What makes a big breasted woman more attractive to you over a small breasted woman?

Simple question that so many men cannot tell me honestly.
What makes a big breasted woman more attractive to you over a small breasted woman?
What makes a big breasted woman more attractive to you over a small breasted woman?
What makes a big breasted woman more attractive to you over a small breasted woman?
What makes a big breasted woman more attractive to you over a small breasted woman?
Most my life I was an A cup or small B. Guys I dated liked me, but over 19 men dumped me in favor of a big breasted woman with sexy hips and butt. I caught so many of them looking at big breasted women on their computers or when we were out together, YET they told me that they liked my small boobs.

After I got prego the first time, i went up to a full C cup.

I have been breastfeeding 2 babies; one for 2yrs, then my new baby as of July 2020. I am a full D/small DD. I have been with the same man that has seen me small, he told me he loved me small (yet he had over 300 pics of big boobed chicks on his computer saved), but now that I am a D/DD, he really goes gaga over me and told me being big is what he always hoped for.
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  • I actually prefer smaller breasts, so take what I am about to say with a grain of salt.

    My theory is that it's just naturally ingrained in some/most men, on an evolutionary level. It is fairly well understood that, in the past, men were attracted to women with wide hips, because it demonstrated fertility, and the promise of many strong, healthy children.

    Now, following up on that, there are two theories of which I am aware of, concerning large breasts. The first being along the same thought process: that being larger breasts meant (in theory) a greater ability to feed/nourish children, and thus ensure that they grew up big, strong, and healthy.

    A somewhat more divergent theory that I've read states that it also follows the "wide hips" theory. Back in prehistoric times, when early hominids were transitioning from quadripeds to bipeds, their wide hips were no longer prominently displayed, since we weren't walking around on all fours, with our asses stuck in the air all day.

    So, theoretically, women developed their larger breasts as a way of comensating, so as to continue to attract mates, by advertising their fertility (which concides with the "feed more children" theory above). As such, men were evolutinarily drawn to those larger breasts, just as with wider hips. Seeing as human females are the only species on Earth with permanently enlarged breasts (as opposed to only while nuturing young), I believe this lends credence to both theories.

    Again, that's just what I've read, but the reasoning behind those theories make sense, so those would be my answers. 🤷‍♂️

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  • They aren't to me, generally speaking. Ultimately it's about the person, not her breast size. But just like some women want big dicks, some guys want big boobs. But there are lots of guys that like smaller and/or don't care, you just happen to have been with all the ones the do lol. And sometimes it's just the visual. Just like if a guy had a huge dick, it would get your attention as well right (not saying you want it necessarily, but would get your attention), it's the same with breasts for guys.

    • Exactly! Just cuz a guy stares at a big pair, doesn't mean he prefers them.

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  • Lol I honestly have only seen this in movies. I am the girl in the last picture but that never stopped men from obsessing over me in real life which leads to weirdo abusive behavior. I have never really seen a man real life show attraction to a big breasted women simply for her boobs.

    Unless it's like a B cup or smaller C cup with really nice boobs, this is when she'd be favored over an A cup like myself, since the last girl kinda has no boobs, a little more wouldn't hurt. I also find that bigger boobs sag faster and don't look as appealing outside of the bra. I am thirty three and because I am the same size as last pic, they are still perky and show no sign of my age, this is why I think all the boobs fuss is not real.

    • True. Many men prefer smaller. And some of those men obsess over them. You sound like you understand and are happy with yourself. You recognize that your boobs are attractive and that they are still perky. Some guys will ignore you and go for big boobed women, but many will ignore them and prefer you.

    • Very true. I absolutly agree.

    • "... since the last girl kinda has no boobs, a little more wouldn't hurt." a little less wouldn't hurt either. Nothing wrong with being very small. It's all a matter of preference. I just happen to love small, including very small.

  • OK, so these are generalities. Not all men are attracted to big breast, not all women are attracted to successful men.

    Subconsciously, men are drawn to larger breast as breast size is an indication (not the only, but an) of ability/maturity to breed and nurse children. Its really just a basic instinct.

    Similarly to women being attracted to successful men, a sign that they can provide for children they bring into the world. Again, just a basic instinct and operates subconsciously.

    Again, these are generalities. And I am a B cup also. Hubby does like my buns of steel though.

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  • As an older woman, I guarantee if you are one of the first few women pictured.. you will not be saluting the sun without some sort of surgery. Personally I know women who have had reductions for that reason.. gravity. And.. I would give anything to have the freedom to NOT wear a bra

  • Your boobs were perfect when they were an A and now they're perfect at a D.

    We all play cards with the hand we are dealt...

    What makes a big breasted woman more attractive to you over a small breasted woman?

    You play very well! :)

  • Don't feel bad about having small breasts. I am in the same club and there are plenty of guys out there who prefer small breasted women.

