Could I have been sexually assaulted?
I had got drunk for the first time (but still was coherent and could remember most of the night) and spent the night with a guy I was seeing at the time. From what I remember he took good care of me and didn't give off a rapeyvibe and I remember is talking. I'd spent the night many times before, He helped unbuckle my pants and bra and he turned on the shower and would come back periodically check on me (he left the bathroom when I started to undress) . I didn't have any pajamas so he gave me one of his shirts, I didn't have on a bra or undies only the shirt and my hair wrapped in a towel and that's what I fell asleep in. I have no reason to feel like anything happened to me but I've heard stories and seen rape so much in TV and movies I'm just a little uneasy thinking it could've happened to me in that situation.
I wasn't sore the next morning (he was slightly bigger that average and I would usually get sore around my vaginal opening after sex) and didn't feel any fluids around or on me. We always used condoms and I didn't feel or smell any residue and after we split I got tested and was STDs free but now I think what if something didn't happen would I even know when though I'm a really light sleeper? Depending on the guy that could have turn out a lot differently and I trusted him enough to drink with him but I believe you can't be too safe.
I've read people say you may not remember but your body would know and other people say the only way to know would be to see a doctor.
Have I just been watching too much TV?
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