Is it OK for a 19 year old to have sex with a 56 year old?

[JessieBellll]

[blueRRmoon]

There’s billions of people out there. You are not short of supply of people your age, nor is he, so um... why out of all people, date your grandpa? If you’re considering becoming a sugar baby, I would suggest to find someone who isn’t still sexually active. I have no expertise in any of this, but maybe do a public service instead and go all out and date a great grandpa. There’s many men in their 90’s that have more money, and only want verbal companionship because they’re lonely (Aw). Less work, more money is the route to go, if all you want at the end of the day is a Gucci bag lol. Regardless, even if you’re not in it for the money, the fact that people will immediately assume that you’re a prosti-tot (or one or the other partner is being USED in some way) should be all the proof you need of how not okay it is lol. I’m sure it wasn’t detectable, but I was mostly being facetious. Please don’t use anyone. Maybe go volunteer at a senior home out of the goodness of your heart and make someone’s day free of charge in the meantime while your soulmate, your EQUAL finds his way to you. Love takes time (most of the time much quicker than 56 years though). Also, I’m curious, ask your potential date why he’s interested in you. If he uses words that aren’t customized to you, like “cute, vibrant, or youthful”... I would haul ass away from him. That would just mean that he’s just looking for someone generically young. Red flag. Another red flag is that you’re so close the the “legal” cutoff. Meaning he went as young as legally possible, and most of the time, people like that would be willing to go younger if the law didn’t prevent him. Not a coincidence that you’re probably barely 19. Gross. Even worse if you’re a young looking 19 (when I was 19, I looked 14). P. P. Abort mission... potential pedo. Yup, I said it.

[blueRRmoon]

My mistake, just pretend that everything I said wasn’t directed toward you. I just realized your personal header says 33 yo, so you’re clearly not talking about yourself. It would be more believable if you were the daughter of the 56 year old?

[JessieBellll]

You assume a lot, including the gender. It has nothing to do with me

[blueRRmoon]

Not exactly assuming really; was just asking questions in the form of guesses. I realized this wasn’t about you, because of you’re age, that why I said it would be more believable for you to be the daughter of the 56 year old, making a point that the 56 y. o.’s children would even be older than their 19 y. o. date. As for the rest in my response, I was mostly filling in the blanks so I could give a thorough response with an example for reference.

[Petra150]

I'd hope so as my grand cousin's daughter who only is 15,5 ( sexual lawfull ) do have sex with my hubby sometimes he's 58 soon 59 years, and I guess she's the leading part in this act

[JessieBellll]

Good luck

[Petra150]

Hi hope you don't think they are in a relationship , but they have had a triangle with me a few times, but only few times, as we bouth are attracted to her,, and she's attracted to us too.

[JessieBellll]

Sure, no problem

[Petra150]

Think we keep this in our message , if it's ok

[JessieBellll]

Sure

[LadyCroft]

hahaha the tranny hiding behind a pink profile always present to catfish more people.
Here is only one example of the messages this pervert is sending to other women:

[Koray06]

it looks interesting and exciting

[TheorionMage]

'Yes' WITH conditions...
FOREMOST control of One's fertility and scrupulous validation of freedom from STD's.

The Elder seeks the sensual vitality, willingness to explore and concupiscent fertile potential of the Youth...
the Youth has tired of the 'wham-bam' ham-handed, sweaty-backseat courtship and foreplay... forever
in pursuit of the ecstasy of 'getting off' and yet another 'notch' in their sexual score card.

Few, are 'wise enough' to cherish and nurture this 'May and August' long term potential ~

[razelove]

I'm pretty sure the image you're going for is a poor innocent 19 year old girl with an old lecherous 56 year old, seems fine to me, both consenting adults, same with a 19 year old guy and 56 year old woman.

[tiffany_g]

Just sex? It depends on the individuals. If no strings sex between two 19 year olds is unacceptable to someone then no strings sex between a 19 and 56 year old would be equally unacceptable. If you wouldn't bat an eye at her having a one night stand with a 19 or 20 year old then that same one night stand is just as acceptable with a 56 year old.

It's not likely there would be much potential for a stable relationship. I had great sex with a man in his 70s when I was 19, but even if he wouldn't be in his 90s now we wouldn't have lasted for longer than that night because we just didn't have much in common. The main reason I can get a 16 year gap to work is because mentally I'm in line with someone in their 20s, though the generation gap does sometimes pop up when I indulge in a bit of 80s/early 90s nostalgia.

There could also be legal issues. Contrary to popular belief the age of consent is set by the states, and in several states, mine included, the age of consent is 21. At least in my state the troopers will openly admit that it's only on the books as a process crime, one that's only enforced when they want to hold someone but the only thing they have on them is a 30 year old with an 18 or 19 year old, but it could still cause some trouble. Realistically it's not enforced as long as the younger of the two is at least 18.

[chrissykerdock]

if it's just a blowjob otherwise it'd be gross

[Lizzzzz288283]

Very weird but it’s legal so

[MarkyMark77]

@lizzzzz288283 why tf would a gilr want that?

[JessieBellll]

@MarkyMark77 same reason why a guy would I guess, others would do it for money

[CrazyGirl2]

Well there is no law against it. But I would have to wonder what a 19y/o and a 56y/o have in common? But you are both adults, why even ask? It’s only NOT okay, if YOU think it’s not okay!

[Iknowbestgirls]

I don't think it's about common interests thing, it's about mutual attraction.

[daydreammarie]

I mean if that's what their into and dont find it odd nothing wrong with that. Also if the person wasn't waiting for them to become a consulting adult.

[departedthe]

Its legal but still very weird

[purplepoppy]

As long as he's in good health and doesn't have a bad heart he should be ok. But it's probably best she goes easy on him.

