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Am I being unreasonable for turning down a nice, rich man because I'm not physically attracted to him?

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He has been after me for months. He is extremely nice and treats me with respect, he is hands down amazing. On top of everything he is also very, very rich. And very serious about me. I gave it a shot in hopes sexual/physical attraction will develop, but it didn't. Now it's safe to say that it never will. I know it's superficial but I just don't find him physically attractive. To the point that I feel resentful kissing him (we didn't have sex yet). I felt bad and guilty and repulsive and stressed and I ended it. I broke his heart and he doesn't understand why. I tried to explain the best I could that I just don't feel the urge for intimacy with him, but all he says is we can work on it. But we can't. I am trying to ignore him so he can move on.

My friends and family are giving me shit now. They all loved him and they think I am being an immature brat for dumping a man like him for such a "stupid" reason. My mother said that I will never have family and kids if I continue being like this. Some of my friends think the same.

I know he was "perfect" and that I probably lost the best opportunity for safe and comfortable family with a man who loves me more the anything and was wiling to give the world to me, but I do not regret. I simply cannot fake chemistry.
Am I being unreasonable for turning down a nice, rich man because I'm not physically attracted to him?
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