Wwould bed wetting be a deal breaker?

[Anonymous]

This is really embarrassing but about 6months ago I started wetting the bed. The first time it happened my boyfriend at the time was cool but then it happened a few days later. I went to the dr and had all sorts of tests and they couldn't find any problems and I was told that they think its psychological.
Its now become a regular issue that probably occurs about once a fortnight. For unrelated reasons im now single. But im terrified of wetting the bed the next time I sleep in a bed with a guy. How would you feel if your date/partner did this? Is it a total deal breaker?

[JoeSchmoeCool]

I think for many people that'd be a deal breaker, esp if it's not disclosed prior and they wake up to that.

For me, it'd be concerning and not really a deal breaker, so long as options are explored, like maybe adult diapers... I don't know how a mattress is to be cleaned if pee gets soaked into it, so it's best to prevent it.

[Anonymous]

If it was reversed, what would you want him to do? It's probably the same. I mean, it's something that happens and you don't even know why yourself. I think the only reason a guy might be upset is if you didn't tell him about it and let him find out on his own lol (ie waking up in it). But if you let him know ahead of time that this is an issue you currently have, I don't think it'll be a big deal. Not a "deal beaker" at least. He might be disappointed that maybe you can't share a bed.

[LisaLisa89]

If you have a partner who is sympathetic to the problem, as my fiancé is, then it's not a deal breaker. The most difficult thing for me was telling him about the problem before sleeping with him.

[linds34]

No, it's okay girl :)

[linds34]

I can give more info if you message me lol

[OlderAndWiser]

Deal breaker for me.

[charon142]

try and decrease the amount of water you drink in a week see if that gonna help you, also search for "vagina exercises" on the google.

[Dargil]

Probably not. Best you adjust your fluid intake and pee before going to bed.
Question: Do you empty your bladder or just dribble a little?

[genericname85]

yeah for me it sort of would be honestly... do you see a doctor about this?

[okeydoke]

It would be pretty bizarre and frustrating, more than gross.
I hope you’re able to work through it.

[Twalli]

Probably a deal breaker I don't have unlimited sheets

[KrakenAttackin]

As long as you are actively seeking a solution and you were otherwise awesome, I could deal with this for awhile.

[Diversity_Hire]

No, but that is a whole thing lol

[msc545]

Please see a specialist doctor - like a urologist.

[JamesTorquay]

U deal with problems together in a relationship, tell the guy you're embarrassing problem if he has a problem with that then he can
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[gandolph3]

Confide in them you may need to wear adult diaperd, if he is so shallow to avoid you for that you are far better off without them. Turn it into a fetish and ejoy it, just do not let it ruin your life.

[Smf1989]

It's not a deal breaker for me