A girl who takes care of her man's sexual needs even when she's not feeling it is marriage material. Ageee?

[Bat-Perv]

[blueRRmoon]

Yeesh... why does it always have to come down to “wife material?” Quite frankly actually, a guy who pressures a girl into doing something that she doesn’t want to do is NOT husband material lol. I would not even consider that hypothetical proposal under any circumstances. Just NOPE. Also, if a woman has to be pressured to fulfill a “duty” all of the time like this post is implying, then I hate to break it to you bro, but those women just may not be that into you. Personally, when I’m on my period, my hormones are raging and am turned on even more than usual, so if I’m genuinely into a man, I wouldn’t even need to be pressured to touch him ever; I may even initiate lol. Even if I’m not in the mood, mutual respect is so attractive. Don’t be a selfish and toxic creep. READ THE ROOM.

[CrazyGirl2]

I don’t think the question mentioned anything about “pressure” not being in the mood, just means she is not horny... a woman can love her man so much that even if she is NOT horny (in the mood), she is still HAPPY ago make love to her husband/boyfriend, without there being an ounce of “pressure”

[Jamie05rhs]

@CrazyGirl2 I agree. Thanks for saying that.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think the point is that the woman doesn't feel pressured, and the guy doesn't even have to pressure her. They both just help each other out sexually because they love each other and care about each other's needs. That is the whole point. That is why she is wife material. Because of her loving and caring attitude.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well, it’s definitely an important thing to take into consideration when choosing a person to spend the rest of your live with. However, the concept of a woman satisfying her man even if she is not in the mood for sex, or sexuality satisfying her man but getting nothing in return is an average Tuesday night for most women! Come-on, a guy cumming before the girl is even feeling remotely close, and then saying something like “Wow, that was amazing baby, goodnight.” Well, let’s be honest... It’s not exactly the plot from an episode of Black Mirror! I think a more realistic question would be “Girls, if the guy you are with, or perhaps one day meet, cums too soon, but no matter what, he always takes the time to make sure you have at least ONE orgasm before he rolls over and and goes to sleep... is HE marriage material? Now those are answers I’d like to see the numbers on.

[cth96190]

@CrazyGirl2 Sounds to me that you have been having sex with the wrong men. I give a woman a brain melting orgasm before my penis goes inside. Then I will not allow myself to cum until the female has had at least one PIV orgasm. I am not the only man who does that. If you have been screwing males around your own age, perhaps you should try a couple of men closer to 30.

[CrazyGirl2]

@cth96190 You remind me of the OTHER 63 year old man who told me that unlike young “boys” you cum too fast. Old (er) guys can last a very, VERY long time...” But all I could think was, “Who wants to have sex with an old man... FOR A LONG TIME?”

[CrazyGirl2]

***. WHO cum too fast ***

[TheorionMage]

There are MULTIPLE means to provide for HIS sexual appetites, even when SHE'S not in the mood.

Manual, oral, anal, vibrating toys...
'little Willie' has NO eyes and ONLY knows what it feels~
The rest seems a 'dominance' psychological unrequited need.

An interesting cultural Feminist permutation to female business commuters being sexually-groped is...
'Chijo' wherein roaming Feminist gangs targeting mousey Japanese salary men.

On the crowded public transit where commuters pose disengaged immune to activity,
stacked like sardines,
three or more females will reach into the commuter's trousers pockets fondling
the Targeted male's genitals and/or grinding against him til he copiously climaxes
and visibly soils his business suit en-route to work with NO time to change clothes!~

[Shuttlebus78]

Okay creep. I’d best your ass for groping my girlfriend. Also not all women are loose like the ones you’re talking about. Giving head isn’t loose, but thinking women owe you anal makes and that they decent fems grab dude’s crotches on the bus haha!

[Shuttlebus78]

What you’re 70? There’s a reason some sex acts are popular in porn, because only porn whores do them. Give yourself some much needed respect and stop chasing women with no morals.

[lordskull69]

Or think there might be times when a woman might do that for her husband because she wants to or a man might do that for his wife because he wants to for them not for themselves. That being said I think that a woman should evaluated a relationship that she's in with a man if one of the major things he's looking for is the weather or not you'll satisfy him whether you're in the mood or not seems kind of wrong that should not be top on anyone's list of things to be considering when when entering into a long-term commitment like marriage

[NamerOfStars]

Well, I'd say that's definitely a good sign; willingness to accommodate your partner's needs.

