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Is it irrational that I want my future husband to appreciate the fact that I saved myself for him?

I made a question about this topic. 150+ people shared their opinions. Didn't expect that lol. Some of them expressed negativity on men valuing female virginity.
They even called such men misognynists (people who hate all women)
I am an abstinent virgin. I want my FUTURE non virgin husband to appreciate being my first man. It turns out those people are against men appreciating female virginity which means they dislike the idea of my future husband appreciating my virginity.
Some questions
1) who is compatiable with me on this stance? (I value my virginity)
a) the man who appreciates being my first b) the man who doesn't care about being my first
2) What should his views about my virginity to be for you not to view him negatively? (I want him to value my virginity)

Look if I value saving myself for the man I will love then isn't it logical that I would want him to appreciate being my first man too?
Why is it not okay that a man appreciates what his virgin girlfriend does?
Is it irrational that I want my future husband to appreciate the fact that I saved myself for him?
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