How to give a good blowiob?

Been seeing a guy for a while now and talks of sex have been coming up. But we would likely start with giving oral to each other before doing the actual deed.

However, I’m a virgin and never done anything sexual before whilst he has lots of experience. I want to do it but I want to make sure I do a good job so was wondering if anyone has any tips on what to do or what feels good. Thanks.
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  • You will do a great job. Have fun. Everyone is different. Some guys like deep throat if you can do it, some prefer you focus on the first few inches. Communication is key. Tell him what you're going to do and ask him what he likes. Ask him if what you're doing feels good during the blowjob. Use a lot of tongue especially on the frenulum. Keep your lips tight. Avoid contact with your teeth. Hold the skin tight at the base of the shaft with one hand and use a twisting action on the shaft with the other. Also lick the balls and perineum. If you want to try making him cum in your mouth and swallowing, tell him so he's not worried about it or having to pull out. He may be hesitant to cum in your mouth, so you may need to give him a lot of reassurance that you want it. Increase the sucking, stroking, and tightness. Don't stop until he finishes completely unless he tells you his dick is too sensitive to continue. If you don't want to deal with the taste of his cum, swallow quickly as it's squirting. If you don't want cum in your mouth tell him beforehand to pull out. After he desensitizes, pull on the shaft from the base to the tip a couple of times to squeeze out any remaining cum. Clean it with a tissue or lick it off. Do this a couple of times more after his dick goes soft.

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  • It is my belief that a girl should not give a new guy a BJ until he has made a good faith effort at cunnilingus. They eliminates any thought a BJ is slutty.

    *A blowjob is not passionate sex. It is nurturing sexual therapy.
    *Get him hard and ready by a hand job first. It should not take long.
    *The best blow job includes coordinated and properly timed use of hands and mouth. Your mouth focuses on the head and your hand strokes the shaft.
    *Gradually build sexual arousal/tension. Do not slow down or pause. He can lose momentum.
    *Level off, "edge" him to make him last longer if you want, but be sure not to let him fade before building to orgasm.
    *When you are ready for him to cum, bob and suck as quickly as you can sustain for maybe 3 minutes. Stroke as fast as you can with a moderate grip.
    *When ejaculation starts, stop ALL mouth motion. Moderate sucking only.
    *Slow down, but keep stroking to the last squirt. If you can master it, stroke between the later squirts but pause during the squirt.
    *Stay locked on sucking lightly until he unplugs.
    *A skilled blow job is not slutty. It is an act of love and nothing else makes a man feel more loved. A skilled BJ is Girl Power. If you get really good at it and will give it whenever he asks, it is cheating insurance. And this is an eternal truth.

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  • Ok, so to really please a man you have to pretend his penis is a ketchup bottle and you're trying to shake, thump, smack, or pry that ketchup out of there. It may seem rough, but just remember how porn sounds and aim for that. y'all are going to be winners!

  • use your saliva and cover his dick with it then use your hand for the bottom part of the dick and your mouth for the top of it, and take a breath in between lick the whole dick or suck his balls from time to time, also it's good if you slow down the process often.

    wish you good Luck

  • How to give the perfect blowjob?

    Step 1: teasing (licking, kissing stroking etc
    Step 2: pick a position how you want to suck dick (on your knees, 69, upside down, leaning your head at the edge of the bed etc).
    Step 3: put the penis in the mouth.
    Step 4: play with speed, decide when you go fast and when to slow it down.
    Step 5: You can use you tongue to help you sliding his dick in your mouth, make sure you wrap your lips around his dick to protect his dick from your teeth.
    Step 6: Make it sloppy by spitting on the dick and use your saliva.
    Step 7: Don't forget to play with his balls, kiss them, suck them, squeeze them, tickle them.
    Step 8: Make sure you communicate, make eye contact to create connection.
    Step 9: Have fun, if you don't have fun, your partner won't have fun either, because he knows you do it just to please him even if you don't enjoy it.
    Step 10: Decide where you want him to cum (on your face, mouth, boobs etc).

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  • Focus on him, show enthusiasm and listen to what he's saying. These are the most important things that will make sure he enjoys it. And with practice you'll eventually get better at it.

  • Ask whathe likes ahead of time

  • You should take deepest you can, without using your teeth..

  • why just blowjob? bj + vaginal sex is better.

  • The main deal with a bj is not to bite him or run your teeth roughly along his dick. With that taken care of, all you need to do is ask what he liked, and put it in your mouth and go at it. If you ask, he will guide you. In general, don't put all of him in your mouth, especially at first, (It depends on how bid he is) You don't want to gag or vomit, so take some in your mouth, and work your way toward taking more in as you work into it. But again, you never had to take all of him in your mouth. Most of the feeling is at the first couple of inches at the head of his penis, and the shaft has a lot less feeling. When's you have him in your mouth, slide your lips up and down the shaft repeatedly. Decide ahead of time if you are going to allow him to cum in your mouth. Talk it over with him. If you are not going to have him cum in your mouth, make sure he tells you ahead of just just before he cums, so you can pull your mouth away, and his cum goes elsewhere. Giving a bj is easy. Girls worry about how to do it and please the guy. But really, a guy is so excited that you will give him a bj, that it will be very good for him. Again, ask his before what he likes, and during, ask if what your are doing feels good, and if he wants you to do something else. Guys usually want you let them cum in your mouth, but a lot of girls don't like that. So, do it the way your are comfortable, and don't let him intimidate you into taking cum in your mouth or swallowing, unless you want to.

  • My tip is to stay a virgin and not give him a blowjob. Instead find another virgin to date. Virgin non-virgin relationships almost always end in heartbreak.

  • Just lick a top of a dick