[Vickymoore9]

I won’t vote on this it doesn’t contain the proper choices 😂 It’s a two way streak if he can’t perform when I need it wanting me to always be the one hell no. I think the right man like my husband can always get me in the mood. But it’s totally going to be dependent on the guy if he’s got the drive and equipment to preform when I demand it!

[Craftsman]

Not always.
It is rather narrow criteria. Marriageability includes a lot more than sexual "who does what to whom and when, why and how".

[Svellte]

Sure. I can bet on that.

[DizzyDesii]

I think more things should make her marriage material then just her having unwanted sex. But yes this helps. As long as im not sick/on my period/mad at him, i would fulfill his needs

[purplepoppy]

The secret to pleasing guys is to keep their bellies full and their balls empty

[Bat-Perv]

Most beautiful thing I ever heard

[MrOracle]

This really isn't a secret. Most girls I know already know this "secret." LOL.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It depends. If she isn't in the mood but chooses to please her partner because she wants to make them happy, then it's fine. But if she isn't in the mood and doesn't want to, she shouldn't be pressured to do it.

[CindyRuns]

But also... a guy who takes care of his woman's sexual needs too !!!

I also have my needs !!!

[Bat-Perv]

What if he was horny and you weren't feeling it

[OlderAndWiser]

Potentially. If she is willing to satisfy her partner sexually even though she is not feeling sexual desire at that time, then it indicates that she is sometimes willing to recognize that her partner's needs are equally important and deserve her concern. That attitude is not ALL that it takes to make a marriage work, but it is a good start!

[Hangry22]

If this is true, then why do so many men get mad about how women can only give them pussy and no financial security?🤔

[Bananaman177]

Wut?

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 oh i meant those misogynists who say women only provide a preowned pussy in return for financial security, love and companionship from a man

[MrOracle]

Those men aren't complaining about the woman not bringing money to the table (per se) - they're complaining that the ONLY thing she's bringing to the table is pussy - and being unwilling to contribute in any other way. Guys bring money to the table, but they also (usually) bring other things too - things that women also want and value - and most women also bring other things to the table, but SOME women think that her providing him sex should itself be enough to demand a list of 40 things from him. It's those specific women that those guys are complaining about.

[Hangry22]

@MrOracle thanks for explaining. I got it And those misogynists i told they agreed to this question and said it's true.

[Bananaman177]

Yeah, I run in a lot of different misogynist circles and I've heard every complaint against women anyone has been able to dream up for the last 15 years or more, never heard anyone complain about women not making money or not having money or anything like that.

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 i heard it here a lot like a lot. They think all women are golddiggers and want a man only for money But anyway the misogynists i meant has agreed to this question saying it's right

[Bananaman177]

I've heard lots of women on here admit to being golddiggers, they just don't like the label, but they admit to the behavior.

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 Lots doesn't mean everyone. That would be like if i said, All men are cheaters and started accusing any guy i find of cheating

[Bananaman177]

I see women say that on here at least 2x a week for the last 3 years.

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 well we got both misogynists and misandrists here who generalize a whole gender

[Bananaman177]

How come there are no female "white knights" who defend the other gender? Half the dudes on here are white knights for women, no woman has ever written anything in defense of men.

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 what are you talking about? I have seen like 2 or such female white knights fighting with a bunch of girls for guys Also i never had any white knights when i had fights here. Never needed any. My fights are mine

[Bananaman177]

Like two? Ever? In how long?

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 well for real. I saw a big fight between a sexist girl and a girl who supports guys. And many guys came to help that female white knight too And there is another female user here who brings down girls and flatters guys. But she's a narcissist so..

[Bananaman177]

I've never seen it, but the point remains, it's ridiculously rare compared to male white knights. Male white knights don't even stand out on here, they're ubiquitous and I get guys coming out of the woodwork to rescue girls from me 6, 8, 10 weeks after the argument is over and done. They're literally scouring the archives looking for months-old arguments to chime in and call me a beta virgin incel loser chud.

