Is it bad I'm in navy and straight but had guy blow me during sea duty?

Question

During my first tour at sea a few guys (a lot married) let me know they get bjs from other guys on board for sex release. I was not interested at first since I am straight but after a month I decided to try it since I was so horny all the time. There were a few guys that gave bjs so I picked one I was interested and he charged $5 per bj. I started meeting up once a week since it felt good and helped me not be so edgy.
Since being back on shore duty I was thinking if it was bad thing to do but so many other guys did it and seemed normal. I never thought about this when I signed up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

LOL I teach history and sailors have long engaged in such things throughout history due to the absence of vagina-the same thing happens in prison Most of those so engaged do not consider themselves gay or even bi but justify it because "there are no women around so what you going to do?" (Maybe use your hand instead? That's what I would do-it was good enough when I was 13). I'm sure you have heard the old joke: How does the Navy separate the men from the boys? With a crowbar. Seriousy though-the homosexuality isn't as much a moral issue as the fact that you are married. Does she know and is she ok with it because its a man and not a woman? Would you be ok with her having sex while you are at sea-with a woman or maybe even a man?

razelove · Accepted Answer

Dude, you were on deployment, let me ask real quick, if it was shore leave in thailand, you got a hooker, but it turned out to be a boy-girl and you still got a bj, would you still be scratching your head over it?

It isn't bad man, you didn't have to stab anyone for some pussy, you got your rocks off. Just let it be. Learn to meditate to be at peace with the decisions you have to make.

I think your big issue is that it was a fellow sailor who blew you. If he didn't want dick he wouldn't have given you a blowjob. Hell, he was probably sucking dick for 5's so he could pay for an even better blowjob from an officer.

Seriously, don't worry about it. You're good

nayans · Accepted Answer

I think it's better you stop it because you are trying to be someone which you aren't. You may be an heterosexual but you are moving towards same sex tendencies by receiving this. You are a Navy man, if you are determined then you can stop your mind from thinking about receiving from men and sexual release.

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Anon, you cabin boy, you dirty little snipper! You lined your ass with broken glass and circumcised the Skipper!

departedthe · Answer

If you said no homo afterwards it's not gay.

ThatQuietLass · Answer

You aren't straight if you're getting blowies

Hangry22 · Answer

You're gay probably and if you're ok with it, it will not be bad

iseekpinetrees · Answer

No I know a few straight guys who've gotten head. Sometimes when ur horny u get pleasure in any way u can.

teawrecks · Answer

se (a) men, amirite?

bifus · Answer

I'm sure you aren't the only one. I suspect this is more common than you might think.

Bananaman177 · Answer

Sodomy and the lash.

BobbyC65 · Answer

It's all good. 💞

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Oh dear Lord almighty... So long as you don't make cringey excuses to retain your straight card, I have no actual objections to it.

Iknowbestgirls · Answer

I've heard of such things happening a lot. I never got it because I've never been in that situation. But why not just get yourself off?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

God help us.

Trooper205 · Answer

If You paid a guy to blow You, I don't think you can truthfully call yourself straight, Sailor. If You were straight, You'd masturbate LONG BEFORE You decided to have a guy suck on You.

Meldrum · Answer

I was Coast Guard and spent many a month at sea with men before they allowed women on ships. I never got a blowjob from anyone nor did I ever hear of any men getting or giving blowjobs. But as they say, whatever floats your boat laddie.