This is getting really fucking frustrating, I'm a 19 year old guy keeping my virginity for that special someone (not necessarily marriage), I'm fit and well-built, I've also been told that I'm handsome by many, I want my first time to be with a virgin girl who's attractive and just a normal nice person, I'm not asking for too much here at all
But the problem is, every girl I meet who's not super ugly, overweight, or weird in a bad way seems to be a non-virgin, I have lots of female friends and they all lost their virginities at around 15-18, they try helping me get close with any girls I like but they find out that they're all non-virgins too, I'm starting to avoid contact with girls I have crushes on because sometimes I end up upsetting such girls when they see me back away because of their past
I've been putting effort into protecting my virginity and not giving in to my raging instincts for 7 years now, but does anyone else do that anymore? I have no fucking clue right now honestly, I didn't know virginity was such a dead idea
I've been told to wait and let time eventually get me what I want, but if now, at the age of 19, every girl seems to have had her first time, how would waiting solve the issue? It would eliminate any actual chances I have, this is stressful lol
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I've dated some of my friends before, they were amazing but any sexual feelings I'd have for them would vanish once I remember that they've had a cock shoved into them before meI've had sexual feelings towards a girl who was raped, I don't count that I guessI'm 19, not much younger I can go, don't be a sicko
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I'm looking for a girl I can probably spend the rest of my life with, I don't want a shallow brainless hookup just to lose my V card. Churches don't make a difference. I guess I'll just keep waiting, I worked too hard to keep my virginity and I won't give it up easily like that. Thanks for the answers!
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hi_it_is_me123Yoda
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Youaint even good but want a good virgin girl. You are shallow and delusional as fuck. I am also virgin but am also realistic and dont except a virgin guy to be very handsome. Why do you think incels are all virgin? Have you ever seen a handsome tall virgin guy with amazing personality? Most of the handsome guys are used up cunts. Why should that be different for women? You really think a beautiful model like girl would wait it for you when they are surrounded by thousand of guys who also could be handsome? The same goes for very handsome guys Lol. Get over it. You can't have your cake and eat it too. I also dont understand why there are many incels who slut shame women for living their sexuality but dont slutshame men for doing the same
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Uhm Didn't you read? I'm 5"11 which is pretty tall, I'm fit and have been into body building for a year now, I'm deemed handsome and sexy by everyone who knows me including my many male and female friends in my social circle, and even some strangers I've met And I'm a virgin, I did say it's hard for me to keep my virginity but here I am and I still have it Why can't girls do the same? If I can do it then they surely can, but they just choose not to I guess And why does a preference make me "shallow and delusional" exactly? What does that have to do with anything? Are you calling me a hypocrite? And if so, why? I'm not sure if you're calling me an incel here, but if you respond to this with another hateful comment full of unreasonable insult gibberish, I'm gonna have to delete your comment
hi_it_is_me123
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I dontcare about your preferences. You can have a beautiful girl but can't except her to have a good personality if you are are shallow as fuck, you coward. Lol are you that retarted to delete my comments just because i tell the true. You being tall dont say a shit about your face. Ugly face with fit bodies exist too. Iam just saying youare ridiculous unrealistic. Would you date a beautiful and virgin but shallow girl like you who would leave youif you ain't handsome anymore? If yes, i take my words back. I am just shocked at your unrealistic preferences. Why is it so difficult for you to stay virgin? Are you a cunt who have no self control? I mean if you wantto have a pretty virgin girl with not much self control like you, then you ain't hypocritical. I am just disgust how you judge people by their looks. Fo delete my comments. I dont care
hi_it_is_me123
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I am also disgusted how you played with your female friends feelings. This is why i dontthink you ain't good. Stop playing with anyone's feelings. This alsowhat makes me angry in thr first place You explain like it is nothing. Dont date sny non virgin girl if you are not serious with them. This is also why i am so disgusted of you. Alsoyour obsession with virginity is not healthy too.
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hi_it_is_me123
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Go ahead and delete my comments. I dont give a f
hi_it_is_me123
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Also what does "why girls can't do the same" mean, if you are the one who reject any virgin girl just because they are not super pretty. Virgin girls exist likevirgin guys. If youare really handsome and virgin, then you are just an exception. Also why do only except from women to stay virgin, while you almost lost your virginity.
hi_it_is_me123
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Do what you want. I am sorry if i sound rude but i can't stand "players" who play with people feelings
hi_it_is_me123
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How would you feel if a girlyou like have played with you?
