After convincing me to let my girlfriend peg me, she convinced me to have a 3some. Now I think im gay?

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My girlfriend begged me to let her peg me. To which i eventually obliged. I ended up loving it, and i asked her when we could do it again and she just said she wants to let a real penis do it to me. At first i was like no way. But she is reallt convincing. Talking to me about how i liked the pegging and how a real penis is so much better than a fake one and how much i liked her grabbing me by the hips and holding me tight from behind, and how a man does all of that too.

After that conversation i just let it go, but she kept pressing me. She would send me pictures of male celebrities and say "hottty" or ask me if i would let him fuck me or if i thought the guy was hot.

I went to her place one day and she was on the bed with the strap on on and i was turned on ngl. She teased my ass the whole time. She wouldn't actually do it. Eventually we stopped and she started talking about a guy doing it to me and that "i wanted it so bad from her but i wouldn't take it from a real penis".

Literallt the next day she sends me a picture of a guy and a message that said my "friend X thinks you're cute" and she invited him over to fuck me that weekend. I thought i could just tell her no later and it would be no big deal.

But when we were together after that she somehow convinced me once again to go through with it. The day was set for Saturday. Friday comes around and i go over to her place again. One thing leads to another and me and my girlfriend are in bed when she tells me the guy js actually coming over today. We got into a little fight but she convinced me to stay and do it.

I won't get into the graphics of everything but it happened and it was amazing. I loved it. My girlfriend had a hard time keeping my attention on her and not the other guy. I told her later that i think i might be gay and she got mad. But i really do think i like dudes now.
My question is, do you think im gay now? Literally all i think about when i masturbate now is men

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

It’s pretty messed up how your girlfriend pressured you to get fucked about a guy , it’s manipulative and a controlling tactic , she has some serious issues to be honest I wouldn’t say you are gay but you are definitely Bi considering you allowed that to happen and you and you enjoyed it , Now my question is did the guy that got you up the ass fuck your girlfriend as well or did he just do you? Because if he fucked your girlfriend then that just shows that this was her scheme to get another Dick in her and that should be your answer to leave that whore , if she really cared about you and your relationship with her she wouldn’t of allowed that to happen, I dated a girl that was bi and she made it clear to me that she liked hooking up with a girlfriend of hers and I was fine with it the only thing I told her was to promise me she wouldn’t screw other guys , so out of Respect for the relationship she wouldn’t , which she agreed with , as for 3somes with her and the other Girl she asked me not to have intercourse with the other girl which out of respect I wouldn’t , long story short 3some relationships don’t work out , her girlfriend started to come on to me when she wasn’t around , I wouldn’t do anything with her but she lied to my girlfriend that I fucked her , it was an evil plot to destroy my relationship with her and my girlfriend believed her over me , comes to find out that her
Friend met another guy that they wanted to screw , so it sounds like your girlfriend is looking for dirt on you so she can fuck someone else , it’s a manipulative psychotic tactic , that’s why I asked if he fucked her as well?

JoJoiLL · Accepted Answer

Wowzers, that's a lot to take on board.

OK I'll make this short and simple.

You're still into girls so definitely not gay.

If you're attracted to both men and women to point of wanting to have sex with them, you're bisexual. Congrats!

If you're only attracted to women but you love taking it in the butt - even by men if your girl really pushes you too. You're straight but have some new sexual fetishes. Congrats!

None of the things on this list are in any way bad, embrace and enjoy. Just make sure that you're only doing things you're comfortable with and play safe. ;)

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

You might be. Remember, there is a spectrum of sexuality.
Some people are totally gay: a 0 on the scale of 0-10. Others are 10s, totally straight.
The majority of people fall in the midrange: 5, 6, 7. They find both sexes somewhat attractive, but they choose one or the other.
Those who DON'T choose, but go with the flow would be considered bisexual. 0-3 are strongly gay and don't find the opposite sex alluring. 8-10 are strongly heterosexual and don't find the same sex attractive.
Fours and sevens are occasional bisexuals. Fives and sixes are probably always bisexual.
You have to decide where you fall on the spectrum. Have you lost interest in having sex with women? Are you only interested in having sex with men? Do women not give you hardons anymore? Can you not have sex with a woman?
If you answer yes to all of those questions, you are likely gay.
But since you did have sex with your girlfriend for a time, perhaps you are bisexual. I don't know HOW bisexual or how gay you are. You'll have to figure that out over time.

miniD · Accepted Answer

How tf is she gonna halfway force you to get with a man... and then get mad that now you think you’re gay¿ like 2+2=9? That’s stupid. She wouldn’t leave you alone about it and set everything up to where you couldn’t escape it and now you’re questioning so she’s mad?😂CLOWN BEHAVIOR! Sis did that to herself and her own relationship. I hope y’all come to terms ab something soon. And hopefully she doesn’t do that to her next man🤡

Newhead · Answer

You should be a porn writer, that was really good. But anyway if this is true, your girlfriend is probably manipulative and trying to have secrets to use against you. Kind of like a lot of people's relationships is which is why some men let their women control them. She is trying to test to see how weak and easily influenced you are.

Not-karen · Answer

Could be. Nothing wrong with that.

CubaPirate · Answer

Cool story bro

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Oh you're a thousand percent gay

Curiousguy125 · Answer

Obviously your discovering your own sexuality, maybe you are, it’s so new to you that’s why your mind is preoccupied with it, just go with bi o very bi curious right now and don’t worry about it. It is what it is

Anonymous · Answer

You were probably gay or bi before all this happened.

Anonymous · Answer

it all starts with porn... beware fellow straights

Anonymous · Answer

I think you loved the warmth of the guy. Even my girlfriend loves the warmth she gets from me in her pussy or ass sometimes. Now if you love it you might be gay but i have a solution for it. Use squirting dildos and you will be normal. And now to find out does she really loves you or she is making you a porn slave tell her that you want to do DP (MFM) and gangbang to her or ask her for reverse gangbang or MFF with her. If she agrees for one she might love you and if she disagrees sadly she made you her sex slave who does anything for master

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe it's some kind of fetish for her, she didn't expect the outcome will be you go full gay, maybe she though I would do this fantasy only once for her, for you I think you are gay if you are not turned on by women anymore.