, so you make the rules. It will be you who will be pregnant if he screws up, not him. Tell him to wear a condom or no intercourse. If he doesn't like condoms tell him you'll have to pleasure each other in other ways besides intercourse.

[coldmarch]

That's exactly what I requested to all my partners: No condom = No sex. Except when: we got STD exams + I was sure I wasn't in my fertile days, relying on quite regular periods and signals of my body. So anyway most of the times was with condom anyway.

[bowenw]

@coldmarch Best of luck to you. Stay healthy and safe.

[slatyb]

Do you want to get pregnant? Because it’s likely if you continue. Why aren’t you on birth control?

[Asker]

I do but he said he don’t want kids right now

[slatyb]

Then get on birth control unless you want to be a single mother. Doesn't seem like a wise choice unless you can support both yourself and the child. Are you living on your own or in someone else's home?

[Whtevernever]

He's stupid and selfish.

[In_Trance]

Because he's fkn retarded. Why are you plowing a retarded guy?

[Anonymous]

He's not too smart.

[Anonymous]

Does he pull out then?

[Asker]

Yes but I don't know if he pull out in time.

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh why do u feel it?