Why he say he don’t want to get me pregnant but he don’t use a condom and rely on the pull out method knowing I’m not on BC?

[Ozanne]

Newsflash: The rhythm method (pulling out) is very ineffective. Pre-ejaculation can occur anytime throughout sex and find its way to your fallopian tubes. You won't even have time to douche it out no matter how quick you are. It's done. All that pulling out does is reduce most of the semen from entering.

As a lot of guys have mentioned here, this method is also very hard on the guys and "things" can happen if they are beyond the point of no return.

With that said, having unprotected sex is also leaving you both susceptible to STDs. If you've both been tested and are clean, your biggest worry is in fact pregnancy. Whatever he's been reading - is obviously nothing from reliable sources.

If I were you, I'd go to my doctor and get myself on a birth control that works for you. You might love this guy, but I'm afraid he is not knowledgeable about reproduction. You may have to be the more responsible one between the two of you, and look after yourself with the birth control on your own, and diligently use it properly. Good luck!

[SarahFromLA]

He's an idiot. If you don't want to end up with a kid, an abortion or a STD (I assume this wonderful specimen isn't big on testing either), I very highly suggest you break if off or insist he wear a condom every time.

[bowenw]

It sounds like he only cares about his own pleasure. It's your body, so you make the rules. It will be you who will be pregnant if he screws up, not him. Tell him to wear a condom or no intercourse. If he doesn't like condoms tell him you'll have to pleasure each other in other ways besides intercourse.

[slatyb]

Do you want to get pregnant? Because it’s likely if you continue. Why aren’t you on birth control?

[In_Trance]

Because he's fkn retarded. Why are you plowing a retarded guy?

[Anonymous]

Does he pull out then?

[Anonymous]

He's not too smart.

[Whtevernever]

He's stupid and selfish.