Would it be weird to ask a guy to have sex with me so I can decide if I’m attracted to men?

Question

I had a thing with this guy a while back, we made out and i gave him a blowjob. He wanted to take my virginity but i said no because I was pretty sure he didn’t have a condom with him at the time.
I don’t have a strong attraction to men and want to get a more clear idea of my sexuality. We haven’t talked in a while but he’s the only guy I know. Would it be weird to ask him to have sex with me so I could decide if I like men?

GingerGuy · Accepted Answer

Only if you don't explain why. But depending on the guy, he may not go for it. But lots would lol. But would the blowjob not tell you? My thoughts, if you enjoyed that, then you would like sex, but if you felt nothing, then probably not. But is intercourse that different?

imjustadude · Accepted Answer

There are plenty of girls attracted to guys that hate giving blow jobs so you are some kind of attracted. I think you would know without the sex. Sex isn't going to flip some magic switch you haven't already flipped yourself I presume.

Bad_Man55 · Answer

It may be a little weird to ask but since he wanted you anyway I'm sure he will be happy to oblige

Mikelaughs · Answer

It would be ok to ask if you two are close friends.  Actually, it would be better then just finding a random guy. There are some things to consider though.  Follow me if you want to talk about it

pierre7i · Answer

It wouldn't be weird, tho maybe just tell him it's because you really want to experience penis-vagina sex so you can know how it feelsBut are you sure you want to give your virginity to him?

Almost10inch4funlol · Answer

He’d be happy to lol but frfr he would

SarahP080102 · Answer

Shouldn't be weird

Avicenna · Answer

Yes it would be, but I'm sure he wouldn't turn you down. I'd advise against you doing that.

IamBoredAF · Answer

Shouldn't be too weird, but communicate it like that.

Dargil · Answer

Puts the cart before the horse.

genericname85 · Answer

most guys don't appreciate being used... though there's plenty of desparate guys that will say yes.

Wise4myage · Answer

Not at all, and he will definitely say yes, lol. How else are you going to find out what you like sexually?

pizzalovershouse · Answer

If your attracted to guys should should know it by them just sharing time togerher or looking at a guy an thinking he is cute

MarkyMark77 · Answer

go for it! guys loooovee sex so im sure he would say yes. damnn tho lots of pressue on him to bring you over to team straight lmao jkjk. when u gonna ask?

Twalli · Answer

Pretty weird, especially if you phrase it like that

Valnac · Answer

No, not weird at all. Most girls that can’t decide tend to like both. They are known as bi-sexual.

AFellowWeeb · Answer

you're not a virgin anymore, you did a blowjob to him, stop saying you are virgins if you already performed a sexual activity. Plus, wtf is up with people thinking blowjobs are less nasty than sex? you're putting a man's juices inside your belly