I can't stop thinking about having sex with him and im in a relationship with someone else?

[Anonymous]

I love my boyfriend. He cares about me and he treats me really nice. I'm not really that attracted to him tho. I never used to find him extremely attractive but I thought that his nice personality and behaviour is more important. Sex is great tho. I think it's because he's really attracted to me. I've been thinking about a guy i had a crush on. I can't stop thinking about having sex with him even when im having sex with my boyfriend. I really dont like the way i feel but i can't control it. I'm horny all the time because of him. I had sex 4 times with him and he cumed within seconds. I mean my boyfriend satisfies me way more but still i keep thinking about him. There is no way im gonna cheat on my boyfriend. How can i stop feeling that way?

[Finchie40]

You need to realize your crush is a fragment of your imagination that he is only amazing to you in your fantasy but in reality he more than likely isn’t that way and probably wouldn’t treat you like your boyfriend does , you are only attracted to your crush’s appearance and how you want him to treat you in your head but the reality of it , he probably has nothing in common with you what so ever and more than likely he wouldn’t treat you like your boyfriend treats you , what you have with your boyfriend is what’s most important in a relationship , his heart , outside appearance means shit when you have someone that values you and loves and respects you, Don’t throw it away for some fairy tale fantasy , We will always see someone that is more attractive then our partners appearance wise but never more attracted then their heart. The only thing that makes love grow is removing selfishnes, by you wanting to screw this crush is a selfish decision it would be the same if your boyfriend saw a more attractive girl then you , he would be selfish if he choose her over you , why it’s important we sacrifice for each other to make love grow , realize what you have with your boyfriend is way better then some fantasy you are having

[charon142]

stop having sex for a month because it will remind you of your crush, try some yoga and open your mind, then talk to your boyfriend about what is happening to you, and tell him to find some good ways to get into your mind, also try thinking about your boyfriend a lot make him a god in your mind, change the way you looking at him

[AustinMan]

Focus on finding things sexy about your boyfriend and when your crush shows up, turn your mind away from him.

[SquirtleSquirtle]

Seems you're mentally checked out of your relationship.

[JPrez]

It’s probably because we always wish for what we currently don’t have.

[JPrez]

Just curious. Can you explain? Are you having sex with both guys now?

[Asker]

No, i don't. I had sex with other guy in the past and it wasn't even that nice. I don't know why i can't stop thinking about him.

[JPrez]

Maybe he’s hotter or has a bigger D? 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Ι think he's hotter but he hasn't a bigger D😂

[JPrez]

Then you must like the way he excites you. Maybe gets you wet. 😂

[JPrez]

How did you meet these guys? What kind of fantasies do you have about the other guy? Do y’all work together?

[Twalli]

I don't know how to stop. it, but as long as you love your boyfriend and have sex with him, I don't think imagining that he is another guy is bad.

[Yourman89]

Your prob not gonna stop...

[Board_Tennis77]

Which are you happier with