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Why is it so common to find men who don't perform oral sex but you rarely hear about women who don't perform oral sex?

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Superb Opinion

  • It's "common" when women "commonly" select their men from a specific pool of men who tend to be overwhelmingly selfish and self-centered: the really good-looking guys that all the other women like too. These are the "players": they're attractive, often successful in their careers, and they're fun/exciting/a little dangerous - but they're also narcissists and only care about what THEY want.

    If you've ever seen the show Two And A Half Men, Charlie Harper (played by Charlie Sheen) is a great example of this type of guy. He has no trouble getting girls - he's decently attractive, he has money, a Malibu beach house, musical talent, and she's got lots of confidence. He's also incredibly selfish - but that only comes up AFTER the girl decides she really likes him. So, they break up, until she finds another guy just like him. Rinse, repeat.

    The UNselfish guys are "boring" on the outside - they don't party, they often don't have as much money or style, and the lack the excitement/danger factor that so many women find attractive, and so they tend to be invisible to most women, especially in a dating context. They tend to have a lot of the characteristics women SAY that they want, but most women never let things get far enough to even find that out. So... rinse and repeat.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • It was like what @MrOracle said, girls aim for good looking guys due to hypergamy, so they all go for the same, there are more women then men in most countries, yet the percentage of virgin men is allways higher than virgin women, because all women go for the same guys, and thats also why you can even see this on this same website, i saw countles girls with ''its complicated'' on relationship status and there are allways those that go anon and complain/get worried about their bfs still talking/seeing/texting their exes, then complain ALL men are pigs and cheat, when in reality ALL women want to date the same small percentage of men

    • When and where did you lose your virginity? ↗
      Notice how most girls lose their virginities way earlier than the guys, and not only that, the amount of men there that are older that never even had sex.
      There was even one girl that at the age of 16 had sex with a 36 yo man.
      Women just hate unexperienced/virgin men, than complain that the older and with much more option guys dont care about them, basic maths

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Most Helpful Girls

  • My boyfriend hasn’t performed oral on me because he said he doesn’t like to perform oral. Although, I bet if I told him I wasn’t comfortable with oral he’d be fine with having sex or a hand job. I haven’t found it to be extremely common, but if a man doesn’t want to perform oral on you, then he shouldn’t throw a fit if you don’t want to perform oral on him.

    • Leave him!! What guy doesn't like to give oral. Orals are the best thing 🤤

  • I don't think that there is a great difference between girls and guys giving oral. I guess a lot guys won't confess that they lick their girl. On the other side, my friends are quite open in talking about their sexual relationship.

    • Wow you love to give oral

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Personally I'd give the girl all the oral sex she wanted, even if I didn't like it I'd still do it to please her, but I think I will like it!
    Maybe some men don't like the stuff that happens with girls like monthly cycle and things? No idea but I'm for giving oral

  • When I see polls here, the vast majority of men perform oral sex.

  • Cause men are usually more into cumming than the whole act of sex. Don't understand it either, I could put gibing oral sex even before sex itself if I had to chose only one 😂🤤

  • I hear about the same, women and men who do not perform oral sex.
    I love to perform oral sex myself... look forward to it.
    I think for different reasons.

  • I think this is because all guys accept bj and some chicks don’t accept oral. I think we taught them this behaviour 🙄 I know I did.

    • Nope you don’t do anything like that nor you taught me.

  • no idea because there are plenty of them out there

  • I guess I hang out with real men and not metrosexuals or faggots but muff-diving is a sacred rite for us.

  • It’s vice versa I think

  • Because women don't demand enough from their men.

  • We both perform oral sex to each other. It is always the beginning of sex after kissing.

  • My wife hates oral. She refused to do it. So they are out there.

    • Yes, but they are not as common as men who don't perform oral sex.

  • I don't know
    I like going down on girls

  • Society says women have to perform it.

  • Are you kidding? Married women stop giving head right after " I do"

    • Check @MrOracle

  • First I hear of that. Where are you from? Maybe you should move lol

  • I love given oral

  • I don't know guys suck! I don't know why they won’t go down it’s one of my favorite sexual activities

  • I would actually prefer to go down on her than have her suck me off.

  • I don't know why men dont i know I do but there are plenty of women who don't. I just avoid them

  • I prefer not to have oral sex done on me and I will do it for her

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