When in the relationship should you have sex?

[NickAdy9405]

To be honest I am very rough about sex in a relationship.

First of all a relationship cannot work if at least one of them has a serious job, is mature enough and can show to the other one how the life really is with ups and downs.

Relationship for fun when they both have no worries and everything is fun, no jobs, no bills in my opinion may not work when things get real, like moving together etc.

After about 6-9 months you should decide already if he appreciates you for what you are, for what you do, for what you feel for him without even bringing sex in a talk.
To be sure that a guy is serious about you, in my opinion that guy should have a job, should be able to take care of himself, pay rent, bills, cook and whatever it takes.
And after 6-9 months if he proved you that he wants you because he loves you and not because of sex, sex is alright to start.


Those couples wich no one of them work or no one of them can take care of themself financially and have sex after 4-5 dates, usually get bored fast too and things don't work.
In my country at least this is how it works and is my personal opinion.

[MikeTheBartender]

Hmmm the standard third date is the longest I'd wait. All of my best serious relationships sex came in date 1 to 3 max. Genuine desire can't be negotiated.

[Anonymous]

Never listen to your brain, because your brain can justify, ANYTHING.

Never listen to your heart, because your heart will just tell you what you need & want to hear.

Listen to your gut. Your gut is your inner voice that is screaming at you, and yet we won't listen. Listen to your gut. It's not about goofy rules that GAG imposes on you.

[DizzyDesii]

Closer to a year or so and definitely not before 6 months. And im not worried about being “easy”. I’d just push back as far as i can until i feel ready and i feel like he's worth it

[Prettygurl12]

I waited until I got married. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I knew that I wanted to wait and I didn't hide that fact from my husband who, by default, also waited until marriage.

[Jakeofalltrades93]

whenever your both ready for it

[Iron_Man]

After marriage