Asker
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I see you're a genuine person so I won't delete your comments You misunderstood, I didn't play anyone, my friends were well aware of how I felt back then and my problems in dating, they know me well, we're all super close and they thought they'd try and help, I warned them but they still wanted to try, no feelings were hurt according to them, but I still feel like damage was done which is why I don't wanna try dating non-virgins anymore, I don't like hurting people who don't deserve it I don't want my virgin girlfriend to be super pretty, I just don't want her to be ugly, that's just a preference, I have the right to have that preference because I'm good-looking myself "Why do you expect women to stay virgin when you almost lost your virginity?" I wouldn't mind if she almost lost her virginity, I'm not a hypocrite, her hymen is still intact and I'm still gonna be the one to break it You're saying that almost losing my virginity is just as bad as actually losing it? What? I'm still a virgin, I was almost seduced several times, some of those times were really aggressive and close but I managed to pull through, I can still proudly call myself a virgin who kept fighting to keep his V card, never saw that in an attractive girl yet And it's okay
Anonymous
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Yes they exist , i am 20 and i am still a virgin but they are not easy found. You'll find one but , would you love her cause she is virgin and if yes , what happen after? Love is what you should wait for. Just wanted to say don't give up despite all.
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TeeBarXper 6
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Attitudes to non-marital sex are so relaxed that the Second Coming is most unlikely as one couldn't find Three Wise Men and a Virgin. The idea of "saving yourself" is rather quaint, naïve, and amusing. The girl won't know, although your bumbling around, especially at your age, will like clue her in that you are clueless.
Well everybody is born like that so some must still exist
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Daniela1982Master
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Well if you are still a virgin you are most likely a good girl.
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Hangry22Guru
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You can probably find them in a church
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Jamie05rhs
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Not really. Most single people in churches are not virgins.
Hangry22
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@Jamie05rhs cmln aren't there pretty religious good virgin girls there?
Jamie05rhs
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@Hangry22. No. The only virgin girls you'll find in a church are children lol. After they graduate from youth group, they go away to college and get married.
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Hangry22
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@Jamie05rhs well at least some guys get such good virgin girls through marriage
Jamie05rhs
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@Hangry22 Yeah. That is the silver lining. At least it's working out for someone. I can't be anything but happy for them.
NewheadXper 7
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No, we're whores.
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Newhead
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All whores.
treetreenaYoda
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I’m still a virgin.
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Aakash_HangargiGuru
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Men donot have the virginity problems 🙂.
But you could be inexperienced.
Lol don't worry about the body counts but less would be good.
And if you are going to spend rest of your life do it for love and not for virginity of people.
But if you want virgins only then you have to look girls of 18 years
But as far as I see in current scenario most girls are loosing virginity from 14 to 18 so it would be a challenge if going by that factor
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TemplarKnightXper 5
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They dont exist. They older the get the more dudes that have ran through her.
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Jamie05rhsMaster
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"I want my first time to be with a virgin girl...". Why would it only be just for your "first time"? Are you serious about a relationship or not?
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MountAverageGuru
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You sound like an asshole.
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na2398Xper 7
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Honestly, idc whether my girlfriend is a virgin or not. She won't have to go anywhere when she's with me. She'll get love and affection for the rest of her life.
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TwalliMaster
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My girlfriend was one and she was 31 when we met.
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AFellowWeeb
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well, thats rare
Twalli
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@AFellowWeeb true. Most girls and guys are not virgins leaving highschool
WhteverneverXper 6
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I hope not. I hope they all get laid
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In_TranceMaster
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Waiting won't solve the issue
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AFellowWeebXper 6
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'' I have lots of female friends and they all lost their virginities at around 15-18'' there's your answer
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barn_stormerExplorer
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go younger before it's too late
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Dbach
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He’s 19 I don’t think he can go that much younger
barn_stormer
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@Dbach he can go to the very limits of the law
msc545Master
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They exist. There are 2 of them in Utah. That's it.
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Yourman89Xper 5
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Good luck lop
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Jmmmfi4Guru
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Dude just fuck one of them hoes and get it over with
You're waiting for a winning lottery ticket when you got slot machine right in front of you
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YuuibtonyXper 7
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No because good means to not sin at all, so everybody is bad no one good
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