Should I just not date because I'm not very sexually experienced?
I've tried to go on dates every once in awhile but things never make it past the first date because the topic of sex always comes up and I upset a lot of men when I say I don't feel comfortable having sex with someone I just met or when they ask how many guys I've slept with and I only say one. I try to avoid the conversation, but when they ask me, I want to be honest with them. And it just upsets a lot of men. I never judge a guy when he says he's slept with 40 women, but why do they judge me for only being with one man?
One guy even told me that I can't expect to find a real lasting relationship if I don't have much sexual experience. That's a huge part of a couple's compatibility and if I can't keep up to a guys needs, I should just stay single and stop wasting people's time.
I don't know what to do. I'm 25 and feel like I have basically screwed myself over for not being like other women.
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