  • my husband always say, more than an handful is a waste, he also says, big breasted women look more stunning in a tight sweater, but that is all, naked there are all the same, and flat on ones back they look the same

  • Biology, hormones, and sexual dimorphism. Straight men aren't attracted to mannish features, like a lack of breasts, short hair, narrow hips, or a dick.

    And as an aside, nineteen men by age 26 is a lot! That's like, two major relationships a year. And going from A to D is also a lot.

  • Big breasts are not more attractive to me. I like them all, but prefer smaller. When it comes to love, the breast size does not matter. I fell in love with a large breasted woman, married her, and lived happily ever after (till her death), and was happy with her boobs as a part of her. But other than the one you love, you can still have preferences, mine being smaller.

    • By the way, earlier I came across some photos of you when you were smaller busted. I absolutely love them! You were my preference completely. Now, as I have told you, I still find you extremely sexy and do not find you less interesting with larger boobs. You rock in every case!

    • So sorry for your loss. I too prefer small, but as I told someone, if I fell in love with a beautiful big busted girl and married her, my preference would probably change.

  • I will take the 2 bottom girls any day over the top 2 big breast do do anything for me , I've have always thought that littler boobs would have more sensations but I've learned on here that that is not always true and to be honest it's not the boobs thst makes me like them it's the person with in

  • It's called mass media manipulation.
    Ever since we are born sexiness is associated with bigger breasts, be it the disney and pixar moms or the japanese animes It's always the same.

    As we grow older it is drilled in our heads even though if we're thinking logically breasts don't play any part in sex, they're just a sensitive spot to help with foreplay kinda like ear biting.

    But it's too late now since even knowing it we can't help loving bigger boobs.

    Though I always thought small ones would be a deal breaker, but the last girl I was with had small ones and she made me change my mind since I enjoyed her body as it was.

  • I hope you keep those boobs big so your guy is happy.

    We men are drawn to big boobs, like a moth to light. We can't help it, it is in our DNA.
    So we come by the attraction from nature really. Plus we are bombarded with boobage, cleavage, pictures, even TV commercials, on TV and in the movies. And women out there in life know that men are attracted to big boobs. If a woman wants attention, she will show cleavage and some leg and wham... she can pick what bloke she wants to get attention from.

    I have dated women with small and even no boobs, and was quite happy at the time. If that is you, you look good to me. :)

  • Women should have breasts, but I don't think bigger is better. I think most men who just go for big breasts are immature, the rest of us like all sizes that are a handfull and that look natural, ie not those big fake ballon breast some people pay money to add to their bodies.

  • It's instinctual attraction you can't explain that. Do you want to go and ask male spiders why they're ok with getting eaten sometimes after, or even before mating if she's hungry? It's just nature that came up with this plan and we follow it more or less. We're probably the only species who can chose not to follow our instincts if we want and it's a blessing but also a curse.

  • Nothing. I prefer smaller.

  • The ability to motorboat, and titty bang.

    Small breasted... might as well be a boy.

    • Obviously you need to grow up, if you're going to disparage someone that doesn't fit your ideal. It's one thing to have a preference, but your statement on small busted girls, shows a glaring lack of maturity.

  • It's really an evolutionary advancement and I don't feel like retyping a few articles. A link to one is below. Female monkey ovulate and get butts to advertise fertility. This is ok, but what if you want male attention when you aren't ovulating? Well, grow some boobs and have sex front facing. https://www.quora.com/Why-did-female-Homo-sapiens-evolve-to-hide-their-fertile-periods https://medium.com/@mikrobiologia/are-humans-naturally-monogamous-or-polygamous-ef7bfd1d357

  • One can have too much of a good thing and that is how I view boobs. A happy handfull is perfect as anything more is "out of reach". The best brests can not hold up a pencil. A set like this will retain their attractiveness much longer that melon-sized ones.

    I have found large breasts to be comparatively insensitive compared to smaller jugs. A "large" girlfriend asked why I was nibbling heartily: she apparently hardly noticed. While grazing on a pair of cupcakes, the girl went crazy and orgasmed, a very satisfying experience. A couple of more boob molestations proved that it was much more fun playing with the small stuff. So for girls with less-than-milk cartons on their chests, don't worry as sensitivity is much more useful in relationships than size. Even mentioning at an appropriate time that "My breasts/boobs/nipples are very sensitive." is likely to unleash a strong bout of horniness in your partner.

  • It's just more eye-catching and jiggly

  • Big boobs are just really feminine. Because guys are masculine, and don't usually have boobs; having more pronounced boobs is a sign that the person we are looking at is better prepared to have babies.

    • Small boobs are just as feminine. It's all a matter of preference, really.

  • 😷 I like small more but big or small is fine with me..

  • Not all guys like big boobs.

  • I’m on board with science here. I think there is a biological function built into men to be drawn to feminine features related to procreation and it’s something we have little control over. Now, obviously boobs have been objectified in a sexual nature by society and men are drawn by that too. I believe both exist and the objectification should be kept in check to be respectful toward women.

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