Guys, What would you do if a girl is a bit scared to get on top of you?

I am personally afraid I won't be able to move properly.
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  • It's all about honesty and trust. I'd try and ease you into it and it's something we could work on over time, I'd help you get comfortable and soon enjoy being on top and switching.
    If she was too scared to do it, that's fine with me but I'd be willing to help her overcome the fear

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  • That depends on whether it's something she wants to do, or not.

    If she wants to, then I'll reassure and help her. If she doesn't want to, then she doesn't have to.

  • I would take her hands and help her to balance herself and learn how to do it, it's not a big thing if you are afraid of it, Take my advice and practice it with a dildo

  • Ok any time you try something new in sex there is going to be insecrety but like all things you just need to practice at it. It may be awkward but when you try something new you might need to ask each other how the sex went so you can figure out how to do it better

  • Guide her and show her how to row and go up and down.

  • I'd grab her hips and tell her she needn't worry about falling off and, if she does, I'd be happy to lift back into the saddle.

  • Another position?

  • I prefer it that way. It gives her the opportunity to try different angles to see how much pleasure she gets from different positions

  • I will encourage her as I have done with my ex. She enjoyed it lot.

  • If she's afraid to get on top I would do the waterfall position with her this way I can either push her down on me or I can thrust up into her. I would do this every time we had sex until she gets comfortable riding me

  • Takes practice

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