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 well maybe don't pick fights with damsels in distress especially those nice popular girls in here

[Bananaman177]

Do you consider this as me picking a fight with you? If I disagree with you, does that mean I'm bullying you?

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 i never felt this was a fight and you didn't disagree anything. You said something and i said what i actually saw happen here A fight is when people think they're always right evn if there's evidence and resort to trashy talk

[Bananaman177]

In a few weeks, some dude will come on here and accuse me of being a rapist because of this conversation. Just watch.

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 That will never happen. Cause i don't give out Damsel in Distress vibes and neither do i post nudes here to have such adorable followers. So you're safe

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 I don't tolerate animal abuse. If you guys wanna fight, take it somewhere else

[Bananaman177]

What in the Hell could you possibly be talking about? Was that supposed to be a joke or something?

[Bananaman177]

I'm not fighting with anybody and nor am I abusing animals.

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 You may not be doing that but i will not tolerate posting such a pic involving an animal even if it was a joke

[Hangry22]

@Bananaman177 the cat's legs and hands were tied to the table. I neither support beastality nor animal abuse be it photoshopped or real. Rules of nature isn't your porno to jerk off

[Bat-Perv]

@Bananaman177 if you aren't abusing animals how do you explain the peanut butter incident with fido last week?

[Bananaman177]

How else am I supposed to get the peanut butter into him?

[Shuttlebus78]

@MrOracle because that’s because that’s all those kind of men think women are for.

[iseekpinetrees]

Ideally yes but some times I'm just annoyed n don't want to be touched

[Dazed0N0Confused]

🤣 The triggered option cracks me up.

[ManhattanMan1212]

Can I ask you a question

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Of course!

[ManhattanMan1212]

Could you love a man that didn’t have a big penis

[Dazed0N0Confused]

Honestly, yes, because penis size doesn't matter to me because I don't get off from penetration, never have. I need clitoral stimulation during sex, so the tongue game is where I'm most concerned. But that's just me, I don't speak for every woman.

[ManhattanMan1212]

So I guess if you could get off from penetration you would dump guys that aren’t huge

[Dazed0N0Confused]

No, not at all. I honestly don't care about how large a guy is, I'm a personality kind of girl. If he treats me well, I won't leave him.

[flamiE]

I wouldn’t say so. A girl that can address what’s causing her to not want to take care of her man’s sexual needs is marriage material.

[MissyJo]

Moderation is a good thing.

[Alyssa11]

I would do anything for my husband. I want him to feel like a king, to feel the happiest and most relaxed when he is at home with me. I want to take care of him and be that feminine energy in his life. All I ask in return, is for a kind, faithful, attentive man to also take care of me in his own way.

A partnership is a union, it's being there for each other and doing things for each other.

[CrazyGirl2]

So beautifully well said!

[Alyssa11]

@CrazyGirl2 thank you!

[Shuttlebus78]

If he wouldn’t do anything for you, including giving up his dignity and acting like a sex slave don’t say you’d do anything for him.

[Sevenpointfive]

if she can't please me sexually why is she around? i can pay a maid for less than she costs me and i still get head

[Finchie40]

Not if she is doing it to gain something from me and basically using it as a weapon for me to do something for her then that isn’t good , I would rather have sex with a girl that wants it and is into it , over a girl allowing me to just use her as some blow up doll or some shit. But if I was horny and she wasn’t in the mood and she still gave me sex , I would thank her for it of course but I would also feel bad that she wasn’t in the mood so I wouldn’t expect her just to fulfill my needs when I am in the mood , it only becomes a problem if she is never in the mood that would raise some red flags that she isn’t really into me and that she is just with me out of convenience , sex to me is only best when you both want each other and crave each other , when I know I give her the O every time we have sex , knowing I got her off is all that matters , I don’t want to be with someone that fakes it just to appease me

[Don-__-Don]

No, just because a women does great in bed doesn't mean she's marriage material.

"Oh head she gives good head so I'm going to marry her"

Like, I really hope good sex isn't anyone's main driving force to get married.

Then people wonder why marriage is seen as a joke.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I guess lol. And vice versa though guys are rarely “not feeling it.”

[ChrisMike1919]

I don't want to talk about it. Those who are married know what is all about.