It sounds to me like you want lots of foreplay which for me can almost be more exciting then the actual sex act. Foreplay definitely enhances having sex. Kissing your neck and throat, some fresh kissing while fondling your breasts, lightly pinching your nipples, kissing, licking and sucking on your erect nipples, sliding my hands up and down your legs while kissing your belly and giving you oral sex until you cum at least two or three times before I slower slide into you and filling your vagina with my hard throbbing dick would all be part of normal lovemaking. It sounds to me you've had selfish lovers that only want to pleasure themselves with your body.
Sounds like you've simply been with partners who have no idea how to foreplay or to have fun during sex. Teach them. Tell them to touch you! Tell them to run their hands down your body, to squeeze and suck on your boobs, to caress you and hold you, to kiss and to play, to do everything that you like. Being good at sex isn't something that comes natural to many people. Some just need to be taught.
See, I tell them to touch me or place their hands where I want but they just move them away and then I just feel awkward and ✨rejected✨
Then I guess you're just having bad luck. There are many, many men out there who would do everything to you that you want. The tough thing is to find them.
Choose different guys maybe, your bfs sound weird. This question is weird bruh.
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That's what I'm over here thinking.
I mean like prolong touching, caressing, ‘exploring each others bodies’ type of thing
It depends. Some guys may be shy when it comes to prolong touching during sex. Or, they don't really care about it enough to do so. Just focus on the main part of having sex. Or, they just want to make it a quickie.
How can getting fucked not be touching?
They are probably young and inexperienced. You need to grab their hands and guide them to where you want to be touched.
How can you have sex without touching? 🤷♂️
Probably cuz they feel its not a turn on for them
Probably don't know what they are doing or are selfish in the bedroom
Well how can I get them to tell me because this is very much ✨frustrating✨
Or just find a guy that loves to please
Where are they because there’s no way men like that exist 😂
Guys in your age group only think of themselves. And it’s about him and his pleasure.
Guys a little older and more mature, think of their partners first and themselves later.
That’s the main reason young girls like older guys.
How can they have sex without touching you?
That's very strange, especially if it's been with everyone. Unfortunately only they can say. Unless you've just had really bad luck and found ALL the guys that are 100% selfish and can have sex with women they aren't attracted to? lol That's the only thing I can think of is that they aren't really that into you? But even that is weird to me. Personally I can't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to, at least somewhat and touching is a part of sex, so? Very strange.
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