[katiesmuff]

Whatever trips your trigger, your both of legal age and are free to make that decision without a problem.

[menina]

No, it's not ok at all. It's disgusting and he has age to be her father! it's so wrong. They should have sex with people their age.

[JessieBellll]

Who said it can only be a girl?

[JoyGirl]

Maybe the disgusting part was kinda harsh, but girl, you are right. 😭

[menina]

You're right, it could be a boy and a woman, a boy and a man or a girl and a woman. I only realized that after posting the answer. My bad.

[menina]

@JoyGirl Thanks 😂 I was just speaking my mind.

[JessieBellll]

It's your opinion

[menina]

Yes it is. I have one, just like everybody else who answered this question.

[JoyGirl]

@menina 💜💜💜

[menina]

@JoyGirl 😊💜💜

[JessieBellll]

My cousins daughter is 23 and dating a 50 year old. What do you think of thst

[JessieBellll]

*that

[menina]

That's not something I would be ok with. But it's their life, so there's nothing I can do. If you see nothing wrong with their relationship then that's your opinion and I respect it.

[JessieBellll]

They have a baby

[menina]

Good for them. But I still think it's not ok.

[menina]

I hope they're happy.

[joeblow123]

@menina "it could be a boy and a woman, a boy and a man or a girl and a woman." Are you saying the above scenarios are okay but an older man/younger woman relationship is not okay?

[menina]

@joeblow123 No, I'm saying that I believe ALL scenarios are wrong because of the age gap. You probably didn't read all the comments.

[19magic]

Well age of consent is 16 so it is okay, do I think it's weird hell yeah that's both weird and creepy lol

[PaganWarrior]

Depends what country. 16 is in the UK and other European countries I think. In America you have to be 18.

[19magic]

Either way the person in question is 19

[weysally]

well I was 15 nearly 16 and I had glorious sex with an older man I think he was 44 at the time, so yes, but a relationship other than sex then a no, because in time the difference of things will appear or could

[JPrez]

Wow. How does something like that happen? Please don’t misunderstand I’m not being a sicko here but you know that would have been illegal obviously. Just am wondering what was going on. That’s kinda scary too cause there are perverts who prey on younger people.

[weysally]

@JPrez to start with he didn't know my age and if anything I did the pursing, I wanted him and I got him long time ago now

[JPrez]

Wow. I’m sure it’s an interesting story. 👍

[weysally]

@JPrez well I think how anyone got going in the first place is interesting, I bet if we all could write it down and post it somewhere it would be good reading

[JPrez]

This is so true. I’ve some stories too that would make enjoyable reading. 😂

[weysally]

@JPrez why don't you write them then I'm sure some would like to read things

[JPrez]

Some of them are a bit risqué. 😂

[weysally]

@JPrez I don't think that would matter, but anyway we are getting away from Jessiebell question, age difference in sex I think don't matter but as I said other things and there most likely could be, just music alone watch some of the elder people when youngster music is on and watch the younger ones when their singers are on and you will see what I mean

[JPrez]

Good point. That explains a lot. 😂 I will consider putting some stuff out there. 👍

[weysally]

@JPrez let me know and I will rad it, also what site and I may put on some of mine

[JPrez]

Will do. 👍

[PaganWarrior]

You had sex with a pedophile. Well done.

[JessieBellll]

@PaganWarrior he didn't know how old she was

[PaganWarrior]

Then he's a dumb shit for not asking or finding out because if the court gets hold of that, consented or not, he'd go down for pedophilia and rape.

[JessieBellll]

@PaganWarrior I know tons who got away with it this way

[PaganWarrior]

Yeah, I bet... Still disgusting, though.

[OlderAndWiser]

What is your question?

Is it legal?
Is it moral?
Is it ethical?
Is it advisable?

What is your concern?

[razelove]

But the children! lol

[OlderAndWiser]

@razelove Only if the girl is not the 56 year old!

[razelove]

They'd all come out with downs and looking like that guy from the goonies lol, popped out my last two before the menopause, phew!

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Oh here's a crazy thought, those things are all different and ambiguous. Shit, it's almost like he's able to somehow contemplate over a concept past his knee-jerk reaction.

[Hangry22]

Yuck🤢🤢
That's like your fathers age

[iseekpinetrees]

Yes if thats what they want to do.

[WesBrewer]

Legally, yes. morally, not really. Usually, only people looking for money would do that, I definitely wouldn't do it.

[lightbulb27]

99% of time, no. 19 is so young who thinks they know everything and are grown up. Most know very little. 56... should be mature to know better. But age sadly doesn't dictate maturity. High risk of taking someone for granted.

But if the last 2 humans on a deserted island, possibly diff answer.

[mistixs]

It's technically legal but it's gross

[ObscuredBeyond]

"Legally," yes. Morally? I can't think of a good reason to condone it. If it's happening, it usually indicates that something else really bad and messed up is happening behind the scenes.

[JessieBellll]

Why do you think so?

[JessieBellll]

Maybe because they are adults?

[ObscuredBeyond]

A cradle robber is one thing. Dirty old men chasing a young thing barely out of diapers has me suspicious as heck. But a young dude banging a gangly old granny? Somehow, twice the squick factor! Most cases of that usually come with a mental illness attached. Plus, the mental image of it reminds me of the Jim Carey film Yes Man, a film worth saying no to.

[JessieBellll]

I think the man has just as much mental problems as the woman

[ObscuredBeyond]

Maybe a different condition, but an unhealthy combination regardless.

[SilverRose10]

Its not a normal concept but your of age to decide what you do and if you want to have sex with a 56 year old then do it. But make sure its what you want and that your ready for anything that comes from it

[SilverRose10]

@Jakiejake thank you

[virtue2332]

It wouldn't appeal to me I prefer an older women that knows how to take care of themselves down there.